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Hi, i'm semi-new to this forum but see alot of useful advices being offered.
- don't post something along the lines of this post is too long cause that doesnt help in anyway.
I met this really seemingly shy and cute girl, about a year ago and over the course of time she was getting more and more flirtatious followed by random periods of coldness.
I mustered up the courage one day and just confessed my feelings to her, she said lets just be friends and kept asking me if we would, i of course said sure, see ya @ school tommrow the next day at school she is cold towards me and dis-associates herself from my friends. Me and my friends tried continously after the confession to patch up the friendship, but she however rejected it saying it would be too awkward I of course went Emo like a inexperienced teen should feel.
I soon got over her and moved on with my life. It was now the year 2005 and she called me out of no where to hang out, i of course agreed to a time and place, well she stood me up and said she would make it up to me. After that day, which was school time she didn't even bring it up, as if it was nothing. I than just shrugged it off and deceided to complelty get rid of this Drama Queen. I deleted her numbers and msn.
I had a very pleasant few monthes afterwards until time started to run out. (3 more days of school left and were graduating)
She tried to ask me to the prom twice i ignored her pretending i didn't hear her in the crowd of people and i get stared down repeatedly by her during/before/after prom and wherever i go she so happens to magically appear right before, she also says my name randomly in the hallways in a futile attempt to get my attention. I of course shrugged it off as she so kindly did so with our friendship.
I of course know i should of forgiven her, and i have. Until today when i found out not only did she flirt with my friends during a ceremony she took random people and flirted with them also all at the same time while staring me down.
- I have rejected her numerous attempts at repairing the friendship
- I flirt (infront) of her because i have a reason I DON'T HAVE A S/O, unlike her (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif)
- She tells me im 'addictive' (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
Just what is her problem and what is she trying to get at?
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I think she has something wrong in her mind and just is playing games.
Dont fall for crazy unstable girls like that.
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maybe she wants what she can't have...
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exactly!!
she just wants attention.
she wants you to continue liking her even though she's got a s.o.
one word: immature
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^ Ya, I agree. she wants your attention so that's why she's playing game with you. She flits with your friends? '
-________________- I don't care about it but is she trying too hard!?
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imo i think she just wants attention. you gave her attention, she liked it and shrugged you off. once you didn't give her attention, her life was not complete and wanted that attention again. so she does all these things to get your attention and to have you like her like before.
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always be one step ahead of this game... don't let her win.
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it's simple.. all of us girls want the guy to continue to like us. we love being chase after.. but since you lost your interest in her, she wants to gain it back. i say, ignore her and don't let her games interfere with your life. good luck =)
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ok since i took the time to read that ridiculous little predicament i owe it to myself to say something about it.
if wut u say is true.. forget being anything more than friends with her. she sounds like a crazy biatch.
if in fact youre not being biased and leaving anything out.
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you did the right thing.
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ok since i took the time to read that ridiculous little predicament i owe it to myself to say something about it.
if wut u say is true.. forget being anything more than friends with her. she sounds like a crazy biatch.
if in fact youre not being biased and leaving anything out.
I don't think i left anything important out but, ever since she rejected me I had:
- Several girls are chasing/ed me
- Chased several girls ever since
- Hit the gym, dressed better and took care of my health
- Got a car
Her 3+yr crush has a crush on the person who has a crush on me.
*Sorry if i sound conceited/bragging but i noticed girls like a guy even more if he is surrounded by girls and/or (sometimes) material goods.
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tell her all you can give her is ur eternal friendship and you can never demote yourself for a girl like her, thats great that you ignored her, go with someone else to the prom and see her reaction
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Thanks for the reply ^
I already have asked someone to the prom and she gave me the evil eye combined with 'clinginess'? (Just tries harder)
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She just likes being liked & likes the attention.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) Yeah avoiding her is a good idea. You don't want to get stuck in sticky situations (which is what is ahead).
