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don't you ever feel that way? it's just those times when you're trying to figure out if your crush likes you back or not before you reveal to him or her that you like them
ARGH! i'm going through that phase right now...i've liked him for nine months now, and still, i havent done anything...part of the reason is because we have a lot of mutual friends, and it'll be 100 times more embarrassing if they all knew he rejected me *sniff sniff*
[edit] lots of you are saying confess, but how should I go about doing it?
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but whats the point of having a crush?
do u actually want somethng to happend between u and him? cause if u do, u kno ur gonna have to tell him u like him.
its better to kno that u were rejected than to question what could have been. maybe it might work out. u never kno.
edit: ohh u edited....haha darn i read the whole thing too.
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well you dont know if you dont try i guess.
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I make things easier for myself by confronting those unknowns. Broke a friendship with her in doing so, but meh, she's graduating and probably going back to Japan by the time I'm out of high school (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
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haha i know exactly how you're feeling
i want to ask him to prom... but i'm afraid that he'll reject me and then i'll be crushed.... it wouldn't hurt as bad if i didn't like him so much... but yeah... T____T
if he saids yes... then at end of june.. i will tell him i like him and leave it at that cause i'll probably never see him again anyway... but if he saids no... then he will never know that i like him and how amazing i think he is... haha =P
cause atleast if he saids yes... then i know that he isn't totally (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif) with me... haha i mean we're friends... haha but not close ones and then i would feel a little safer if i told him how i felt without being totally disappointed even though i'm not expecting or really wanting anything out of it
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hahaha, yeah i know what you mean. Been there. done that. just tell him personally so that only he and you knows then the rejection wouldn't be known to all your friends. Hopefully he's not the type to tell people when things like that happen. good luck.
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i know whatcha mean, just try and get close to him and see if theres any messages he tries to give you.
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hey, girl! haven't seen you for ages!
so...crush, huh?...well i think you should talk to him since as i get from your story he's a friend of yours, and not a totally stranger... and it's always better to know that it's a yes or a no, than being in a maybe...
although i know it sounds so easy but doing so is really hard... i haven't told my crush either...although i didn't know him THAT well...ah..dunno, having a crush is so annoying...
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dont you guys ever look back and think something like gosh, i wish i told him i liked him..
just thinking back to like.. 1st grade or something.
knowing i may someday regret not knowing whether this attraction was mutual or not, and whether there couldve been something beautiful.. pushes me to act. =]
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my crush told me she has a longtime crush. ie i have never been in her mind since the beginning. it was the closest ive ever been to crying since i was 8 and some jr high kid kicked my butt and stole my skateboard.
anyway don't not do anything. even if you know the outcome is going to be no. cuz you never know. later on he may start thinking about you and then eventually like you cuz he's thinking about you so much.
that has happened to me often. a girl who is definitely not my type will errr reveal her feelings ( bleh gobaek is such a descriptive word) and i have no choice but to think about how to let her down and if i let her down gently and whatever. and then eventually if she gets a bf or hangs around boys i start to feel jealous for no reason. like, hey why did she stop liking me lol. then your feelings start to change. its mostly just selfishness on my part but hey if thats what gets positive attention.
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Gawd, totally. __ It's been like three months now.
And I'm going insane trying to figure out if he likes me back &
what the fck all the 'events' that's happened between us mean. =__=;;
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well...then you can't be frustrated if you're scared to do anything.
take the risk, if he doesn't like you back you can forget about him and move on.
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Gawd, totally. __ It's been like three months now.
And I'm going insane trying to figure out if he likes me back &
what the fck all the 'events' that's happened between us mean. =__=;; (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) totally agree Ryuusei.
I analyse indepth everything said and done in the events shared with my crush. I'm not that delusional to believe my conclusions - but it gives me something to think about.
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i hate it when i start liking a guy that i know i shouldnt be liking,
because i know we're not right for each other. you know? THAT drives
ME crazy.
but i overanalyze everything- usually i'm patient enough
to see if he likes me. i drop subtle hints and see how he reacts
to them, then if it's a positive reaction, i kind of give him
a clue that i like him.
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I went through similar circumstances. He and I had common friends but I needed to get it off my chest before it drove me crazy. I admitted it to him and we had a nice long conversation. In the end, we didn't get together after all but we came out it all as stronger friends. It was a pleasant surprise and I didn't have to live with regrets. Go for it. Nothing's worse than regrets =)
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wow. . i've had a crush on a guy for like 12 years already, and i have never tried to figure out whether he likes me or not and even thought about telling him. . aww, when am i going to go through that phase. .
aish. . well, if you're trying to figure out whether he likes you or not, maybe you should do a lil 'investigating' throught friends. . or if you want to find out faster and easier, just tell him straight out that you like him, then u'll get your answer. .
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If you don't take a chance, then you don't got one.
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sometimes rejection is better than regret.
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you better tell him fast... cause i didnt and now hes going with someone else... i think... lol SUCCKKSSSSS 3
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No one wants to face rejection, but sooner or later you'll regret not telling him.
Gather up your courage and tell him! You won't know what will happen unless you tell him.
