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My friend had this problem with this guy she met but she's asking this question......she's trying to come up with a resolution whether or not she'll let it happen or not...
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) ' would you fall for this kind of guy?
good points:
1.very smart- consistent dean's lister
2.generous - he often treats his friends out-every weekend
3.flawless skin - even better than mine
4.hardworking -everything he has now, he worked for it
5.rich- because of his being a hardworker (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
6.caring- he would drop his female friends home whenever they're out late
7.nice- he treats everyone with respect
bad points:
1.eats a whole lot- as in.-whever we eat together, I wanted to throw up when I see how much food he could consume (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif)
2.eyes often wander (girl watch)- whenever a pretty girl passes by his eyes wander off (IMG:style_emoticons/default/vicx.gif) he would even stop and talk to a pretty girl when they go out.
3.wears perfume for women (IMG:style_emoticons/default/w00t.gif) and he even sprays it inside his car so that his friends could smell it
4.gets scared of pimples (IMG:style_emoticons/default/vicx.gif) he once had a pimple and insisted to buy somthing for it so that it won't scar his face
5.when it comes to courting girls, he is not persistent (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wacko.gif)
6. He's been dumped by a number of girls before
7.workaholic
*big tummy (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ohmy.gif) -he's now going to the gym
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so basically he is smart and rich but he is a sloppy fat slob...
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Guy seems sort of unusual, and it seems like your friend is really interested in this guy for his money, because there are a lot of references referring to money, or something to do with money in this thread. The guy gets scared of pimples..lmao..
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yeah sure. i'll date a dude like that.
if i was a chick.
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2.eyes often wander (girl watch)- whenever a pretty girl passes by his eyes wander off (IMG:style_emoticons/default/vicx.gif)
3.wears perfume for women (IMG:style_emoticons/default/w00t.gif)
4.gets scared of pimples (IMG:style_emoticons/default/vicx.gif)
6.big tummy (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ohmy.gif)
That just kinda threw me off right there.
Because of those 4, I say no.
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No..I don't want to be with a guy who can't control his eyeballs when I'm around and I don't want him constantly buying food for other people either.
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Maybe she should get to know him more rather than just judge him on those points.
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No..I don't want to be with a guy who can't control his eyeballs when I'm around and I don't want him constantly buying food for other people either.
So you're saying that you want to be alone for the rest of your life? Better change the way you think, if you think that guys won't look at girls. It's just how well they use their peripheral vision to check out girls.
What's so wrong about being scared of pimples? And why the hell would you care if he ate so much? Are you afraid of food? Being afraid of a pimple is normal, while being scared of food is having a borderline anorexic train of thought.
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Maybe she should get to know him more rather than just judge him on those points.
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I would say no because of #4. There's a chance that his eyes wll still wander off after he goes out with her right?
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Hmmm.... I guess it depends on how much time your friend and that guy spends together. He has some good quality, but some bad ones also.
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I was fine until I read that he wears women's perfume. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's not normal, right? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
I think your friend is being too technical about it. Is she attracted to him? If she is then she'll get accustomed to his faults.
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So you're saying that you want to be alone for the rest of your life? Better change the way you think, if you think that guys won't look at girls. It's just how well they use their peripheral vision to check out girls.
Learn to read better. I never said I didn't want a guy who won't look at girls; I said I didn't want one that looks at other girls when I'M AROUND. Big difference there. Learn that difference or else you're gonna end up upsetting some future girlfriend. And then you'll be the one who's going to be alone. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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so he's a nice guy, since girls don't like nice guys why bother if she's not going to end up liking him anyway.
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EFF THE PERFUME! HE'S RICH! THAT SHOULD BE AN AUTOMATIC YES IN ANYONE'S BOOK!
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EFF THE PERFUME! HE'S RICH! THAT SHOULD BE AN AUTOMATIC YES IN ANYONE'S BOOK!
Gold digger!!! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
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I don't really like a guy with a big tummy... Lol.
He sounds like a pig though.
EHH, maybe...?
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ahh. the tyipcal rich, nerdy, fat person. but he wears womens perfume? so hes sorta homo? werid
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She should go out with him once more and get to know
him better. He sounds nice, and if she feels safe with him...why not?
Only becaues he looks after other girls... the eye of men always look
for other girls, but they are just a look. Mostly they don`t want
anything but just one look.
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So you're saying that you want to be alone for the rest of your life? Better change the way you think, if you think that guys won't look at girls. It's just how well they use their peripheral vision to check out girls.
What's so wrong about being scared of pimples? And why the hell would you care if he ate so much? Are you afraid of food? Being afraid of a pimple is normal, while being scared of food is having a borderline anorexic train of thought.
I would care if a guy ate too much for fear he's going to turn into some overweight slob. I'm sure you would be concern about a girl eating too much too. It goes both ways. Being overweight or chubby isnt exactly a turn on for some people.
