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This would be my first time posting something like this on this forum.
I just needed some advice.
There's this guy at my school. And I think he's really cute, he hangs around with one of my guy friend(guy friend is a junior) at school, he's a junior I think. I'm a freshmen.
I wante to know his name really badly, so I had my friend tell me. So now I know the guy I think is cute's name. One problem is, I don't think he knows my name or if I even exist, cause I'm not friends with him. How did I first see him? Well, durning lunch time last month, I was walking to the musicroom, and I saw him and thought he was REALLY cute and from then on I wanted to know his name. Guy friend told me that he was shy and quiet.
I told my friends, (girls) and they told me to go introduce myself and be friends with him. But I can't. I'm too shy and scared. And REALLY shy around guys I think is cute or like.
And one of my friends even suggest that she go up to him and drag me along to introduce me to him, and she doens't know him too. but I told her no, I won't know anything to say to him. .!
Even if he doesn't know me and I don't know much about him, I think I like him. .! I've liked other guys before, but this guy is different.
Should I get the guts and go up to him and introduce myself??
I can't decided or anything.
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I think you should have guts and confidence at all times even if it weren't for stuff like this. That's basically how I met all the people I met; I don't wait for people to notice me, I get them to notice me myself.
Have a clear idea what your goal is before doing anything, otherwise you'd have to improvise anything that comes your way. For example, life.
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since he is a very shy person, I suggest you should be the one that had the guts and go introduce yourself to him^^
GOOD LUCK!
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I recommend just introducing yourself when you all are in a group of friends since he is shy.
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ok! now it wud seem awkward now wudn't it if u wer the one to first introduce urself.. coz apperently its the guys job to make the first move and bla blaz rite. buh it doesn't have to be u know. buh heres the thing.. try to get ur friend who's in junior and that knows him to like do something wer u'll have the opportunity to do sumtn with him.. get to know him thru ur friend. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) buh if it doesn't work, jus do sumtn crazy with ur life and go talk to him (IMG:style_emoticons/default/w00t.gif)
good luck tho
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i don't feel the age difference would be an issue [since you put the emphasis on it]. when i was a freshman, i dated a senior at one point.
and i've definitely been in situations like this. if you don't talk to this guy, you'll definitely regret it. and if he's so shy and reserved, i doubt he'd have the courage to approach you. so just seize the moment, introduce yourself, be friendly. or have your guy friend invite him and a few others out, and you can take that opportunity to get to know him.
just go for it (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
what's the worst that could happen?
good luck!3
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Same situation is happening to me.
I have a huge crush on this junior guy and I dont even know
him ... ==''
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same thing is happening with me ):
it's really hard and embarassing..i can't just 'meet' them..they'll be like 'wtf? this is so random'
maybe you can hang out with your guy friend when he is there..it makes it easier to talk to him..
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Same here, I like this really cute guy at school too but I'm too scared to go talk to him. My friend is his friend because they have math together, so maybe some day I'll get to be friends with him, because he has a girlfriend, and I don't want to cause problems.
My advice hang out with your guy friend, then ask him to introduce you guys (because it's rude not to introduce ppl.) RIGHT????hehehe.....
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Ha ha ha. We're all in the same boat, now aren't we? He's in TWO of my classes. o___0. And I still don't know him. I mean, it's class. There's little time to talk and actually know people. Unless you're sitting next to them. And I'm not.
See, he's also in my gym class as well. But... that's just awkward.
Apparently I told my friend and she was like, last year, almost all the girls in 8th grade liked him. Sheesh, that really reassures me.
I think I'll come up with some complicated way. Or just have my friends introduce me to him. Well, he knows who I am. Since, I am a smart-aleck in class. And apparently even the gym teachers love me and pick on me for demonstrations. Sheesh.
Eargh. What shall I do? I can't give you much advice. I'd probably make it worse. XD
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I know what you're going through (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) We're in the same situation ;P
I've actually decided to say hi, but I'm just like you.. shy (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) but then again, so is he and if I don't do anything now, nothing will happen.. keep that in mind (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
you've got nothing to lose, right?
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Hahaha... I swear I was in the same situation. Get your guy friend to introduce you. Just talk to him. The first step is always just talking to him and getting to know him. Overcome that shyness and the first step and then you will get some where!
trust me it works.
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Ummm well yeah, of course he doesnt know you. You're not the only one, there's million people out there that he havent even meet.
If you want to get to know him, you should be more confident since your friend got the gut to drag him over for you. ^^ That's nice.
If you think he was different, you should try it out..
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rape him.
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you don't like him . you think he's cute . you've never SPOKEN to him , and you only found out his name because you asked someone else . what do you like about him ? how nice he looks ? hate to tell you , but that doesn't mean anything . we all see good looking people around the place . there's a guy i think is good looking who i see all the time . i don't LIKE HIM , though ! wow .
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you don't like him . you think he's cute . you've never SPOKEN to him , and you only found out his name because you asked someone else . what do you like about him ? how nice he looks ? hate to tell you , but that doesn't mean anything . we all see good looking people around the place . there's a guy i think is good looking who i see all the time . i don't LIKE HIM , though ! wow .
That's kind of harsh, but true.
It's just an infatuation. I bet if you didn't see him for a month, you'll be over it.
But I guess I should give advice instead of a lecture. If you really want to like this guy, don't be shy and get to know him. You're lucky, you have a friend that knows him. Just hint for your friend to introduce you to him and when you do, be outgoing and nice and make an impression.
It's hard with different grades, but it's also easier since sort of a new experience. Btw, being shy will get you nowhere in this situation.
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Thank you all for your advice^^, i'll try to get the guts and go talk to him. and be friend with him ^^, if not, i'll have my friends drag me. .
but um Battle Cat i don't wanna rape him. lmfao! haha, i was laughing at your comment.
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OKAY
imagine this he graduates without u ever having the chance to talk to him.
So get some courage
Fate is made by the people who try i think this is some quote in yah shim mam man
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rape him.
Eye for an eye justice. Remember, it's in the Bible! Girls should be able to rape a guy right back. That'll teach him. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
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thanks K-boy
haha DaRkViEt73 you and battle cat are funny.
it's weird when a girl rapes a guy, bc hte guy would have no control, while hte girl does. O_oa
