Problem w/ a guy I really like. =(

Question:
I really like this guy that I've known for 3-4 years now. He's really nice and sweet and NOT perverted [ which is a plus, for me. ] And I can easily talk to him about anything, he's easy to open up to. We used to hang out A LOT.. and talk on the phone. We still talk a lot .. actually, we talk everyday. He IMs me everytime he comes on. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) But if I wanna talk on the phone, he keeps saying he's shy .. __ I think he only sees me as a sister and I've liked him for a year on/off already. I don't know what to do. How can I get this guy to like me ? Well I mean, I know I can't force anyone to like me, lol. But I mean is there anything I can do to make him see that I like him?
Or well, bwhat do guys do when they like you/b ? Any signs ?
I'm so confused. _ I really wanna know. Lol.
I remember we used to talk alone at the park a few times. But it was so short. I was buzzed and he was sort of high though so (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) ; Agh, not really a good convo .. we were both spaced out.
I can tell him anything but he doesn't tell me much about his personal life .. is that bad? =[
Haha, sorry if I made it hella random. But yeahh.
Answer:
Awww... there is a similar problem with me.
But yeah, maybe he is really just shy and doesn't want you to know. You should just confess to him that you like him. Then ask him if he likes you. That's the only way to know for sure. Sorry, I'm not the best with advice.
Answer:
why don't you try to force it out of him? um, gingerly forcing it out
like say
so how is it at home?
he might say it's alright
you can say is your family the brady bunch?
try to start conversation that would sort of force out his personal life
i do that to one of my friends a lot, he's really shy
doesn't swear, hit, yell, or start conversations
i told him one of my secrets
that i pretend to play slide with a ghost in the shower
and he told me that he hit his chin on the faucet once
so cute
just try
try
try
try
muhahahaha
try
try
Answer:
^ lol thats cute =]
uhh.. maybe you should wait abit more? and keep trying, but if he doesn't want to open up, that's his choice.
good luck.
Answer:
Spend more time with him.
Usually feelings developes over time.
Answer:
dont force it... but nudge it outtta him!!
mmz.. but.. since he says hez shy...
try hanging out with him more...
shy pplz tend to open up to u once they know u more
and are feeling comfy bout talking to u about anything
Answer:
i have same problem before...
but i decided to just be friends and not ruin our relationship.
You can ask him how he feels about the situation...
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