Question:
There's this guy that I am constantly hanging around with currently and I think I'm falling for him but then I'm such an idiot! I kept on doing things and end up humiliating myself in front of him. I am not doing it on purpose, it just happens...
Like for example, the other day at the bus stop, he saw me off but then I kinda spaced out and rode the wrong bus and the bad part was he knew what happened and tried to call me but my phone was running out of battery so I did not get his call.
Also, I am scared that he'll only see me as his younger sister because some people who've seen us would usually ask if I was his younger sister and other people would comment that I'm a baby and he'd tease me as a baby.
The bad part of it all is that he just got his heart broken 3-4 months ago. Some people say who knew the girl who broke his heart that I remind them of her. I don't want him to like me because I remind him of this girl who broke his heart and neither do I want him not to like me because I remind him of the other girl.
I don't know but I'm feeling pretty hopeless right now so I'm trying to fight this feeling because I'm scared that he won't like me back and that he'll break my heart again.
Answer:
You're making it sound like it's the end of the world if he doesnt' like you back. People will like or hate you for who you are, and you can't make them like or hate you so you don't have to worry about them liking/hating you. This applies to all kinds of relationship.
So what if he doesn't like you? How bad can it be? At the worst you'll feel crappy for a while but you'll eventually accept the fact and move on. Just take it easy and don't give yourself unnecessary worries/stress/drama.
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I think you're in the friend zone. its pretty hard to get out of.
my motto is whenever i meet someone, i decide right away if its gonna be friends or someone i chase after.
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You remind me of a girl that I once knew. See her face whenever I look at you. Wouldn't believe all of the things she put me through. This is why I just can't get with you. -Usher
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^HAHHAH........
anyways uh takes chance :]
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you seem to be with a different guy every month =l
well you can`t make him like you
and the world won`t end if he doesn`t
just tell him straight out you like him and get your answer
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Yeah, honestly it's not going to be horrendous if he doesn't like you back like that. Sometimes a really good friendship is better than a relationship.
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LOL...im sorry..ahaha lol you rode on the wrong bus? you're funny..lol
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this actually happened to me last weekend
3 months ago my gf broke up with me, and it was a bad break up
then last weekend one of my friends of the opposite sex (girl) told me that she liked me and her feelings and stuff, but then i dont feel the same way with her
you never know if he will like you
but theres a chance, you just have to take the risk
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you seem to be with a different guy every month =l
well you can`t make him like you
and the world won`t end if he doesn`t
just tell him straight out you like him and get your answer
I agree, and we are not him, we don't know him, we can't read his mind, therefore, we can't give you an answer.
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Face the truth. Tell him.
And whatever answers comes out. Good or bad.
It's life.
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If it just happens then it's alright. You're just showing him the truth of you. You don't want to pretend to be someone else and try to do everything perfect in front of him.
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you seem to be with a different guy every month =l
well you can`t make him like you
and the world won`t end if he doesn`t
just tell him straight out you like him and get your answer
ei! no fair- I was talking about the same guy-- that same guy that I've been talking about for the past 6-8 months. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wacko.gif)
It's just that I just can't help but feel like he thinks I'm some ditzy blonde- i'm not even blonde
