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Okay, here's the deal. My guyfriend became my boyfriend on Friday, may 12....I mean I usually have a feeling of happiness, but all I got was a shocking and surprise feeling. He was the one who was blushing and have butterflies in his tummy. I mean it's been 3 years since I dated anyone. Not that no one hasn't asked me out before, casue there were few guys who asked me out and i rejected them. Because I wanted a boyfriend who i feel comfortable with, that treats me right, has alot of things in common, makes me laugh, and all those things. He is close to all of those. I said yes when he asked me, but then i started to have second thoughts. Becasue on that same day, I just found out that my other guyfriend liked me too! But yeah... after awile, since he asked me out on the phone, i started to have a tug in my heart and then came the butterflies and I started to think about him and what will happen at school and all thse things. I just feel weird. But he likes me and I kind of like him. Not 100% like him, but 60% of liking him. It's becasue he's not asian and I am. He's Polish. i think that's how you spell it. And I keep on worrying even thou I doubt there's anything to worry about. but we are keeping it on the low. I don;t want my parents to find out about our relationship, casue then they'll tell me to stop seeing him, just becasue he's not asian. Well...I don;t know if this goes with the topic...but yeah.
Are we really boyfriend and girlfriend now????
Please any comments will help!!!!
Thanks!!
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If he asked you to be his girlfriend, and you said yes, you're his girlfriend. There's no more than common sense to that.
AND What the heck is 100% like him, but 60% of liking him.
There's an amount to liking someone? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
I can see from that you're already in a bit of trouble. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
And if you don't really feel for him, and feel you might like someone else/see yourself with someone else/feel awkward about going out with him because of someone else, drop him. SAVE HIM the trouble of getting away from YOU, 'cause that's messing around with someone's heart.
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i guess if you're having second thoughts than maybe you aren't really girlfriend and boyfriends. I can kind of relate. Being friends with someone for so long you start seeing them as someone who's cute and someone you really care about. It gets to the point where you start having thoughts about your feelings for him...do you like him as a boyfriend or just as a friend? But even though you're having second thoughts i think you should talk to him about it and give him a chance. Promise each other that no matter what happens you both will stay friends.
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If he asked you to be his girlfriend, and you said yes, you're his girlfriend. There's no more than common sense to that.
AND What the heck is 100% like him, but 60% of liking him.
There's an amount to liking someone? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
I can see from that you're already in a bit of trouble. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
And if you don't really feel for him, and feel you might like someone else/see yourself with someone else/feel awkward about going out with him because of someone else, drop him. SAVE HIM the trouble of getting away from YOU, 'cause that's messing around with someone's heart.
lol yeah you're right bout the answer to her question. hahaha but you can partially like someone. it's happened to me a lot.
but yeah she's right...save yourselves the trouble plus he's a very good friend no? if you're not 100% sure about this you should stop it before you two get too deep into your relationship because relationships can damage friendships.
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ooo teenage love... so clueless 3
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from the looks of this... YES YOU ARE...
but if you dont want to... err.. that's your choice to make!
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you shouldn't put race into the issue of trying to decide if you like him or not...
i understand that it may be an issue for your parents, but they can probably get over that....
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what are you, 10? im not even gonna bother to read that, i mean, u did say yes, so you guys are.
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ooo teenage love... so clueless 3
I TOTAL AGREE!!! these type of post by these tennie bopper are funnie and very entertaining.
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If he asked you to be his girlfriend, and you said yes, you're his girlfriend. There's no more than common sense to that.
AND What the heck is 100% like him, but 60% of liking him.
There's an amount to liking someone? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
I can see from that you're already in a bit of trouble. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
And if you don't really feel for him, and feel you might like someone else/see yourself with someone else/feel awkward about going out with him because of someone else, drop him. SAVE HIM the trouble of getting away from YOU, 'cause that's messing around with someone's heart.
nicely said.
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If he asked you out on the phone, and you agreed, then you two are boyfriend/girlfriend.
If you only like 60%, then do you see the two of you together in the long run? If you feel like there are a lot of guys liking you and you don't want to be committed to your current relationship, then maybe the best solution to do is to break up with him since you guys are fresh...
But if you really like him, and think that things will change, so that you like 100% then continue on.
Best luck with the relationship though.
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yea if he asked you to be his girlfriend and you said yes... i don't know if you're really trying to ask that question..? o_O;; well you don't hafta like him 100%.. you might probly like him even more later on because it happened to me.. not that i didn't like my bf in the beginning or anything but i grew to like him even more than before... so yeah. well best wishes to ya.
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ooo teenage love... so clueless 3
indeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed ~ 333
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you guys are gf bfs... but like grows..it takes a while to adapt..
if you think you don't have a chance and you want your other guy friend...break it off now, before everyone gets REALLY hurt!
=)
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If he asked you to be his girlfriend, and you said yes, you're his girlfriend. There's no more than common sense to that.
AND What the heck is 100% like him, but 60% of liking him.
There's an amount to liking someone? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
I AGREE.
AND YOU LIKE HIM 60% BECAUSE HE'S POLISH?
THAT'S A EFFIN` STUPID EXCUSE.
THERE'S NO LAW THAT SAYS YOU HAVE TO LIKE AN ASIAN GUY 100%,
AND A POLISH GUY 60%. THAT'S JUST THE START OF RACISM.
YOU KNOW, JUST FROM READING THIS,
I CAN TELL YOU'RE VERY CLOSED-MINDED.
I CAN TELL THAT I WOULDN'T LIKE YOU IF I KNEW YOU.
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if you have second thoughts. break it off... it doesn't matter what race he is... that's discriminating and rude.. tell your friends to watch their mouths if they're racist like that...
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If he asked you to be his girlfriend, and you said yes, you're his girlfriend. There's no more than common sense to that.
AND What the heck is 100% like him, but 60% of liking him.
There's an amount to liking someone? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
I can see from that you're already in a bit of trouble. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
And if you don't really feel for him, and feel you might like someone else/see yourself with someone else/feel awkward about going out with him because of someone else, drop him. SAVE HIM the trouble of getting away from YOU, 'cause that's messing around with someone's heart.
cool way to say it and right too (IMG:style_emoticons/default/w00t.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/excl.gif)
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Thanks for your comments. It really helped me out. We are still bf and gf. I hope we don't break each others heart in the future. Becasue I really like him. He so funny, yet he is also like a gentleman.
Thanks so much! I put down some comments for some replies.
I hope I didn't offend anyone!! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
AND YOU LIKE HIM 60% BECAUSE HE'S POLISH?
THAT'S A EFFIN` STUPID EXCUSE.
THERE'S NO LAW THAT SAYS YOU HAVE TO LIKE AN ASIAN GUY 100%,
AND A POLISH GUY 60%. THAT'S JUST THE START OF RACISM.
YOU KNOW, JUST FROM READING THIS,
I CAN TELL YOU'RE VERY CLOSED-MINDED.
I CAN TELL THAT I WOULDN'T LIKE YOU IF I KNEW YOU.
I don't like just he's polish. I like him because he's been a good friend and when I frist met him, I felt so close to him then my other friends. It's just that I just met him and it's been 3 yrs so, I was just surprise. But I don't really care what race he is. I'll still like him. And I'm liking him more by the sec.
And I didn't say I have to like asian guys 100% I'm not that kind of person who only thinks of the race. I don't really care what race they are.
I intend to panic when it comes to relationship becasue in the past with guys was so hard and they broke my heart. I dont want that to happen. But I can tell he's different. But if you ever knew me, it's okay if you don't like me. I know my words might make me sound b!tchy but I'm not that kind. I was scared to like someone, becasue I was scared of getting my heart break. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
what are you, 10? im not even gonna bother to read that, i mean, u did say yes, so you guys are.
I'm 14!!!! T___T
If he asked you to be his girlfriend, and you said yes, you're his girlfriend. There's no more than common sense to that.
AND What the heck is 100% like him, but 60% of liking him.
There's an amount to liking someone?
I can see from that you're already in a bit of trouble.
And if you don't really feel for him, and feel you might like someone else/see yourself with someone else/feel awkward about going out with him because of someone else, drop him. SAVE HIM the trouble of getting away from YOU, 'cause that's messing around with someone's heart.
...............I DO LIKE HIM!!! And I usually find my self saying Any guy deserves a better girl than me. but now that I talked to him, I noticed that WTF was I worrying about. I really like him. I have butterfiles in my tummy for him! AND i'm not trying to play with peoples heart. What I'm trying to point out is that....I guess I just over reacted. I'm so happy being with him. He makes me happy. And I don't care what my parents think anymore. I know it's good sometimes, but I as long as we like each other, than i don;t care what other people say. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blush.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
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um...yes? o.0 u sed yes.
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I'm 14!!!! T___T
That says it all.
