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ok so my ex and i are still really good friends...but lately he's been all i havent gotten any and all my friends have.....which i kinda laughed off cuz i figured its one of those guy things...and then...he started saying things like hm lets have sex or saying things around those lines..
every time he asked i joked around and went hm..idk i think i can do better..and basically told him no.....
yesterday i was like i can't wait to see what happens the day you SERIOUSLY ask someone that and he was like well i did ask u seriously a bunch of times if u havent noticed.........
and i told him why i said no...was bc i kno a lot of times ppl will have sex and then the guy leaves the girl (by no means am i stereotyping i've just heard a lot of stories about this)...and he said well in order to do that we'd have to start dating again, have sex, and then i could leave you (he was joking around)
...now, i'm not really a big advocate of sex b4 marriage...so the answer is always no....
but why is he doing this? i really hope this is just a guy thing and that he's not really a shallow guy...but part of me thinks he and i still have feelings for each other..
um..anyone wanna help me understand?
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ok so my ex and i are still really good friends...but lately he's been all i havent gotten any and all my friends have.....which i kinda laughed off cuz i figured its one of those guy things...and then...he started saying things like hm lets have sex or saying things around those lines..
every time he asked i joked around and went hm..idk i think i can do better..and basically told him no.....
yesterday i was like i can't wait to see what happens the day you SERIOUSLY ask someone that and he was like well i did ask u seriously a bunch of times if u havent noticed.........
and i told him why i said no...was bc i kno a lot of times ppl will have sex and then the guy leaves the girl (by no means am i stereotyping i've just heard a lot of stories about this)...and he said well in order to do that we'd have to start dating again, have sex, and then i could leave you (he was joking around)
...now, i'm not really a big advocate of sex b4 marriage...so the answer is always no....
but why is he doing this? i really hope this is just a guy thing and that he's not really a shallow guy...but part of me thinks he and i still have feelings for each other..
um..anyone wanna help me understand?
sweety... don't fall into his trap. hes just playing with you, hoping to have free sex when he doesn't have a GF right now. he shows no serious committment nor any real feeling for you. if he does, he would have ask you to be his GF again, not asking for SEX. i mean, that shows no respect for you whatsoever. you're not his sex-toy.
i'd stop spend time with him.
you should spend time with your friends and start dating again if you could.
hanging around an EX who only wants to FOOL AROUND is a WASTE OF TIME, not to mention you might be tricked into doing something you'd regret later.
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He's just trying to play you. Don't fall into his trap. All he's trying to do is sleep with you, and leave you eventually.
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well in order to do that we'd have to start dating again, have sex, and then i could leave you
The guy is a player!!! (even his friends are players). When people joke... part of the joke is serious.
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^ Totally..
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He sounds like he's proud to proven the sterotype right that he would leave you after =O=
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everyones right honey, he's a player. he wants meaningless sex...what a d!ck
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AHAHHA call him a d!ck head. I would..-.-
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ok so mostly ppl have the same idea i did...
see whats interesting is he KNOWS i'm not easy..like he asked me why do all you intelligent girls hate to give guys any? and then i was like...yea.....no.
and he keeps telling me to come to the same college he's going to this fall...and he says i should do an overnight there w/ him.
psh. yea. NO.
this guy is out the door. thank you all!
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being a cockblock is the best thing to do.
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It's true, by what you said. A guy would get together with you, get sex, then leave you. It's true. I've heard lots of stories about that.
About that guy friend of yours... it's best to stay away from him. As you can tell, all he wants from you is sex, then he would leave you again. It's not worth your time. Tell him straight that the answer will always be a no and that he doesn't have to ask you anymore. He sounds like a jerk. Everyone is doing it; therefore, he feels left out? What a butt.
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What a jerk! From your post, he sounds exactly like a sex-obessed maniac. I suggest you either 1) Stop talking to him or 2) Be less 'close' with him. And tell him to shutup about having sex with him because you'll never agree to it..
