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SO SORRY I DIDN'T EXPLAIN IT CLEAR....
I'm asking for a friend........
both ppl aren't dating........their very close friends...........
their is a guy and a girl
both met thru a therapy group session
they connect and made a promise with each other never to separate, always be their when the other is in need, still together no matter how hard the situation is.........
however the girl couldn't face life ani more so she trys to committ suicide, but her brother found her letters to everyone and they save her......now she is alive and well........
her parents pull her out of the group session saying that it isn't good or doing much to help her, she has no clues what just happen.....no intentions her parents are going to do that........
he heard from the therapist and felt the girl betrayed him so he committed suicide and die.
his father calls her and gave her letters in an envelope to her........reading the letters she cry and blamed herself...
now she doesn't know what to do.......
his father wants her to speak out at his funeral.....
I HOPE THIS IS CLEAR.
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huh???
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huh???
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SOMETIMES...promises are meant to be broken, just like rules, theres always acceptions
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^yeah like if you couldn't keep the promise no matter what
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I don't think I would.
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huh???
I would have to consider the situation.
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huh???
yeah, i`m not sure i quite get this either
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not exactly MAD, but i would feel bad.
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depends on the situation.
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huh???
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this is why i never make a promise to anyone....
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what?
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i would be mad... if someone stopped being friends with me because of my parents. that happened before (my parents and my friend's parents really hated each other) but i didn't stop being friends with my friend just because of that. if i did, imo i would be a very crappy friend, and it wouldn't be worth it to be friends with me.. but that's just me, i guess it all really depends on teh situation.
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i would be mad, but at her parents not her. i will TRY to be understand towards her tho
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both ppl aren't dating........
The promise was about being together...getting thru problems together and not separating...being friends...sticking together no matter what...would you have committed and write letters blaming on her?
Babes don't feel so bad (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
If it was me, I would feel like some sort of agony { don't think it's your fault } people have the rights in most cases to make their own choices.
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I don't think I would.
me too
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SO SORRY I DIDN'T EXPLAIN IT WELL ENOUGH SO I EDIT IT!
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Wow, that's sooo sad.
It's not the girls' fault or anything, because it was the guy's choice to do that -_____-;;
I mean there are some things you simply cannot control in life.
And this is one of them.
Hope your friend's doing okay though.
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I think in this situation, our opinions really wouldn't be valid to that situation. Many of us are not mentally depressed, so whether we'd be mad at this certain broken promise would not be the same thought as the male in your case would think.
Whether it is you or your friend (no offense, but I don't buy the I'm writing for a friend thing from anybody), nobody's opinion here or anywhere can justify or disapprove the male's action, so if you're looking for something to steer your emotions one way or another, you should look into your own heart and answer the question yourself. These are your feelings. Only you can determine what is right and what is wrong to you.
