Question:
*sorry this is kinda long ^^;;
ok..i wrote an entry about this not too long ago
about how i couldn't decide whether to tell this guy i liked him or not..
and how i was gonna sing to him for his bday present..or part of it..
it took me forever to decide what i should do @.@..because of a few things..
1. another girl possibly likes him...
and see..this girl is sooo sweet and i just became friends with her..
so i thought it wouldn't be fair if i told..[ok..let's call him D] D..that i liked him..
because he could possibly like me back..and she wouldn't have a chance..
i know that sounds stupid..-.-;; but i really don't like causing other people pain..-.-;;
but back to the point..
2. D possibly liking another girl..
and maybe the same girl that possibly likes him..
and i don't like drama..so i wouldn't have wanted to be a part of that..
3. because i have had bad experiences with relationships in the past..-.-;;
and my last one ended with me getting really hurt..
so telling him i liked him would take a lot courage..which i lack most of the time -.-;
but ANYWHOO..
his bestfriend told me that the other girl didn't like him..
which i thought..and still think is weird..because i have this strong feeling that she does..=/
but the thing is..i did it..i told him....why?..i don't know...the pressure?..
my friends kept on telling me to tell him..-.-;;
was that a stupid move?....possibly..
has anything changed after i told him?..not really..
our relationship is almost exactly the same....
except it feels a bit awkward at times..
or maybe it's just all me..-.-;
but yea..he didn't tell me how he felt yet..and i don't know if he ever will..
you think maybe he's just pretending this didn't happen?
i don't know..=/
i feel like something's wrong..i'm not sure what it is..
but i feel like some way or another..whatever the outcome of this is..
i'll get hurt..again
i'm kinda already hurting now..because of..something...
but what would you guys do?..would you guys just move on?
cz this isn't just something that i can ignore and pretend that it didn't happen..
he's my BEST guy friend..ahhh~~ @.@ so confusing..
sorry if some of this didn't make any sense..
i suck at explaining things ^^;;
Answer:
its just a boy
don`t trip =)
you`re thinking too much
Answer:
Ask him if he likes you. If he don't move on
Answer:
I would just continue on with the friendship. I wouldn't ask him what his feelings are either if your thinking of doing that. From what is seems, he just wants friendship for now, and just keep it as it is. If he likes you, he'll confess sooner or later because he knows that you like him.
Answer:
It's not a bad thing that you confessed. Lot of people can't even attempt to (which i see is major problem not getting anywhere).
How did you confess to him/what was his reaction? did he just walked away?
As for now, don't avoid him or act different around him ...worse thing to do to create awakardness
Answer:
wew~ long thread, just ask him if he likes you and if you feel stupid about it dont look back
Answer:
you told him, there's nothing much you can do about it now =)
people usually tend to regret expressing how they feel to the ones they like, in fear of consequences or rejection.
but it feels good to have let it out, doesn't it?
if he doesn't say anything to you, then let it go.
but if your heart is still unsure and want answers from him, ask him =) it's always good to talk seriously. how long has it been since you told him you like him?
in some cases, you gotta gain happiness yourself instead of worrying too much about others.
hope everything goes well! ;D
Answer:
hm... he probably doesn't like you that way, if he did, he would've gave you an answer sooner.
there's nothing you can do, really. Just move on and try to be normal.
a friend of mine fell for this guy and confessed to him, the guy didn't like him but they turned out to be really close friends. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
its not that bad really, confessing to him isn't a bad move, because you didn't know how he felt, but now you know and you can move on. =)
Answer:
wait for an answer before you move on.
You dont know the results yet, and so dont constantly tell yourself 'he doesnt like you, move on'. You still have a chance he might possibly have the same feelings back, he just hasnt admitted it yet.
