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My ex went on this school trip to france for two weeks, there were teachers and everything and well there were these lets just say odd guys there on the trip too. I however could not go and I had to spend the two weeks at Schofield Barracks (Army Base) and I spent the whole time patiently waiting. Then when she comes back I rushed to see her, and she was just acting differently, almost cold. Then two days later she breaks up with me just before Junior Prom... And like I'm left wondering what happened in France? She said that she didnt feel the same way anymore (her excuse) and I personally suspect that something did in fact happen in France. And the next day shes dating this guy that was on the trip with her...
Any of you guys ever been stuck in this situation before, like you were dumped and you know the reason was total BS?
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YES. not my bf .. but my ex ..
we broke up but i guess we still liked each other
and we said we'd do something after
we both went on our vacations ...
i come back and i find out that
he became interested in a girl that
went w/ him and his friends ... it SUCKS.
he never said it was cuz of her, he was juss
like 'oh its not gonna work out again'
i say deal with it and move on.
i dont like being hung up on
sh.t that you know u cant change ..
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aww, sorry to hear that from both of you..
people can make up excuses so well nowadays..but eh, don't fall in love too deep, or else you'll get hurt even though you can't control your feeling sometimes..
but feel better soon..and by the way, it hasn't happened to me.. ;] single life is fun btw..hehe
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aww, sorry to hear that from both of you..
people can make up excuses so well nowadays..but eh, don't fall in love too deep, or else you'll get hurt even though you can't control your feeling sometimes..
but feel better soon..and by the way, it hasn't happened to me.. ;] single life is fun btw..hehe
I agree.
But man, it do really sucks when that happens.
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maybe something happened in france with that guy, she prolli cheeated on you and felt bad so she broke up with you? anyway why dont you find out.
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Well, I would but then like it would be awkward wouldnt it? Because this was like a year ago, and its not like I cant talk to her, its just that when I do its weird and short. Plus everytime I see her with Ray I get really pissed and it just ruins my day. Should I ask her?
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My ex went on this school trip to france for two weeks, there were teachers and everything and well there were these lets just say odd guys there on the trip too. I however could not go and I had to spend the two weeks at Schofield Barracks (Army Base) and I spent the whole time patiently waiting. Then when she comes back I rushed to see her, and she was just acting differently, almost cold. Then two days later she breaks up with me just before Junior Prom... And like I'm left wondering what happened in France? She said that she didnt feel the same way anymore (her excuse) and I personally suspect that something did in fact happen in France. And the next day shes dating this guy that was on the trip with her...
Any of you guys ever been stuck in this situation before, like you were dumped and you know the reason was total BS?
ouch dude. that sucks.
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I wasnt the person that got left, i left a person. I don't feel bad about it, becuase i have my reasons. I don't purposely go oh, i want to like him so i will and dump my bf so i dont cheat Plus, the other guy treated me better, was a gentleman. Every vacation i ended up seeing him. Christmas/Winter/Spring, all those vacations i saw him, and SOMETHING happened. That guy i left ended up asking me out again too.
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ugh yeah that happened to me too! my ex and i used to be in a long distance relationship (stupid, i know. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) ) but yeah he broke up with me saying that it doesn't work out but the real reason was because he was interested in some girl at his school and he got together with her 2 days after we broke up. now i know better why long distance relationships don't always work out. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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I wasnt the person that got left, i left a person. I don't feel bad about it, becuase i have my reasons. I don't purposely go oh, i want to like him so i will and dump my bf so i dont cheat Plus, the other guy treated me better, was a gentleman. Every vacation i ended up seeing him. Christmas/Winter/Spring, all those vacations i saw him, and SOMETHING happened. That guy i left ended up asking me out again too.
you are such a horrible heartless person
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she's not really a long distance r. type I guess
I'm sorry.
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totally suck , and i can kinda relate...ughhh.....
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you are such a horrible heartless person
no, not really? if i was heartless, i would've either gone out with both of them, or went out with the same guy eventhough i didn't like him that much. if you dont like a person, but go out with them, thats just not right. I don't control who i like and who i don't like, its beyond anyones control.
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Well, I would but then like it would be awkward wouldnt it? Because this was like a year ago, and its not like I cant talk to her, its just that when I do its weird and short. Plus everytime I see her with Ray I get really pissed and it just ruins my day. Should I ask her?
umm no. why should u, its the past, like someone else said, move on.
even if u were curious...there really is no point in bringing it up unless u like her or something.
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Well, I would but then like it would be awkward wouldnt it? Because this was like a year ago, and its not like I cant talk to her, its just that when I do its weird and short. Plus everytime I see her with Ray I get really pissed and it just ruins my day. Should I ask her?
If it bothers you to the point where it gets you so mad it ruins your day... I would say go for it, go ask. Would you really wanna live your whole life wondering? Or would you just rather know and move on? I dunno about you but i would rather know then to never know and wonder and just get madd over it. Its pointless.
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eh, luckily I didn't. but after my ex broke up with me, then he went to disney land [school's orchestra field trip] and then there he developed a feeling towards my friend.. =/
for what happened to you, i've realized that whenever a couple is separated, one of them would get so worried and go crazy over things like that. _ in my opinion, your ex is just so cruel.. how can she dump you then get with one of the guys who went to France with her the next day... slut.. _ atleast she could wait a week or so just to give some respect to you. *sigh
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sounds like something comin out of the real world: france
