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Sorry if this gets confusing... haha.
So I'm in a love triangle between the guy i like and his best friend who also likes him. He knows she likes him, and has a feeling i like him.
I'm not sure what to do cause in a way I want him to know, but in a way I don't because his own best friend fell for him and I just pop in out of no where. & sometimes I think he likes me too, but I don't want to get my hopes to high for nothing. I don't want to think too much about nothing.
Yeah, basically I'm lost. Help me? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)
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So one day... He was at my friend's house.. and she clled me up and said hey were are you Blah blah and I want to hang out with you. So of course I went. I went over to my friends house... yadddda and later I fell asleep. While I was asleep my friend told me that he asked her if i liked him. & my friend said what? i dunno no... and he said ohh, dang now i just feel conceited. So now he thinks I don't like him when I really do.
In a way I sorta want him to know, therefore I could get a bit of feedback? But I know the best thing I can do right now is go with the flow and maybe just give him a little hint. heh. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
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Um. I was sort of in one. My friend liked this girl. She liked me. I eventually liked her. Got ugly after a while.
If you're one to be considerate of others' feelings (Which sounds like you are), it might not be a bad idea to back off. If she's had years to work it out with him and nothings happened...well that's her loss, isn't it?
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Tell him you like him. Then let him choose..i guess??
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ummm..if u don't like the guy alot
just back down
easiest way
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But what if I don't want to back down?
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omg the drama... __ if you don't wanna back down then don't. Go for it.
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^--- LOL. yeah... My friend told me to just go with the flow and see where things head. but I'm those types who don't liek to keep guessin. I don't want to keep thinking he likes me and find out that he doesn't ya know?
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real-life love triangles are sad. if it's for tv tho that formula can make up a good entertainment.
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If you can't catch him, there are many fish in the sea.
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I'm so sorry you have to go through with this nonsense. If the guy has any sense, he'll tell one of you that he likes you, and gently let the other person down. It's just going to get worse if you guys ride this out. As for you, try not to focus on the situation. As long as there isn't any trauma or hostility, be there for the guy as much as you can, and let him know that you care about him.
I hope that helped. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)
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no i hate squares
i have a bf
and i have a friend who likes me
and that friend`s best friend likes me.........
if anything if you like drama take him away from her lol
if you don`t like him that much back away
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love triangles, even if he does chose, sometimes it just doesnt work. if u really like him, stick with it, but if u dont think its worth the fight, just wave your white flag.
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1. i think it depends on how good a friend the other girls is
2. is he the type to choose a girl over his friend
3. even though you don't wanna back down, have patience
4. nothing is ever solved in relationships when it's being rushed
4. maybe you should also think about the drama that could follow and decide if it's really worth it
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Although I've never been in a love triangle, I've been in a few lust triangles.
Things aren't as complicated as they seem. We just make them that way. Really, it's simple. Stop assuming and make your feelings and intentions known.
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love hexagons are worse =D
but who likes the guy more? are you willing to let him go? don't fight over him, especially since the other girl is his best friend.. don't do anything too.. dramatic. just go along with whatever's happening and that doesn't mean you have to back down. you can still be assertive by going with the flow. when it comes down to it, he'll have to be the one to choose the girl.
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yeaaa especially when the other guy is better looking... lowers ur confidence .
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you know what they say... three's a crowd. it always gets ugly.
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Tell him you like him. Then let him choose..i guess??
yeah.. ditto :]
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But what if I don't want to back down?
woah. scary. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif)
by all means, girl. get on it. you are nice enough to be considerate, but you are also confident enough to know that you stand a chance. if you are that confident, i think you should just go and tell him.
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Tell him you like him. Then let him choose..i guess??
Think of his situation. How could he please both people without hurting both of them?
I don't think it's that easy. It'd probably hard on him to choose between both of them.
