Question:
well, in the winter of this year I went to korea for my aunt's wedding. There I met a guy. Well it was kinda accidently. I met him the first day when I got to korea, because he worked at the hair salon I was getting my hair done at. Well, I went there with my grandmother, mom, and sister. I was done first out of them so I was just sitting there when he comes and talks to me. He tells me his name..lets call him Ben (of course his name is korean) and we hit it off. I found out that hes 20 (19 here) so it wasnt a HUGE difference since im 17 (18 there).
He asked me for my MSN, or my cellphone number. and since I didnt have a cellphone there, I gave him my MSN. like right when I left I guess he rushed to the nearest PC Bang. There he asked me out. i was hesitant in the beginning since I dont know him, but there was something about him that just led me to say yes. So I said yes, and we went out. It was great, and he was a gentleman and all of that good-stuff. but like..yeah. I was there for like 3months and we would see eachother almost every day.
Well one day, he asked me to meet him and I did. but this was ackward since it was at night time. I met him at his friends house. But when I got there his friend kinda pulled me into his house and told me that Ben was in the living room waiting for me. So I go, and to my surprise the room was like filled with candles. There was a HUGE heart on the floor and Ben was in the middle sitting in the middle with a piano. He played Gahm Gee (Cold) by Lee Ki CHan and then handed me a dozen roses and told me that he liked me and that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. He even got us a couple ring.
I have to be honest, I fell for him. I fell for him hard, and so I said yes. Being with him was just a great experience, and I think I might have acutally had stronger feelings then just like but not love. But the day came when it was time for me to go home. It was sad, and he told me that he would come visit me and that he loved me and stuff. So when I got home, for about 1 month we talked on the phone like all day and on MSN and stuff like that. everything was fine, but then I decided to end it. because things were getting complicated.
One thing I didnt tell you guys was that before I went to korea, there is another guy, Steve and he has liked me for a while. We started as Oppa, dongsang thing. but it kinda got more then that when steve told me he liked me. but I never had the same feelings, but he persisted and told me that he would like me until I gave him a chance and stuff. and I did, it didnt work out, but he still was like I like you and all of that.
Ben found out about Steve when he logged onto my MSN and Steve says, Hi baby. all the time to me. im used to it. but yeah, Ben doesnt know about Steve since me and Steve never had anything. and Steve didnt know about Ben because I didnt think it was nessacary. well now they both know about eachother and Ben thinks I broke up with him because of Steve and Steve keeps asking me to be his girlfriend. and all of that.
This is really bad drama! well I know this was long, but the main point is that, Steve likes me. Ben Likes me. And I like, Ben. Well i wouldnt have even broke up with him if I was still in korea. but I feel bad for Steve since it has literally been like 3 years since he has liked me, and he hasnt stopped. and Then there is Ben and i like him, but its not goin to work. and yeah...
SOMEONE HELP ME!
Answer:
You like Ben..and I know that you guys aren't in the same country and all..but maybe a long distance reltionship could work..but only if you put in the work..
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it's easy.. you like 'ben' so be with 'ben'
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i guess forget both since they r in korea and u r not..
maybe u'll find another guy who lives in the US--since the whole long distance thing is not working for u..
