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im truly madly deeply in love with this girl that i dont even know i know its weird but i just need to have her how should i go upon this if we dont even know each other other than passing by each other in hallways and seeing each other in the cafeteria full of people i dont have the courage i think to do it in the cafeteria..i been observing for 5 months now and i seem to sometimes catch her looking at me
wut are some ways that arent awkward
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bump in to her by 'accident' and start talkgin to her from there
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Have some confidence! Even shy people have confidence. We all don't have telekenetic skills you know. The only way we can communicate is by talking. Awkward=cute in most cases. Awkward moments make you smile and go wow. Awkward is a wonderful feeling. I love it how shy girls build up the confidence to say hi to me and then run away right after. Makes me smile... If you dont want to be awkward, you have to be creative. Do things that would make her HAVE to come talk to you again, or vice versa. easy. I'd rather be awkward, makes it more memorable and special. ITS CUTE! ahahaha.
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If you're truly madly deeply in love with this girl, you'd just have the urge to talk to her right? Even if you dont even know each other other than passing by each other in hallways and seeing each other in the cafeteria, you'd just have to bring up something that's happening there. She probably wont say much, so you should ask more questions than talk, and LISTEN. Listening is what you should learn to do. You catch her looking at you, so what do you do? You smile and walk by her, and start a conversation BY ASKING A QUESTION. It's an easy way to start a convo.... Common sense right? JUST DO IT! I should buy you a Nike Hat.
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have a friend who's friend with her introduce you guys but in a non-obvious way
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Whoa there speedy pants, i advise you to get to know her first.
First impressions can sometimes throw you off.
Take it slow, you sound like you're ready to marry this girl. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
Anyways, try to make the first meeting natural. Does your friend know her? Classmates? Same teacher or same class together? Small things count. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif) gluck!
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what are you trying to do? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wacko.gif)
sorta sounds like infatuation; dont rush it...you may make a disaster outta it (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif)
and meeting her...try to get friends to intro you! or maybe approach her about a common topic (homework of a class you have together?)
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we dont have classes together, i dont think i have friends that are her friends as well, (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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if u've been observing her for five months then shouldn't u know a few more places where u can catch her?
any way you approach her, it'll be awkward. she's seen you looking at her and it's been five months after all, so she already knows your motives. but then again, it's a good thing cos everything's out in the open.
find a time where she's not with friends, walk up to her and talk naturally. be confident and make her interested. don't throw yourself at her. treat the first time as an introductory thing. say something to keep her thinking about you. then perhaps the next time u pass her, wave at her but don't approach her. then maybe after the third time get her email.
anyway, better sooner than later. good luck!
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you have alot of girl problems :\ just start randomly talking to them. i like it when guys do that [:
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Hmm, how can you be in love with her, when you don't know her? But, you should get to know her if you like her that much. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) I don't have any advice on how to approch her though, sorry. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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hahaha you sound like someone i know
but idont think he'd go on this site
(international student +attitude) hahaha
CONFESS ON VDAY LOL
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i messed up. my friends set me up and they wrote this valentines card and wrote my name and her name and added notes on it.
they then made it to a paper airplane and flew it towards her. i think it hit her head. she ignored it but knows my grp threw it to her.i think she knows that i like her alrdy because i kept looking at her b4 this whole thing happened and she noticed me. anyways, 30 min after the incident happened a couple of her friends came and she finally read the note ( idont know what the note says because my friends made it, all i know is it says To: her name and From: me) they then started to giggle and 5 min later she threw it towards us but it failed halfway she picked it up and never threw back again...class started after that and nothing happened
now my plan is maybe when i see her at the halls tomorrow i should sorry and somewhat eventually ask her out? what do u suggest in a situation like this?
