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Yeah.. Thanks, everyone. But, I think i should figure this out myself..
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i dated aplayer for a month..the part where he says he not going to do anything that is uncomfortable..dont totally believe..cuz the player i dated..went a little too far..but i stopped him before it got TOO serious..and i broke up with him cuz i felt so violated..
but while i dated him for a month..i was playing too..since he was player..i decided im not going to be so easy..you can date him..just dont fall for him so easily..resist him..somewhat..
its all up to you..just watch out..
good luck~ =)
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i would leave but ur u, u kiss ur friends? o.0
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Well I think you need to spend more time with him before you think about going out with him or immediatly not going out with him.
See if he is worth what he says.
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i decided im not going to be so easy..you can date him..just dont fall for him so easily
I want to say that this is good if you have time to kill and know that you're absolutely right that the guy is rubbish. It's still a waste of time trying to teach them a lesson though.
The only thing that got me was how easy and quick things went so casually, having a little of that physical connection inevitably makes the the emotional part easier to get to.
ie. You're into a guy, then bam, hot body, lots of touching, etc. somehow makes a 'weak personality / bad habit' seem insignificant.
By all means, if the reasons are right, go for it.
because I'm willing to risk the fact that he is a self-proclaimed former player.
That's like saying, I want to make him a good boy bc he's so bad.
It's easy for me to play devils advocate and tell you that he says / does things bc he wants to give you a good impression and hide the type of person he really is.
Give it time and do listen to what your friends have to say, but you can only trust yourself and your own personal feelings about it all; then go from there.
