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omgg.. this is really embrassing.. everyone probably have quesitons like this.. so umm.. bear with me here..
okay this guy in my senior vocal class and choir never really paid special attention to me or anything.. but starting this semester he would come and talk to me and spending more time with me.. the thing is that he is such a flirt and he always talk to girls like that..
well starting two weeks ago.. he would come up and hug me and tell me that i'm beautiful and stuff.. it's really sweet but i don't know if this is for real or not.
one of the girls said that he is a jerk and that he made her like him and then embrassed her in front of everyone..
so i don't know if he is for real or not.. -- so any suggestion would be welcome...
btw i never had a bf or anything so i dont know about these things..
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PLAYER.
most guys dont really go up to you, hug you, tell you your beautiful, after he has never paid attention to you for a semester.
Be careful seeing as you've never had a bf before. So, watch out for those guys that will break your heart.
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u shouldn't ....
why would he be all touchy when ur not even going out?
that means he doesn't respect ur personal space
he's not worth it
there's ur answer...he's a flirt....so nothing he says is real (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif)
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ugh what a big flirt. i hate guys like them.
they say something sweet to you but then sooner or later, you'd realize that they say the EXACT SAME THING to other girls. i think i'm goin thru the same situation as you and i am really confused about it (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wacko.gif)
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you should probably listen to what that girl said. that way you don't get played. keep it a friendly sort of thign and eventually he'll stop, just don't let him go too far. guys can be some of the most two faced jerks when they want to me and those type of guys aren't what we need =]
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exactly^
don't get play'd
he sounds like a typical player =\
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umm now that i read this.. he actually seem like a player... thank so much for answering my question.. ^^
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He sounds cool, wtf are you guys talking about?
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You may seem like an easy target to him (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
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he sounds like a player. a lot of jocks in my school are like that -.-
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WE ARE NOT HIM, WE DONT KNOW HIM, WE DONT KNOW YOU, WHY ARE YOU ASKING US?
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we need more info to come up with a conclusion
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play him back. be a gold digga fasho.
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Er, stay away.
I think most likely he`s going to aim for your heart and
break it. Don`t risk the chance of hurting yourself.
I don`t want to see a broken heart thread from you !
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I think he just wants to mess with your feelings just like he did with the other girl.
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That guy reminds me of me.
I like to complement girls on how they look and stuff like that. However, most people think I'm a jerk or just scary.
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Sometimes the best thing to do is listen to your peers rather than your heart. Other times it is the other way. Go with the first.
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WE ARE NOT HIM, WE DONT KNOW HIM, WE DONT KNOW YOU, WHY ARE YOU ASKING US?
f*cks your problem? if you cant help out then just stfu
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f*cks your problem? if you cant help out then just stfu
I actually think BGirl is right.. but she may have said it too harshly.
No one here would really know your situation. So its really hard to say exactly whether the guy is a player or not.
Just because he flirts with other girls doesn't mean he'll do it for life. The guy is a person after all and who says he doesn't have feelings?
Maybe he likes you and wants to get you jealous by flirting around with other girls.
Maybe his naturally a flirt and likes the attention of girls.
There are too many maybes in this world. And honestly no one can help you except yourself.
BUt from my experience- his past dating history says it all.
3 d.i.m.e Babii
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He doesn't like you until he tells you that he likes you.. treat every other thing as just flirting for fun or just as friends.
