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i feel that me and my best friend who have been my friend for 4 yrs is drifting apart...
like i noe how she has her own clique in school and stuff and i use to have one too (but not anymore, i am actually very lonely rite now cuz shez not really being her good friend even tho she noes that my clique ditch me and she dont even bother to include me in a lot of things that she does with her clique even tho she could, which upsets me... but she dun even care as long as she's having fun)
like she noes that i dont have anything to do that day like on new year, her clique when to manhattan for parade or something but she dont even bother to ask me or call me... but i think she really dont want me to go because while i was online at home feeling sh!ty i saw her sister online and she was hestitating on whether to tell me or not where she went.... i was like beggin her almost to tell me if she was home and where she go... when she finally told me my heart sank... it was real upseting....
the next day in school, she pretend like nothing happen the day before and say hey to me at lunch and sat down in her clique... while this other girl from her clique told me about the day before and how much fun they had and watever.... then the girl was like oh, where were u ? didn't u go? i was like ......no........
and my best friend didnt bother to tell me anytyhing unitl i brought it up to her days later even tho during the whole time i was real upset and kind didnt want to talk to her, she didnt bother talking to me either.... when i told my best friend in a jokingly maner that she had fun without me she was like oh sorry... and went about her way again...
now, tat we r graduating this year and only me and her r going to the same school, shez really upset that she cant be with her clique anymore... i understand how she feels and stuff... but i mean u dun have to get all upset everytime i see u when ur clique is not around... it's like as if it dont even matter that i am gonna be in the same school as u in the coming sept. and that all that matter is ur clique who is going to be attending other school together... yeah... itz jealousy. but i cant really help her u noe, i cant say it's ok u got me at least right because i can totally see that she doesnt need me since in school we barely talk and sometimes during passing she pretends she didnt c me even tho i noe that our eyes met..
she is also very depress about not knowing anyone in her class in the new school cuz me and her got into different classes and i noe like 4 pple from my class... which i'd rather give it to her to make her all better if that's what she want
i noe shez upset but when i ask her what's wrong which i noe, she say nothing as if she didnt hear me... i mean i would understand but i mean i cant do anything for u, u noe... but i am ur best friend...
am i trying too hard to please her ? or am i not being a good friend to her? or should i do something about her being so upset? suggestions?
i am so confuse about our friendship right now...
she would talk to me when she feel like it or she has no one else to turn.... mb i am wrong but that's what i feel at the moment right now....
but i would always turn to her cuz my sis is too young to talk to about this kinda stuff and i really dun have anyone else to turn to... am i relying on her too much and shez finding it annoying? i mean would u if u were my best friend?
sigh thx for reading this long post... and hug for replying to this
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boo hoo, im gonna cry. for real, just suck it up and get over it. people like that u just forget about.
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Cliques are overrated.
Alright team {name}, let's go
Or even:
---At table---
Leader: *gets up*
Everyone else: *gets up*
Leader: holy crap I'm just going to the washroom
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i sorta have that problem... but cept i'm the one being annoyed of my best friend. & we dont' have cliques. we're just grown apart from each other. & In a way I care, but at the same time I don't cause I'm annoyed of her. AHAHA... pretty sad... but oh well. You'd be annoyed of her if you knew her. -___-
I say just suck it up. people tend to drift... and if they really wanna stay lose to you they'd make an effort to.
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no offense..but at the moment..she sounds like a bbiiootcch~ but just be patient with her if you really want to..ask if she wants to hang out and such..try to get together and rebuild this friendship..if she still acts like how she is acting now..then it's hopeless..
me and my best friend..holy cow..you have no idea what we went through..nothing but horse crap for the longest time ever..but after awhile..we jus look back at it and laugh about it...every obstacle you overcome with your friend..it just strengthens it..you know how she will react to different problems and what makes her mad, etc.
and now we have a third..we're like..the sisterhood of the traveling pants =D
we've been friends for like..nearly 6 years now..and this friendship..its just oh so amazing..
hope all goes well with your best friend and stay best friends~ (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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boo hoo, im gonna cry. for real, just suck it up and get over it. people like that u just forget about.
Shut up you dumb i can't read.
God. You give the worst advice and to top it off, you talk like you know what the hell you're talkin' about.
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you should ditch ur friend and make better friends, its teh obvious signs that she doesnt want to be ur friend anymore and her CLIQUE only matters to her and your nothing to her, stop tryin so hard and followin her around like a puppy, you deserve a friend who is great as you are , so cheer up and next time ignore her.
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totally agree with bakka_neko~, ditch that b**ch!
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i really do know how you feel because for like two years now, i haf felt that me and my best friend were drifting apart and right now, i really dont even feel like i can call her my best friend anymore. a best friend is someone you can always talk to and would never betray you or ditch you for other people. don't stay best friends wit her jus cause you're afraid that without her, you wont haf anyone else. if you haf doubts about your friendship, then its pretty obvious that she isnt even your best friend anymore and maybe, you hafn't been for a long time.
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She's really not your best friend then because best friends dont do that. You guys sound really awkward to me. You guys should be comfortable with each other, even when around other people.
Well..it's sad that you're sorta losing her..but if you cant mend it..you should just leave it. There are plenty of other people to meet in the future.
I think you guys care too much about having X number of friends and being a clique LOL.
