Question:
Well this is what happen to me 2 weeks ago on a sat night and i desperately need some advice.
ME
I envied everyone since i never got butterflies and sweaty palms, my friend said that i was very emotionally inert.
I have had girlfriends b4 but i never liked them.
HER
Now theres this gurl that i have known for 1 year i never knew i liked her until that night. We were at my friends birthday party at this beach house and we were spending 2 nights and three days there and on the last night we spent this incredible night together and i realised SHE WAS THE ONE. I told her how much i like and all. And she also said that she has liked me as well. I could have, pardon me slept with her but i chose not to, any other time i would of but i really didnt want to cos i really liked her. When she was in my arms she looked soo beautiful to me. She was the most beautiful gurl i have seen and i couldnt believe that she was in my arms. I know in reality she isnt the most beautiful gurl but i realised what love was, to me she was the most beautiful girl.
She has meet alot of farked up guys that treat her like i can't read. First bf was a liar and cheated on her, 2nd took money off her and soo on and she has had 4 bfs. I know i could treat her better and i told her about how i know she has had farked up bf's so i told her that i could treat her better. Then she started crying and we had a long talk all night till 7:30 in the morning and we fell asleep in each others arms.
Problem
She has a bf, and he is in jail a inhouse jail, in house jail is when they have a sensor on their ankle and when the go outside the preimeters of the house the cops come straight away.
What she told me that night was that if she breaks up with her bf then her bf would KILL ME and i dont doubt her cos i know who he is and he is famous, he is a big drug lord and he wouldnt think twice to kill me.
She said would i be abit to wait for her and i said yes, cos i could wait to the end of time for her. I asked her how long and she said about a year. At that time i didnt know why she said a year but i realise now that maybe she said that so she can break up with her bf and wait till he gets over her but im not sure.
the next night when we came back to sydney she looked distressed, she was distressed all day actually then at a resturaunt she told me not to wait.
i was totally farked i couldnt believe a person can go to heaven and fall to hell that quicky. When my friend was driving her home she was sitting in back seat and when my friend went outside the car for a moment she played with my hair and kissed me. i Shoved her hand off and told her DONT PLAY WITH MY HEART.
Now
i havnt seen her for 2 weeks and during the two weeks i have lost my apetite(lost 3 kilos in the first week) and i can only think about her i have not been studying though i really have to since im a uni student. In the two weeks i found out that her bf came out of jail AND GUESS WHAT he came out on the monday less then 12 hours since i left her i guess thats why she was soo distressed.
Then i heard him and his friends bashed some guy at a night club just cos he was checking her out. He got kicked out and she stayed inside cos she was pissed off and drank her probs away.
WHAT SHOULD I DO WHAT IF SHE IS THE ONE
sorry its a bit long isnt it
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Well this is what happen to me 2 weeks ago on a sat night and i desperately need some advice.
ME
I envied everyone since i never got butterflies and sweaty palms, my friend said that i was very emotionally inert.
I have had girlfriends b4 but i never liked them.
HER
Now theres this gurl that i have known for 1 year i never knew i liked her until that night. We were at my friends birthday party at this beach house and we were spending 2 nights and three days there and on the last night we spent this incredible night together and i realised SHE WAS THE ONE. I told her how much i like and all. And she also said that she has liked me as well. I could have, pardon me slept with her but i chose not to, any other time i would of but i really didnt want to cos i really liked her. When she was in my arms she looked soo beautiful to me. She was the most beautiful gurl i have seen and i couldnt believe that she was in my arms. I know in reality she isnt the most beautiful gurl but i realised what love was, to me she was the most beautiful girl.
She has meet alot of farked up guys that treat her like i can't read. First bf was a liar and cheated on her, 2nd took money off her and soo on and she has had 4 bfs. I know i could treat her better and i told her about how i know she has had farked up bf's so i told her that i could treat her better. Then she started crying and we had a long talk all night till 7:30 in the morning and we fell asleep in each others arms.
Problem
She has a bf, and he is in jail a inhouse jail, in house jail is when they have a sensor on their ankle and when the go outside the preimeters of the house the cops come straight away.
What she told me that night was that if she breaks up with her bf then her bf would KILL ME and i dont doubt her cos i know who he is and he is famous, he is a big drug lord and he wouldnt think twice to kill me.
She said would i be abit to wait for her and i said yes, cos i could wait to the end of time for her. I asked her how long and she said about a year. At that time i didnt know why she said a year but i realise now that maybe she said that so she can break up with her bf and wait till he gets over her but im not sure.
the next night when we came back to sydney she looked distressed, she was distressed all day actually then at a resturaunt she told me not to wait.
i was totally farked i couldnt believe a person can go to heaven and fall to hell that quicky. When my friend was driving her home she was sitting in back seat and when my friend went outside the car for a moment she played with my hair and kissed me. i Shoved her hand off and told her DONT PLAY WITH MY HEART.
Now
i havnt seen her for 2 weeks and during the two weeks i have lost my apetite(lost 3 kilos in the first week) and i can only think about her i have not been studying though i really have to since im a uni student. In the two weeks i found out that her bf came out of jail AND GUESS WHAT he came out on the monday less then 12 hours since i left her i guess thats why she was soo distressed.
Then i heard him and his friends bashed some guy at a night club just cos he was checking her out. He got kicked out and she stayed inside cos she was pissed off and drank her probs away.
WHAT SHOULD I DO WHAT IF SHE IS THE ONE
sorry its a bit long isnt it
sweety, pplz.
try to forget her and move on.
the situation is too messed up and dangerous.
i don't think she has the courage to break up with him.
i am sorry but what kinda gals would go out with a drug lord at the first
place?
must be a money-chaser kinda gals.
i think you must forget her and date some decent gals.
this gal is not a gf nor future-wife materials.
sorry, sweety, i just gotto break it to you.
cheer up.
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(IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif) WOAH what a messed up situation.. well then wahts da point of going out wit her if ur gonna die later o-o.
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If something like that happens, just wait.
See if she comes to you, if not, then... move on. I mean, I don't know because I never been in a situation like that before. -__-
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I personally think there will be more the ones coming your way. You have ONE life only. Think about that.
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she could be ur one, but doesnt mean you HAVE to be with and end up with her. ever thought about that?
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yeah i wouldnt touch that
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sweety, pplz.
try to forget her and move on.
the situation is too messed up and dangerous.
i don't think she has the courage to break up with him.
i am sorry but what kinda gals would go out with a drug lord at the first
place?
must be a money-chaser kinda gals.
i think you must forget her and date some decent gals.
this gal is not a gf nor future-wife materials.
sorry, sweety, i just gotto break it to you.
cheer up.
yup yup, true.
You should forget about her. A drug lord is wayy too dangerous. She left you, it's for the good.
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i agree with fallen*angel*
move one with your life!
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To love someone is to want that person to be happy for the rest of her/his life? Is she happy? Will she be happy with you?
Does it matter what we think? Are you willing to risk your life for someone you love?
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i am sorry but what kinda gals would go out with a drug lord at the first
place?
must be a money-chaser kinda gals.
just cos someone's a drug dealer, it doesnt mean they're a heartless jerk
some Girls that date these types of guys are brave enough to go after what they love even though they're putting themselves in danger
she's probably not breakin up wit her bf to protect u
and ure being pretty selfish expectin her to break it off that quickly
she doesn't want to be selfish by makin u wait cos it may take awhile
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Attraction isn't a choice.
I think that she is natrually attracted to bad boys considering her past and her current relationship. Also i think you should stay away from her because she asked you to wait and yet she still flirted around with the the other day. What is this? you just met her for a day and she is all over you and she chose to be in this relationship (in the beginning) with a guy who makes a living out of other peoples suffering.
IMO i don't think this is worth it, even if it is love.
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I don't think your pass the infatuation phase, so you're expecting alot from this girl.
I think your best bet is to move on. Obviously, this is a complicated situation and this girl isn't willing to risk it all, to be with you. So let her go.
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Unfortunately, this situation is getting too sticky for you to get caught up in. You should leave before you become way too attached to her. She has a boyfriend, and it doesn't look like she leaving him anytime soon. It's best to move on and either put off dating for a while, or find someone else.
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i dont think you need to risk your life for her.
wait a year. or dont wait.
that's all you can do.
getting yourself bashed up would be just plain stupid.
goodluck =)
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If you can wait for her, then try. But if not then please move on. I agree with what the others are saying... her bf is too dangerous. You don't want to risk your life for her and to find out in the end that she isn't the one you're looking for.
Before you make your decision, think things through. It might seem as though she's the one at this moment because you thought you two had something special. It might not be true. Rethink everything straight and be sure about it.
But don't think too hard... Good luck to you.
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yeah seriously..don't risk your life for her (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif)
not worth it..
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move on.
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wow O_O. uh. move on. at least, try to. in years to come, i bet they'll end up breaking up or something...and if she really is the one...then you'll be able to turn around and start back where you started =]
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if you really love her then do whatever it takes to be with her.
Even if it comes to death...
And if she really loves you she'll sacracfice everything...
Woah, i'm going to far.
But if you really don't have that much strong feelings for her then at least try and move on...
It'll take a while to forget her but in the end, it'll all work out.
