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so would you?
im in college now and nvr had a gf
i always wanted that ideal girl like doesn't drink, virgin, laidback etc..like a school girl and thought i found her but then long story
newayz i always tried not to be desperate but i see guys that are desperate hitting on ne decent asian chick he sees, hitting on chicks using myspace and blah blah even if they are like 14 years old and the guy is like 18 or 19
im the only guy in my group to nvr have a gf, and everytime they go out and see a girl they want me to hit on her, or ask me hey man why don't u date that girl! and its prob some retarded wannabe gangsta asian girl or some slutty ones, i think i know i might be too picky but yeaa
so the question is would u change yourself just to find a gf or bf??????
i know some guys that just sleep with girls and those girls drink and party and go out and have fun
but i just can't fit that role, i don't drink and i don't like girls that drink (no offense to ppl that do) cuz mostly everyone does it
its like im an outcast and when I got to college it seems impossible to find that right girl, the cute girl that is smart, doesn't drink, virgin, christian....yea i know im venting..but yea
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Well I would change myself only enough. I wouldn't completely change my views and what I want because that's not necessarily. Everyone will find that one preson for them so it's either you wait a bit or just date around and see if she turns up.
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I would never do it; perhaps it's due to stubbornness.
In any case, I've found the girl that I look for, and I have no intention of changing myself at all to fit her demands. I expected someone to be strict, and I end up running after someone that's way ahead of me and above my scope of humans - she treats humans and nature as one, and I don't know if I'd ever be able to think like that o_O
But meh, knowing my limitations, I wouldn't change myself. Do I care that people around me are getting together and breaking up every week? Not really. Does it discourage me? No. How? It's their life, not mine
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That's a good question. I've been wondering that myself lately since I've never had a real bf and i'm 22!
The real issue is how far I'd let myself change in order to get a bf.
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naw!! dont change yourself!! alwayz stay true to yourself!!
or u can can change yourself.. but not into someone that u are totally not comfortable being!!!
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I'll change only if its for the better. Like my selfishness.
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its like im an outcast and when I got to college it seems impossible to find that right girl, the cute girl that is smart, doesn't drink, virgin, christian....yea i know im venting..but yea
virgin?? hahaha not in college (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
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hmm... that depends. if it's like a bad habit- i.e: drug addiction, then i would but personality wise, i wouldn't. if that person really loved me, shouldn't they accept all my weaknesses along with my strengths? if i had to play perfect next to the person i love, it would be way too tiring.
but i think when you're in love, you gradually change for the better anyways. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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before...my bestfriend use to always tell me let love come to you I hated her for saying that to me. anyways don't judge on how you see girls. You never know how they're like till you finally get to know them. When you do, thats when you give your final verdict on them. In the meantime while you do this, you are getting a whole load of scope on many connections to many other girls. So think of the possibilities. So what if your verdict was still a no no? Theres an upside to everything, you just recently gained a friend. =D Good luck.
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I'll change only if its for the better.
same here
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i would refuse to change
only if the change was more for me and my wellbeing than for that person to like me.
they don't like how i am they can screw off.
i don't need to pretend to be someone and totally change myself to have someone.
besides.. how long would i be able to even last pretending to be someone i'm not?
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I would never change, unless I had like a bad attitude or sumfin, and it needed to change.
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i don't think it's worth changing yourself of a girl or guy because like later one anways they will know the real you somehow and like if you change yourself it would be awhile to get use it that and you may not even like being like that
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nope.. i don't think it's worth changing yourself just for someone else unless it's for the better.
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I'll change only if its for the better. Like my selfishness.
i agree (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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No. I want someone to love me for who I am. If I were to change, I would be changing for myself, not for someone else.
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I'd only change parts that I didn't like about myself anyway. Stuff I did like about myself, like my beliefs and outspokeness, I wouldn't change for anyone.
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I would never change my lifestyle to get a bf.
I would keep myself in shape, fit, good skin, hair, study etc. but changing my lifestyle just to find a bf is wrong. You can't maintain something if it doesn't suit you.
for example, I don't like the club scene, so I'd never be able to hold up a relationship where I have to go clubbing constantly, drink, smoke etc.
finding a bf/gf is about finding someone who enjoys doing the same or similar things as you. Someone who likes the same kind of lifestyle.
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I'm bored so I'll give this a shot. For better or worse, change is the only constant in life. I don't think you should front just to get a significant other, but it's not harm adapting to the situation. Loving someone is accepting the other person for who they are. Btw, you should stop trying to look for the ideal girl because you never know who might be in front of you.
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na i will never change how i am just to get someone. i think it's the stupid mini cooper ever!
