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He and I had a huge fight and broke up 2 months ago. He came by the house and gave me back some stuff I gave him, including a really expensive sweater I got him for his birthday. Anyway, we are back together and doing fine now and I'm not sure if I should give him back his stuff or keep it or what? I wanted to donate it or just burn it but I can't bare to give away or destroy such nice things I bought with my own money! But at the same time everytime I'm about to give it back to him I think back to the fight we had and I don't think he deserves it back because of the way he behaved during the breakup. Should I just let go of that moment and give back what I bought him or throw it away or what? I definetely don't want to keep it in my posession any longer.
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just give it back to him since you don't want it anymore anyways. If you've gotten back together, he think he deserves it back...i mean, when you got back with him, you forgave him already.
So why not?
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just give it back if you dont want it.
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oh be nice. give him the sweater
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Give it back to him and stop being spiteful.
-Luna-
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I would give it back to him, because you're sort of starting a new relationship.
When you guys got back together, you put all problems aside.
If you don't feel like he deserves the things back .. aren't you still holding a grudge from a previous fight?
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give it back to him. you guys ARE back together
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just give it back to him. im sure he wants it back but to afraid to ask x.x
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Well if you guys are back together, that means you've forgiven and forgotten about it. Whether you really did forget about it, well that's a different issue, but you should give it back. It's not doing you any good keeping the sweater, and you did get it for him because you wanted him to have it.
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give it back to him~
what else can u do with that sweater (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif)
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if its a fresh relationship then dont give it back.. i mean its like bringing the past into the present. whts the point
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oh wow..i agree with Juli~3.. i say that you either pack it up safely soemwhere or straight out ask him if he wants it back...since you guys are starting over anew, you shouldn't let the past ruin what you have...but if you relaly feel like he wants it, then ask him if he does...if he says yes..then go ahead...
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give it back to him. iono why he gave it back to you. i think a present from a bf/gf is yours to keep, even if you guys broke up.
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I'd say keep it and do something else with it x______x Causeif it were me and every time I saw him wore it, it'd remind me when he gave me back that sweater.. which will remind me WHY he gave that sweater (the breakup / fight) which will make me cranky (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) But that's just me xD
