Question:
me and this girl grew up together and now we are grown up. we both have jobs and go to school. we didnt go to highschool together because we were cities apart but we still kept in contact and now she has moved back.
we both admit we still love each other. the thing that bugs me is that she became a partier while im not. she likes clubbin yet i dont. im up to partying/going clubbing with her but for me, now isn't the time. i want to get my life in check first.
so i kinda feel intimidated. it kinda feels like shes older than me when we are the same age...
how do i feel less like this or is there something i can do or tell myself? and no i won't give her up for this reason... it just bothers me...
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you're not acting like a true mafia then.
imagine how the mafia would view this and follow.
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you're not acting like a true mafia then.
imagine how the mafia would view this and follow.
hey... even the soprano dude comes out gay...
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dude. she lieks u just hang out not hard
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hey... even the soprano dude comes out gay...
the whole choice of becoming gay or not gay is your choice, mafia.
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you feel intimidated but you just feel like that cause she seems more experienced
people change and you have to accept her change. you shouldn't need to change yourself to make yourself fit in with her...
take things slow,,,you've been apart for a while....sure, she likes clubbing but maybe she isn't all about that...maybe she's the same person within?
=)
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it's about compromises.
if you love her, then just let her go partying and clubbing.
she's still young, it's normal.
if you're not really the partying kinda guy,
then just go hang out with your buddies
while she goes out with her friends.
if she loves you,
she'll go clubbing less.
maybe once every week or every 2 weeks or something.
as long as you trust her,
it's all good.
you can't control what happens in the club,
but whether if it's the club or not,
it'll probally happen somewhere else or in some other situation.
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mafia knows how to get crunk and dance better than all their ex-gf and current gf.
it doesn't matter what the girl would feel or not.
you just have a better time than her. if a girl thinks she can go clubbing for fun.
you go strip clubs and get drunk.
the way = b u l u = tells you how, if you love her, then just let her go partying and clubbing.
that's not always a right thing to do.
you do your own clubbing and make her feel confused, because you go clubbing more.
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it's about compromises.
if you love her, then just let her go partying and clubbing.
she's still young, it's normal.
if you're not really the partying kinda guy,
then just go hang out with your buddies
while she goes out with her friends.
if she loves you,
she'll go clubbing less.
maybe once every week or every 2 weeks or something.
ooo yea i trust her not to do anything stupid but yea she does go less now... =)
mafia knows how to get crunk and dance better than all their ex-gf and current gf.
it doesn't matter what the girl would feel or not.
you just have a better time than her. if a girl thinks she can go clubbing for fun.
you go strip clubs and get drunk.
lol. this was a way better advice than your earlier posts...
nvm... i take that back... i see u edited ur post...
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the way i'm telling you this is.. for your good.
i'm a guy, so i totally understand what you're going through right now.
but if you get an advice from a girl.
you basically spoil her and she's all over the place.
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i'll be the first one to say all these advices suck.
and that you either drop all your crap now regardless how vital, and try to bag her and crap before she mets some hot fella for a fling which will screw you over or she meets some cool cat.
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shes not the type to leave me =)
