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sssooo, i made a new friend at church.he's cool, funny, easy to talk to..i knew who he was since christmas but havent really got to know him til about 2 months ago.
i dont think he likes me..honestly...i think we're jus cool buddies~ (IMG:style_emoticons/default/cool.gif) lol
but my friends are like I THINK HE LIKES YOU! and here are their reasons: :
-he ALWAYS talks to me
-when im not around, he asks them where i am
-we have movie nights at church every now and then and he ALWAYS sits next to me
-he always tries to approach me and start a conversation
-he always glances at me
-he acts different around me
IN MY VIEW: :
-he doesn't always talk to me, he talks to pretty much everyone..
-when we do watch movies at church, he tries to look for other places to sit first but ends up talking to people then comes sit next to me..seemingly as a last resort
-he doesn't glance at me..i dont think..o.o..lol
-and in my opinion..he acts the same around me as he does with anyone else
and oh yeaa..my friends knew him longer than i have..which is also their defense..but..i really dont think he likes me..0.0..do you?
: :EDIT: :
hmm..okay..so now im confused..because..when we talk online..we actually talk..and have a conversation..but now adays..its more..i do the talking..and he responds with hahahaha (IMG:style_emoticons/default/huh.gif)
i saw him sunday..hmm..and there were at 20 people where we were at..and i realized..he spent the whole night hanging around me..i would go over somewhere..and he'd jus kinda..pop up outta nowhere (IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif)
and i realized he was being a bit flirtacious..lol..um..touching my hair/hands, complimenting or calling me names jokingly, giving me random hugs... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/huh.gif) and when he is NOT hanging around me..i always catch him staring at me..cuz of that feeling when someone is staring at you ya know?...and then yesterday..he..just started to ramble on something about the whole soccor thing..nonstop..o.o..
i ONLY like him as a friend..i dont want him to like me more than that..IF he EVER ends up CONFESSING..then..what should i do?? i dont want to hurt his feelings..the two months that i ever got to know him.holy cow..we became like best friends...
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i don't know, we dont know u or him, we dont see how he acts. but sometimes the outsiders are better at judging than the person actually in the situation.
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agreed with above (bgirl)
maybe he does it to a lot of girls, who knows.. but ffriends (sometimes) do know best
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lol, it's alright. ignore it. a lot of my friends and other ppl always tell me that this guy liked me, and for the same kinda reasons too... he's always sitting near me, he's always talking to me, he always starts a conversation, and we kinda... play around w/ each other... errr... not very personal touching kinda thing. i never agree. I think he just goes around talking to ppl, not just to me, he doesn't always start the conversations, and he's just there around me cuz i'm there. iunno... it was kinda cute tho. the guys were like oh my gosh, he said he wanted to MARRY you! but he was an extrememly close friend. i never thought that he thought of me as like... more than a friend...
[heh, i had a crush on him tho... happens when i talk to the person, or the person talks to me a lot... and i really get to know them.... yeah... but i liked him... yes... xD okay, i'll shut up now.]
I just never really thought or noticed that he really thought of me as more than a friend *shrugs* okay, i will REALLY shut up ... but it won't last long, but...*zips lips*
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he must like you as a person to become your friend.....but if you really want to know if he likes you enough to have a relationship with you, why dont you ask HIM?
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yea i think he has feelings for you O_____________O
you should go and ask him before he gets himself anotehr girl XD
lol
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Well I guess the only way you'll find out is if he confesses to you =)
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Here's something which I find to be quite true in a way but it's certainly not a relationship bible. Found this on the net and credit to blue_com. See if all these rings true in your situation.
How to Tell if a Guy Likes You
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif) 1.The guy will try to make you laugh.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/blush.gif) 2.He'll flirt with you when he can.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/cool.gif) 3.He might try to show off around you.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif) 4.He'll help you out, if you ask for it.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) 5.He'll stick up for you when you need it most.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) 6.He'll be friendly to you and all your friends.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif) 7.He might call you for no good reason.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif) 8.He might make fun of you, in a joking way.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif) 9.He'll tell you that you did good, even if you did horrible.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/blink.gif) 10.He'll make eye contact with a happy grin on his face.
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Ah...all those things you think is what I usually think about a guy that I know. xD Usually, it means that they like me. :T
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he prolly dusnt. arent u generally NICER @ church anyway??
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okay this one: -when we do watch movies at church, he tries to look for other places to sit first but ends up talking to people then comes sit next to me..seemingly as a last resort
it sounds like something i used to do with my crush. it's all the male ego- we don't like to admit that we're choosing to sit with our crush. he's probably just doing it because he doesnt know how you feel yet. so just give him some signs and something might unfold. good luck!
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alot of outgoing guys are like that, its normal for them. i dont think he likes you from the things you've said... but if there are other more substantial pointers than he could. the things your friends said are among the lists of 'liking'.
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Here's something which I find to be quite true in a way but it's certainly not a relationship bible. Found this on the net and credit to blue_com. See if all these rings true in your situation.
How to Tell if a Guy Likes You
1.The guy will try to make you laugh.
2.He'll flirt with you when he can.
3.He might try to show off around you.
4.He'll help you out, if you ask for it.
5.He'll stick up for you when you need it most.
6.He'll be friendly to you and all your friends.
7.He might call you for no good reason.
8.He might make fun of you, in a joking way.
9.He'll tell you that you did good, even if you did horrible.
10.He'll make eye contact with a happy grin on his face.
1. He always makes me laugh..but what if he's just naturaly funny?
2.hm..he punches me playfully at times..or calls me nice but always say just kidding! then gives me a hug..
3.hahaha..his break dance moves..which he's not really good..but we battle each other..lol
4.yea he does
5.hmm..he only saw me cry once and he was there for me..
6.hm..n/a..he doesnt really know my friends..but most likely..yea..he probably would cuz hes a nice guy anyway
7.he doesnt have my number (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
8. yea he does (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif) lol
9.hmm..no.he smore like haha! what was that?!?!
10. yea..all the time..but he does with everyone else
idddkk..its like..50/50...
I'm sorta..kinda..developing feelings for him..but....idk~ (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)
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^ according to that..i htink he migh tlike you..
hmm..you should kinda hint it out~ ^-~
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welll..if he does like you, he m ight confess..it kinda seems like he likes you, and kinda he doesnt. it reminds me of one of my other friends, but he does talk to EVERYONE, and he likes someone else..
soo i dunno =/
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Sounds like he likes you as a best friend to me o_O
why don't you just ask?
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Personally I'd say he likes you, but if you wanna test it out to see than you can try this if you're smooth enough:
Next time you're with him look at him and tell him he has a fallen eye lash. Most likely he'll try to wipe it off, just tell him he didn't get it. Then offer to help him with it. Get close to him and try to blow off the eye lash. If the guy seems a bit anxious like irregular breathing or can't help but stare at you, it means he's interested.
I guess if guys wanna try this trick on a girl than don't her wipe it off on her own first, she'll prob pull out a mirror to see if an eye lash really fell, just offer to help before she pulls out that mirror.
This usually works. =/
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Sounds like he likes you as a best friend to me o_O
why don't you just ask?
i guess you could call me shy? lol (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sweatingbullets.gif)
Personally I'd say he likes you, but if you wanna test it out to see than you can try this if you're smooth enough:
Next time you're with him look at him and tell him he has a fallen eye lash. Most likely he'll try to wipe it off, just tell him he didn't get it. Then offer to help him with it. Get close to him and try to blow off the eye lash. If the guy seems a bit anxious like irregular breathing or can't help but stare at you, it means he's interested.
I guess if guys wanna try this trick on a girl than don't her wipe it off on her own first, she'll prob pull out a mirror to see if an eye lash really fell, just offer to help before she pulls out that mirror.
This usually works. =/
haha..sounds like a good plan..but im the smoothest person in the world..lol
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haha..sounds like a good plan..but im the smoothest person in the world..lol
Do you mean you're NOT the smoothest person in the world?
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Do you mean you're NOT the smoothest person in the world?
haha..oops..yeaa..im NOT the smoothest...lol
