Question:
Well there is this guy that my friend made a bet with me to ask him to the last dance and i lost it so i have to ask. however the problem is i don't even no the guy except for one incident a while ago when my friend was (without telling me) went up to him and said ' my friend over there thinks your cute. do you think shes cute? and he was like ' yeah but i don't really no her and then she was like ' ok wanna meet her' and he came. and was like ' hi.' and i was like 'uhh hi?.
so the question is SHOULD I DO IT OR NOT? because it seems kinda stupid since we are just strangers but yeah i want to do it a little but im scared but then i should to stop being so shy and stuff.
description of the guy (for better judgement): hes a pastor's child. =.=
Answer:
Don't do it, unless it's something you really want to do? Why don't you want to do it? Why do you want to do it?
Answer:
First off, what is wrong with being a pastor's child? Like so many other generalization and stereotypes, it's not right to judge him. He didn't have a choice in choosing his parents. What's more wrong is asking him to the dance b/c you lost the bet. Besides, he doesn't know you and vice versa, so save both of you the trouble of having to deal with awkwardness you two could've avoided in the first place. Really, do you want to do it simply to say you can back up your end of a lost bet? Unless you like the guy and are interested (reasons apart from the bet), then perhaps yes, but don't do it just b/c you feel you have to since losing the bet. How would you feel if you discovered someone ask you out b/c he lost a bet?
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i think you should do whatever you think is right. asking us soompiers would just make you even more confuse b/c trust me. there will be people who think you should ask him, and there will be people who think that you shouldn't ask him.
either way. you make the end decision. if it was me, i'd ask him; but that's only b/c i'm not afraid to meet new people. heck that's how i met some of my friends =P
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Is being a PK a negative characteristic? I'm a pk and as far as I know, I'm just as normal and fun as everyone else, unless you're the big party girl, that is. You shouldn't ask unless you know that he will also feel confortable with you; come the big dance awkwardness is a definite no. Go for it if he's also interested. If not .. the obvious contrary.
But you know, if he is the total round about perfect dude .. you can have fun even if you don't know him.
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First off, what is wrong with being a pastor's child? Like so many other generalization and stereotypes, it's not right to judge him. He didn't have a choice in choosing his parents. What's more wrong is asking him to the dance b/c you lost the bet. Besides, he doesn't know you and vice versa, so save both of you the trouble of having to deal with awkwardness you two could've avoided in the first place. Really, do you want to do it simply to say you can back up your end of a lost bet? Unless you like the guy and are interested (reasons apart from the bet), then perhaps yes, but don't do it just b/c you feel you have to since losing the bet. How would you feel if you discovered someone ask you out b/c he lost a bet?
I am not just doing it for the bet. I mean thats obvoiusly a reason but I guess the reason that i haven't already done it yet is that everytime i see him i get really nervous and i was a bit interested in him in the first place. I wouldn't just do that to someone. I mean I had no problem talking to all these random guys today when I'm usually reserved around new people so I thought I would be ready to finally ask him...but when i see him I just feel like throwing up..
and the bad part is...tomorrows the LAST DAY! T_T I really just want to but then I don't want to but I want to.. also what do I exactly say?
hi ******, I'm *******, you seem like a really nice guy that i'd like to get to know better. Do you want to go to the last dance with me?
eh?
EH??
Answer:
I say don't do it because it's rude to him. You're only asking him because you lost a bet. Honestly, I would feel like crap if I know someone asked me to a dance only because he lost a bet. But since you say you have other reasons then I guess you'll have to think it through. If he ever finds out that it was because of a bet, that's all he'll think of it as and he might get offended.
Go with what you think is right.
