Question:
Okay, well I was wondering why you boys/girls get so possessive of your significant other.
This is mostly directed to guys.
I don't know, my boyfriend for instance got angry with me for commenting a guy's picture on MySpace saying This one's my favorite picture.
Is that really a big deal?
I asked my boyfriend why he's so possessive and he said he's afraid that i'll meet a guy that's better than him and leave him. What do you think about this?
Do you like it when your bf/gf is possessive, or does it annoy you more than anything?
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some people are insecure / immature / or very dependant on other people . these people are often clingy people , and if you want to accept them you have to accept the clinginess , too .
i don't talk with or hang around clingy people .
your bf is overreacting so bad .
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It would depend how possessive, right?
Like some things are just way out of hand. I don't like out-of-hand stuff.
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I have the opposite problem. My boyfriend is too liberal and he is fine with me hanging out with whoever guys. Sometimes it disappoins me because I feel like he doesn't care enough
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besides the fact that i didnt like my ex at all, this is the second biggest reason i broke up with him. being possesive isn't good, being a little protective is.
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at first it's kinda like hey he really likes me but then..it just gets to be a pain in the @$$ cos it feels like they're taking over your life
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He just feels insecure, but make sure he doesn`t get
way too possessive. I mean it could kind of take away all your freedom.
Tell him that he`s the only one you care about, and tell him that he
needs to trust you more. If he`s just being a little protective it`s okay.
Don`t let things get out of hand, if you don`t feel comfortable, tell him.
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I think it's annoying.
My ex was overly possessive and was jealous of a guy friend that I carpooled with to school.. his girlfriend was my best friend, so what the hell? -_____-a
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I would find it annoying if my bf is being really possessive, but happily, my bf is not. He's protective of me but he's not possessive.
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It would depend how possessive, right?
Like some things are just way out of hand. I don't like out-of-hand stuff.
Agreed, it depends on how far the possessive idea goes.
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Depends on how possessive. Clinginess is very annoying to me.
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It's cute in dramas but when it happens in real life, it's annoying as heck.
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I'm a guy, and In my mind I am very, but I never let it show. I usually encourage hanging out with other guys than myself, its both a way to test myself and test her. If she starts messing with other guys, obviously she wasn't meant to be...might as well find out earlier then later.
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i think it's just plain annoying~~
i mean, if ur bf/gf is really seriously doing something wrong that you need to get all possessively possessive about it, then maybe you guys aren't suposed to be together~
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dependz on how possessive the person is...
so i chose dont really care either way..
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my ex was just like that damm i dumped him thoo
im with someone more... better who doesnt get jealous easily
he (my ex) didnt even let me have a myspace cause i added my guy friends on there.. and i commented them saying hey loser im bored
dammm it get on my nerves
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It's cute in dramas but when it happens in real life, it's annoying as heck.
Agreed.
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I don't like it. It's annoying. My ex got angry because some guy gave me one of those sign pictures. And the guy lives in a different country too so it's not like anything could happen .___.
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I'm not possessive over him, but he is over me... I think it's REALLY annoying!
My boyfriend gets pissed every time I talk to a guy, even my class friends. =_= and if all my friends and I go out, he'd come along EVERY TIME I go out with them...and they feel really uncomfortable with him there. He always has this pissed-off face towards the guys every time they talk to me. =_=
It's annoying, I tried to tell him to tone it down, but it hasn't worked. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) I am used to it by now, but I still don't like it! _
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Sometimes it can be cute, but when it happens too much, it's just plain annoying, i hate clingy guys
