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Do i seem like a homewrecker...or are most korean guys over posessive and over jealous?
This happened to me sooo mannyyy timesss....
I talk to a friend that's a girl online, or phone sometimes, and chill with 'em once in awhile..AS FRIENDS...and their Korean bfs finds my number, calls me, threatens to kill me if i continue on talking with them or seeing 'em.
I'm korean...but in highschool i chilled w/ mostly filipinos. filipinos are so chill. So that's how i view relationships too. Like for example: wayyy back in highschool, the clubs i went to were rolling clubs. one time my friend asked me for a massage. and i was like, 'you sureeee your bf will be cool with it??' so she was like, 'yah definitely!' and brought her bf over to repeat what i said...and he started laughing and told me to go ahead. now...massages in clubs when you're rolling, are way different than friendly massages...it's more groping. BUT if she had a korean bf and asked for massage, i bet he'd prolly try to kill me.
AND recently...i went to LA and met a girl at a korean booking club. we decided to be friends though because she had a bf. and we still kept in touch on the phone. then her bf finds my number, and calls me and starts yelling at me. omg...cmoonn..what can i do all the way from chicago?? have phone sex??? hahahahaa.
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yeh i kinda notice that too. lots of korean guys i know tend to hold a lot of traditional views on women.
but its also down to the individual. if a guy is confident and secure, then he wont be like that.
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And filipinos have a lot of drama.
But then again, they so chill right?
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Do i seem like a homewrecker...or are most korean guys over posessive and over jealous?
This happened to me sooo mannyyy timesss....
I talk to a friend that's a girl online, or phone sometimes, and chill with 'em once in awhile..AS FRIENDS...and their Korean bfs finds my number, calls me, threatens to kill me if i continue on talking with them or seeing 'em.
I'm korean...but in highschool i chilled w/ mostly filipinos. filipinos are so chill. So that's how i view relationships too. Like for example: wayyy back in highschool, the clubs i went to were rolling clubs. one time my friend asked me for a massage. and i was like, 'you sureeee your bf will be cool with it??' so she was like, 'yah definitely!' and brought her bf over to repeat what i said...and he started laughing and told me to go ahead. now...massages in clubs when you're rolling, are way different than friendly massages...it's more groping. BUT if she had a korean bf and asked for massage, i bet he'd prolly try to kill me.
AND recently...i went to LA and met a girl at a korean booking club. we decided to be friends though because she had a bf. and we still kept in touch on the phone. then her bf finds my number, and calls me and starts yelling at me. omg...cmoonn..what can i do all the way from chicago?? have phone sex??? hahahahaa.
haha, you speak all gangsterish (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
in reference to the question...yeah umm i dunno lol sorry
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Yeah, I don't know.
Korean guys are pretty possessive.
But so if my boyfriend, and he's white!
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Learn some proper english.
filipinos are so chill.
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well its true though, filipinos are the most open-minded of asians. from my experience that is.
i find chinese,japanese and koreans are really cliquey. like they're hard to get to know and they tend to avoid others.
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my bf is korean, i guess he is somewhat really protective. But he wont show when he's jealous though T__T its hard for me to tell and get away from the guy so he wont get mad.
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i don't know any korean guys so i can't say..but from what i see in korean dramas i would definitely have to say yes...Bi was going crazy inside every time Shg mentioned min-hyuk hehe
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my friend is korean. im pretty sure he's a special case but the guy is crazy man. he has all these expectations of women that are just so extreme. sometimes he's joking and sometimes he's not.
all i know is that it would suck for a girl to be his wife haha.
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i don't know any korean guys so i can't say..but from what i see in korean dramas i would definitely have to say yes...Bi was going crazy inside every time Shg mentioned min-hyuk hehe
You can't use that as base because kdrama doesn't necessary portray us. I really hate how people use kdrama to sterotype the koreans. Yes, so and so is this because I saw this at kdrama. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
As to answer to original question, I say some are and some aren't. Then again it might be just trust issue regardless of your ethnicity.
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yea i guess
my bf gets overjealous too
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Im a korean guy and by my views i dunt think im like that. I let her live freely outside our relationship. We both have lives outside the relationship... she has friends and i have them too. There are days when she just wants time with her friends and as much as i want to spend the day with her i let her, because i know that there will be a day when i want to spend a day with my friends too so ^^
I mean at times when she wants something her wayy especially when we talk online or the phone she'll be like Im going to talk to some hot guy because your being mean She always say that cuhz she knows ill feel guilty about being mean. I'll just be beg her to come back..
MY POINT IS... i dont think all korean guys are that wayy... cuhz i dunt think i am that wayy
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Korean guys get jealous easily and are pretty possessive.
So yeah they are madly crazy.
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No offence but they are some of the most sensitive guys I've ever encountered..
Like the stupidest things will offend them.
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vietnamese guys too...
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i dont think its just korean guys. i think its all guys in general...okay, most guys in general. i think guys (hopefully can) trust their gf's, but if they dont know the other guys that their girl is hanging out with, they prob dont trust the other guys instead. well, thats how my bf explained it to me. but to adobokimchi, that sucks what happened to you. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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most guys are over possivve...i had a white bf before, he was over possesive, i broke up with him, and hes STILL over possessive, which is freaky, but my point is most guys are over possesvie...but from what i've encoutered, koreans are the worse out of all types of guys i've met. not all koreans, but most. and korean guys are pretty sensitive, and hard to get to know, and all that stuff.
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No, not all Korean guys are overly possessive. ALL MEN are. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
I believe that possessive ppl in relationships are insecure within themselves. We are all insecure in many ways and to an extent, but it's how we handle those insecurities that will determine if we are a person of sensibility or not.
I think the bf's call you because they're exercising preventative maintenance in the relationship. You should try to see it from their perspective. If you were the bf and some guy keeps corresponding with your girl, you'd like to nip that in the budd and find out what the deal really is. Also, what if the girl isn't telling her bf like it is. Just friends is such a loose term. No one can tell which way the future course a friendship will veer onto, so ppl just have to be careful and practice lane integrity... keeping to their side of the road.
If a girl was calling and/or hanging out with my man, I wouldn't take it lightly. It's not that I don't trust my man, but I don't trust the girl.
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not only koreans... chinese boyfriends too [chinese only, not taiwanese] or atleast from all the boys i know... all the koreans and chinese boyfriends [actually... few taiwanese] are posessive over their woman. they think that when other guys holler, the girl will go with anyone better then themselves... perhaps its their own confidence in themselves... in my experiences... that's how it comes to arguements or even break up.
