Question:
Ok
so i liked his guy for about 2 years...
and ever since we started middle school, he kinda got..odd..
but some how everytime i try to forget about him, he just drifts back into my mind
i told him i liked him last year, and he said he liked me back
until at the end of the year i figured out that he only say that he liked me so that
he wont hurt my feelings, but one of my friends told me that he started to like me in the middle of the year..
then i guess i kinda felt distant during the summer, but then when we started middle school
he changed..., he tends to flirt with alot of girls and it kinda gets on my nerves
my best friend(A) and my other friend(K) and myself like him. but somehow were not mad at each other for liking him. my friend (K) is good friends with the guy we like and they have been close for a couple months, until a couple weeks ago just the day before the dance. the guy figured out that one of our friends (not A or K) liked him. this girl (J) likes him . so then he asks her out to the dance. and A K and myself feel really hurt. (K) is best friends with (j) but never told her that they liked that guy. so then (J)'s really happy and stuff and doesn't seem to know anythings wrong. we have been dropping hints, but she doesn't seem to be getting the sign. now a days everything seems so seperate...my friends are so distant to him. i use to talk to him alot and sometimes crack jokes but sometimes when i talk to him, i give him the cold shoulder. i dont know why i do that, it just seems natural for me too doo...(A) (K) and i are soo confused.., all of us wanted to give up but my friends are like dont give up... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif) i know this seems soo pathetic but somehow i need an answer on what to do..
i know this is kinda long..
sorry about aht..some things might not make sense..
Answer:
Go talk to him.
I think the only way to solve your problem is to just talk to him and get it over with. Dont be shy. Be strong. Open up.
If you find out he doesnt like you back, then move on.
Youll only get hurt more if you just keep these feelings inside you.
And if you just give up without knowing the truth, who knows, you might end up regretting it.
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yea not so much...
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Middle school---
Sometimes when you see the one you like flirt with another person, you can't help but be mad at them. Therefore when he talks to you, you give him the cold shoulder.
It's just middle school, don't worry, you still have high school and college ahead of you. There, you will meet a lot of nicer and cuter guys.
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^ AGREED!
but just talk to him about it. ^^ it always helps.. by the way... did you JUST enter middle school or something? cause that`s really young, and you still have a LONNGG way ahead of you with better people along the way. ^^
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talk to him and just be like duuuddeee, what happened to u?! lol. jk. but like i always say, ur young, you'll find the right guy some time.just be pateint.
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You really can't give up. It's just one guy. When it's time to get it over with, get it over with. Just tell him and get what is so troubling you out of your mind instead of letting him play with all of you like that. Some guys just like the feelings of having people like him and wanting others to be jealous. Straight out tell him and move on, there might be other guys who are way nicer and cuter liking you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)
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you have high school years and college years to go and there will be plenty of guys out there. this thing you're worrying is really nothing. you and your friends shouldn't worry about it.
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middle school, hahahaha, i remember relationships at that age, i thought it was pointless then too...anyways, all i have to say about him flirting with other girls...PUBERTY (does he have a sqweaky voice?)
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So how old are you?
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Wow, so many people like the same guy. It probably will be better off seeing happy being with whom he wants to.
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Maybe you should just get over him o_o. It seems like so much trouble... Four girls like him, and you're all connected somehow through friendships.
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yeahh go talk to him bout it
if it botherrs u that much
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you just like him/
i'm sure you can find someone else. if you were really friends with your friends.. give him up for them to go for it....and if he suddenly falls for you.. then they should be happy for you... but i think you should...
give up.
=)
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You really can't give up. It's just one guy. When it's time to get it over with, get it over with. Just tell him and get what is so troubling you out of your mind instead of letting him play with all of you like that. Some guys just like the feelings of having people like him and wanting others to be jealous. Straight out tell him and move on, there might be other guys who are way nicer and cuter liking you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)
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Agreed. You should definitely tell him. It's better than just waiting around anyway.
middle school, hahahaha, i remember relationships at that age, i thought it was pointless then too...anyways, all i have to say about him flirting with other girls...PUBERTY (does he have a sqweaky voice?)
Hahaha.
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yups i agrree wit da other peeps.. maybe yu shuld tlk to him bouts it n c wat happens but noe dat yu will meet more guys in da future.. yOoh jus have to wait for your luck (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
