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Okay, well heres the story: I had a crush on my friend's older brother. He wasnt exactly what you'd call 'GOOD LOOKING' but he was extremely sweet and funny and always knew how to make me laugh.. somehow.
Anyways, at the time that I liked him, he was 19, and I, 14. I finally told him I liked him and he surprised me by telling me he liked me too, but he said the age difference was too big. T_T I pretended I didn't care anymore and didn't see him for about a year. Then, a couple weeks ago, I went over to my friend's house not knowing that he'd be there.. it was so awkward. I didn't speak to him at all, we avoided eye contact entirely. I told myself I didn't like him anymore but I guess I was LYING to myself because today, my friend told me he got a girlfriend and it broke my heart.
augh... i dont know what I should do. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
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try to get over him
if he has a girl and doesn't want to be with you..then you can't do anything to make him go with you instead
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i say move on. there is plenty of fishes left in the sea. i know im contradicting myself because im kinda in the same situation where i like this girl for some time now, but im stuck in that friend zone. but the age difference really is a big gap. if it mattered to him, then he isnt worth ur time. if he did really like u, then age wouldnt be a factor in his case. do what u feel is right. if u feel like pusuing this guy of urs, then do it. but remember this, id u do decide to go after him, there might be a chance that u would more hurt than u r right now.
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It's no fun if you give up.
For me, I don't see any point in just giving up just cause of factors such as friendship zone or hate or got b/f or g/f, cause it's rather amusing to see what happens in the end.
Why stop, when it's just started? People aren't patient to see what happens.
I don't believe in move on once you think it's impossible, cause only those that give up easily when confronted with any challenge whatsoever give up.
But of course, those are only my experiences with...people.
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He's obviously moved on, and so should you.
Maybe he'll think twice when you're 18. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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Okay, well heres the story: I had a crush on my friend's older brother. He wasnt exactly what you'd call 'GOOD LOOKING' but he was extremely sweet and funny and always knew how to make me laugh.. somehow.
Anyways, at the time that I liked him, he was 19, and I, 14. I finally told him I liked him and he surprised me by telling me he liked me too, but he said the age difference was too big. T_T I pretended I didn't care anymore and didn't see him for about a year. Then, a couple weeks ago, I went over to my friend's house not knowing that he'd be there.. it was so awkward. I didn't speak to him at all, we avoided eye contact entirely. I told myself I didn't like him anymore but I guess I was LYING to myself because today, my friend told me he got a girlfriend and it broke my heart.
augh... i dont know what I should do. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
Let me teach you something. Get another guy, and then make him jealous. Dress sexy and hot around him and show him what he doesn't have. Work yourself, work it.
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If he avoids eye contact with you maybe he does like you. But at the same time maybe he was being sincere when saying the age difference was too large. I think you should move on because nothing ever started.
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So that means you're about 15 now, and he's 20? He definitely can't think about you now. But maybe wait until you're 18, like someone else said. Who knows? Either way, you should focus on the life around you now.
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You're going to have to move on. There's really nothing else you can do. He has a gf so either if he's worth that much, wait for him to dump this new girl or just move on. So the more logical of the options is to get over him (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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Let me teach you something. Get another guy, and then make him jealous. Dress sexy and hot around him and show him what he doesn't have. Work yourself, work it.
I hope you're not serious. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif)
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give up on him or wait till you're 18..he's 20 now right..?I mean if you're liek 16/17, its fine, but 15 and 20, he can be charged for rape.
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It's hard on a guy to like someone that young. They know it's just wrong and the ridicule from society would really take it's toll on a person.
Just move on... be his friend if you could.. it would be sad to lose a friend like him since he was someone that could always make you laugh.
If anything... maybe when you become more legal, and he's single... maybe it could work out in the future. Why not make it into a romance story... something to tell the kids in the future. Lmao... just throwing that out there. Possibilities are endless.
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Like you said, you don't like him anymore.
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Let me teach you something. Get another guy, and then make him jealous. Dress sexy and hot around him and show him what he doesn't have. Work yourself, work it.
and exactly WHAT...........has that guy done to deserve that?
why do women think they can do things like this
times like this i`m ashamed of my own sex
haha
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lol. when i first heard it i thought it was quite cute. well.. anyway, try to get over him.
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Yeah, It could be bad news sometimes when you here someone you really liked is with someone else. I've been bitter, but its alright as long as he's happy, that's how I think of it.
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Okay, well heres the story: I had a crush on my friend's older brother. He wasnt exactly what you'd call 'GOOD LOOKING' but he was extremely sweet and funny and always knew how to make me laugh.. somehow.
Anyways, at the time that I liked him, he was 19, and I, 14. I finally told him I liked him and he surprised me by telling me he liked me too, but he said the age difference was too big. T_T I pretended I didn't care anymore and didn't see him for about a year. Then, a couple weeks ago, I went over to my friend's house not knowing that he'd be there.. it was so awkward. I didn't speak to him at all, we avoided eye contact entirely. I told myself I didn't like him anymore but I guess I was LYING to myself because today, my friend told me he got a girlfriend and it broke my heart.
augh... i dont know what I should do. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
pain is love
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awww sweety its alright. you'll eventually get over him when you like someone else but it seems as if you've still got some feelings for him
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So that means you're about 15 now, and he's 20? He definitely can't think about you now. But maybe wait until you're 18, like someone else said. Who knows? Either way, you should focus on the life around you now.
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Might sound hard and etc. but try get over him .. he has a girlfriend , and you've been denying your feelings which from my own experiences only makes what you feel grow tons stronger =| .. you shouldn't have to feel like this , when his moved on .. and if you still feel the same , just wait till your older ~ like other people have said .
