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sometimes you like a person but you can't date them...that's when its heartwrenching...you both have feelings for one another, but theres just that one thing preventing you both from being together...
is it a strict parent?
the other person is a good friend's ex?
you're scared that person will hurt you?
you don't think you can devote time to them?
do you live really far?
Well my reason main reason is distance...second reason is because the last two guys I dated, he knew them both by association and mutual friends so it's a bit weird....
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i've had experiences with this... one situation was because he lived far away from where i did. i live in cali & he lives in texas. i didn't think a long distance relationship would work out & i wasn't that confident back then either.. another situation was i was scared that he might hurt me... but then i thought about it & still went out with him after he waited almost like a month for me to make my decision. turns out he really did hurt me in the end... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
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AWWW... Yeah, I like this guy who lives 4 hours away from me. I think it'd be fun to date someone that you don't see everyday. There'd be a lot of missing. But yeah, it would be hard though. It's not that you CAN'T, you CAN. You just have to know how to. But I know how heartwrenching it is. I like him and I think he likes me too! But it's too weird to confess because he lives so far and I don't even know if we'll ever meet. But I say good luck to you!
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mm..for me..its more like..we never tell each other..and then after we get over each other..we later find out..we're like..hm..wonder why neither of us ever told each other..cuz then we could've been together..lol
and..distance also..sorta..lol
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the other person is a good friend's ex?
well I'm not even that good friends with her anymore but there's still that line. There's other issues as well..there always is.
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I remember this happened to me once also.
It was the distance. He was just too far from my reach. It was too impossible for us to spend time with each other. But, we still talk on the phone frequently as friends.
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for me, its the distance b/w us... TToTT
i wish asia and NA are connected........
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if it starts with doubt then it's wiser to not engage in a relationship
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age, lanaguage barrier, and most of all because they are your best friend..and u dont want to end up breaking up and not speaking to them ever again.... those are things that always stop me
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this guy is trying his hardest to not like me cause his parents dont approve of me or any type of girl in that matter. for god sakes they dont even know me.
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mmm i've always had bad timing....that and i barely find time to sleep so...yeah =T i can't devote so much time (i don't like clinginess either). Mmmm my mom is ok with me and relationships, my dad no. Other than that? I'd stick to summer flingss ;D jkjk
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Yeah i've been in this situation. Actually i'm in it right now. The other person goes to a university that is very distant from mine. Our schedules are soo hectic that we can barely have time to spend with each other or even see each other. So i just ended it. It was just too much for me.
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OMG! i'm going through this problem...
He was really close friends with my ex. (just recently broke up with...for other reasons)
He likes me a lot...and i have feelings for him.
He's moving to Colorado..(we live in Oregon) in about a month. (thats more than 24 hours away.)
its' definitely heartwrenching. like we talk about it so much. but we can't get together cause we're afraid of ruining the friendship we have... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
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I'm in that kind of situation right now.
The guy likes me, and I like him, and we're dating right now. But I told him not to ask me to be his girlfriend. I don't need a boyfriend, and I don't want one at the moment, even if I do like him. I mean, before I liked him, and vice versa, I was fine; I didn't feel lonely or anything like that.
He said he likes me a lot, and that he's willing to wait.
My friend said, Make a guy fight to love you. I don't want to seem easy for him to get.
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These are my no-no's... distance, an ex's friend, and/or too much emotional baggage.
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It's because I'm pretty sure already that we wouldn't last after highschool. Also, I want a relationship with a guy that has a pretty stable life. Dating a guy in highschool would probably distract me, and I really don't need any more distractions right now.
That's about it. I think I just don't want to date until I'm older.
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It's because we don't like each other enough to commit. (:
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sometimes you like a person but you can't date them...that's when its heartwrenching...you both have feelings for one another, but theres just that one thing preventing you both from being together...
me? it would be because of fear of commitment (something like cold-feet-before-your-wedding-day type of thing)....and in a sense tied down to a relationship, where i'm not sure if it would even last......yeah....i'm kinda cynical.....
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talk about it...I think the most appropriate excuse I have right now is that I'm so scared that he'll hurt me or is just pretending to like me because I looked like a challenge...lolz!
another reason for this other guy whom I can't date is because he already have a commitment with another girl...
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girls i want now..
1 is too far away (over an ocean)
1 is far away ( 1 state away )
2 Are At my work and i dont wanna funk up our Careers
and thats it
