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when people grow older, they usually grow apart with their friends but have u ever had enough of your friends or u start to think about the way they treat you and decide that they're no longer worth it?....my close friends are always going to be close but im talking more like acquantaince friends....who u used to talk to alot but was never in your close friend group? Is it odd to one day decide that you dont want to be friends with them?, like they're a bad influence and take u for granted i guess. Well, good thing about friends is you get to choose.
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i dont know. i dont take friendships lightly at all. once u f8ck up, ur out. i dont give second chances. those people who arent there for me, i dont bother being there for them. i just forget about them. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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i dont know. i dont take friendships lightly at all. once u f8ck up, ur out. i dont give second chances. those people who arent there for me, i dont bother being there for them. i just forget about them. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
wow. you are one ruthless weotch.
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^ uh yea i agree..
no offense but you aren't a very good friend then.
no second chances? yea, what a good friend you are..
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o_o well if they didn't mess up in the beginning to make you not want to be thier friend anymore then i guess you arn't at fualt now arn'tyou ? i'm the same liek you once a firend messes up on me i just give up and not be friends with you anymore it pisses me off when ppl betray me but thats the only thing that really makes me not want ot be firends with anyone anymore betrayal
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well, when i was younger i always thought that as i get friends in college, i would never run out of friends.
But i am in college, and with a busy life of work, school and my relationship, i noticed that me and my friends, even my best friend, we rearely call each other anymore. Its not that we dont care or that we dont want to anymore, its just that as we get older, we do realize that there are certain other duties that we have to attend to and take care of before we can go and have fun. Even my friends have been doing the same thing.
My boyfriend and his friend were actually talking about this yesterday too. How their group of friends doesnt hang out with each other for BBq's as much as they used to when they were in highschool and in thier early college days. Now, a couple are already graduated, one is settling down and is married and everyone is working.
I guess that no matter what we think when we are younger, how we want to have a perfect life full of friends that it doesnt always work out that way.
We NEVER forget our friends though. most likely the friends that me and my boyfriend have now, even if we dont talk to them a lot anymore, they will be friends for life still and we always will talk to each other still eventually.
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Yeah, sometimes I get sick of my friends too. It's not that I don't want to be friends with them, it's just that there's nothing keeping me from feeling that way. But I dunno, I don't really have these kinds of friend problems.
And about the giving second chances thing, I personally think it all depends on the situation. But I mean, generally speaking, it's the friend's fault that s/he messed up, so I don't get why it's wrong to not want to give that person a second chance. There's no reason to want to give him/her another chance. Sure, a lot of people will say that it's because if you really loved your friend, you would give that person another chance. But even if you DID love your friend, by hurting you, your friend just showed that s/he didn't love you back as much. And who wants friends like that? But that's just generally speaking. I still think it depends on what the friend did.
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i dont know. i dont take friendships lightly at all. once u f8ck up, ur out. i dont give second chances. those people who arent there for me, i dont bother being there for them. i just forget about them. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
O_O whoah.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif) that's a little over the limit there... friends do make mistakes, it's friendship not a mafia... lol
i think a handful of friends will be just fine... close ones will stick to you forever. acquaintances are only good to a certain point. You can't help everyone and you can't keep in touch with everyone .. it's just too hard!!! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif)
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I've lost many friends as time has gone by. It wasn't always our faults, majority of the reasons is because of misconceptions. Some of my closest friends have moved away because of family, that broke my heart. I have firends who I have just stopped speaking to so closley because we have changed into different people, we've moved into different zones. However, the closeness is still there we don't always have to talk to know that we are there for one another. My friends and I at the moment are only beginning to stride closer. But we are on our way, I move groups a lot. I have a handful who I know are there for me when I fall and we don't hang out with each other either, but again the closeness is there.
It's better to have a few who you know you can trust at all costs. Then many who you know you can't trust. I believe that we all grow apart and such, and that's all apart of life. However, it is the memories that you have with those people that make you stronger and keep you whole. At the end of your years, it's your memories that you have left. So cherish them and make many many more.
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wow. you are one ruthless weotch.
well if they are your friend, they wouldnt f*ck up from the first place..if its something small, then yeah whatever, but if its something that is really bad, and you f8cked up, yeah i dont give a sh1t what you say. i rarely give second chances to anyone, because sooner or later they will f*ck up again.
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well if they are your friend, they wouldnt f*ck up from the first place..if its something small, then yeah whatever, but if its something that is really bad, and you f8cked up, yeah i dont give a sh1t what you say. i rarely give second chances to anyone, because sooner or later they will f*ck up again.
wow. sounds like the mafia. would you also hit them in the back of the head with a baseball bat.
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yeh, the ones i forget about are the ones that weren't really my friends in the first place. i really hate being used. some people are really evil. like they feel no guilt for using you. once they dont need you, they forget about you. so ive learned to forget about them too. sometimes though i think about it and i get angry and pissed off but i try not to.
ive been screwed over so many times. mainly cause im so easily manipulated.
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wow. sounds like the mafia. would you also hit them in the back of the head with a baseball bat.
alright, it sounds like the mafia, and im ruthless just like you said. and frankly, i dont give a sh1t wat you think (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) This whole not giving a second chance has been working great for me, so yeah whatever. Atleast i have friends that i can count on, and friends that can count on me, and nobody even thinks about being a little b1tch. also maybe cause i dont deal with any1's bullsh1t, why bother with people who are worthless and a waste of time.
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yea....
to think about it
i don't have any close friends anymore
i grew apart with all of them
and accquantainces to me aren't very important
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i think that anyone and everyone out there has the potential to be one of ur closest friends, jus that its the way they portray themselves and how much u can trust them. i already came to the conclusion that in a life time, there will only be about 3-4 friends that i will ever become close enough with that i will actually consider them as brothers or sisters. to me these ppl will always be part of my family even if they f*cked up because there was a reason that i had trusted them in the first place and that they mustve been there for me thru the thick n the thin. there are second chances or more than once.
i mean if they are worth forgiving then they are not worth forgetting. n i realize that nobody is perfect and everyone makes mistakes, even friends.
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To an extent I agree with BGIRL's attitude.
My friend's grandma says it the best though - friends only bring trouble. I'm better off without them
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To an extent I agree with BGIRL's attitude.
My friend's grandma says it the best though - friends only bring trouble. I'm better off without them
To some point, you are only with yourself.
And to get where you are in life, you have yourself to thank.
BUT, along the way, you`re BOUND to meet friends, and to socialize.
Sometimes, even when you say you don`t need friends, or whatever..
you`re going to have to. There`s just times when you may feel insecure,
and not even family can come to your rescue. Friends are there to boost
you up, when you need them the most, and most importantly when you
can`t do it yourself.
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yea you get older you grow apart. its just life. sometimes i miss the people i use to hang out with...but i know they arent those same people anymore.
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If it works out, it works out. If not, then not.
I don't see why I have to put out extra effort to keep in touch if the rest aren't going to (IMG:style_emoticons/default/huh.gif)
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well depends wat they did
but these kinda stuff u don't need to seriously think about it
u know if they r ur friends or not
but wat if that's how they think about u???
or is he/she worth it or not to be a friend
