Question:
okay. my friend's having problems right now and she wanted me to post this. please leave some advice (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
so i broke up with a guy 2-3months ago and i had feelings for him. so i wrote a letter to him about how i still liked him and i was confused whether or not he liked me..cuz he was being all confusing sayin that he likes me one day and doesnt the next day. so im waiting for his answer..but on the otherhand..there is this guy that likes me..but he is a reall close friend and i dont want to ruin it. however,..i feel like i like him..so i was thinkin about going out with him.. for like a day or week or so to see what it's like..good idea or no?
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OHHHHHH THE PAINNNNNNNN
its really up to her.
if we tell her to date the ex is she really going to date the ex?
if we tell her to eat poop is she going to eat it?
she should have her own train of thought and decision.
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....so kid-dish.
Why would she want to date her good friend for a day to see how it goes? She's a really confused girl!
You can not play a guy's heart like that!!
Tell your friend to either: MOVE ON from her Ex, or STOP GIVING SIGNS to her friend.
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You can not play a guy's heart like that!!
Tell your friend to either: MOVE ON from her Ex, or STOP GIVING SIGNS to her friend.
Basically.
Only she knows it. DOES she like her friend? o_0;
Cause if she says that she only wants to date him for a day or a week JUST so she could see how it goes ..
then there isn't much of much there.
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umm ... i ono what to say but it's her decision ...
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Well she has to figure out who she really likes or if she really does like either of them. Does she like them or does she like the attention she gets from someone liking her? Does she like them because of how they treat her or does she just want a bf? We really can't help her out because it's all based on how she feels towards the two guys.
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just choose one. if she chooses both the everyone will get into deeper crap.
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her friend. the ex bf is being a little whiny b*tch.
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i think she should get rid of her ex and just date her friend. but tell her not to date him only for a week. thats just gonna hurt him and that's just gonna hurt their friendship.
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Screw relationships sounds like your not ready...date around...date both of them see wich you like better...you should look at dating like test driving a car you dont' commit to it till your abosolutely certain you picked the right one...and just like cars sometimes the thing you thought was best at the time isn't so you get another.
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^ i think thats why she wanted to try going out with her friend.
however.. i think i know who she's talkin about and i gotta say that.. she still has strong feelings for her ex.
but the way her best friend is acting, its really confusing her if she likes him or just likes him as that brotherly love..
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Thanks for all the replies. All though some of them seemed like they were stating the obvious..
Obviously the decision is up to her. She just wants to know what other people think cause she doesn't want to make the wrong decision.
Also, she isn't giving signs. He liked her before so it's not like she's giving signs to like her or anything.
Anyway, thanks for the replies. She appreciates it (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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damn...i think your friend should lay off guys for awhile....i mean...she's young, does she have to have a guy?...if she's so confused about her relationships right now, why not be single and not have one at all? the first guy she broke up with, there must've been a reaosn strong enough for her to breka up with him, but the reason for her getting together with him, is it big enough to forget the reason she broke up with him?..i don't knwo if that made any sense..but yea... and that new guy, i recommend that she takes her time and not jump into it...she just came out of a relationship, hopefully, she's cleared her mind about relationships and lieks the guy for who he is, and not just cuz he's interested...
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Now why would she do that? And what happens if she goes out with that good friend and she decides she doesn't like it? A ruined friendship? A heartbroken guy? I mean if she really likes him and plans to stay with him, sure she can, but she's in a tight situation because her ex. Also, if she does go out with her good friend, what about her ex? Wouldn't he be mad or no? Is that right? I don't think it is. Well, it's up to her, just my 2 cents
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HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA I THINK YOUR HOTT. and in my opinion i say she should just dump the ex because come on know if he had feelings for you then he would of probally done something but he didn't. its good that your trying to keep the friend relationship going but i guess its hurting him. i just say you should just wait and until you get over your ex or just both of them. timing is everything nah mean? HAHAH SHOOT IM SO GAY why am i replying.
