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okayyy. so my friend is in a lil bundle in her relationship with her bf right now & i figured that i need some feedback from my fellow soompiers! so in advance.. thank you so much for taking your time on clicking & reading this post!!
okay so. my friend is really happy with her bf. she couldnt be any happier with him. he did & said all these sweet things for her.. he was really different from the past guys she`s dated. but then as months passed.. they weren`t really able to hang out as much because he was busy with work & he had to go out sometimes afterwards & he would come back home late & he would be tired. he still logged on everytime to say g`night to her & still acted the same when they spent time together.
but she feels that nowadays.. he hasn`t been calling her as much. he sounds different than how he had been when they talked online. she saved some past conversations with him & her.. & she feels as if he`s starting to lose interest in her.. she knows that he still cares but she`s really paranoid & worried. also because her last relationship broke her heart really bad.. and her ex-bf left her because he started losing feelings for her. so that`s another reason why she keeps thinking that.
what do you guys think...? any opinions are welcome but please don`t be rude.. =/ once again... thank you.
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Your friend should tell her bf how she feels.
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worse scenario: maybe he has met someone elsewhere...e.g work?
why is this all based online?
can't they take face to face?
why log on and say goodnight when there is a phone?
i'm sorry...it sounds weird...doesn't really sound like a relationship to me.
just talk to him about it FACE to FACE if it really is bugging her...maybe you need to spend like ACTUAL time together?
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^ why is this all based online? can't they take face to face? why log on and say goodnight when there is a phone?
it's not. they do see each other & talk to each other on the phone but they usually say good night online because he always comes home late and he doesn't want to wake up his family. unless he calls because he can't go online then yeah... oh and they can't really see each other much because he has work and she has school.
thanks for responding to the both of you! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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Well, if she's worried about him loosing interest. Maybe she should talk to him first before making assumptions.
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if she's very important to him, then he should MAKE time. if all she hears are excuses rather than effords, then maybe work seems to be more important.
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Possibly he might have lost interest in her and doesn't know how to tell her. My brother isn't working yet, but he does xtracurricular activities and school work till the middle of the night. He still spends like a couple of hours talking to his gf every nite (usually till 12:30 sometimes past 1).
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Well, if she's worried about him loosing interest. Maybe she should talk to him first before making assumptions.
Yes. She can either keep worrying, or ask him about it.
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She should ask him about it instaed of worrying by herself. Poeple grow apart and lose feelings.It happens. If that such a fear for her she shoul ay off relationships until she accepts that.
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just ask (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) tell her to tell him that she's feeling neglected and misses him.
