[color=#33CC00]hey guys...in this thread you just pour your hearts out okay...[/color
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edit.
life's full of drama. it doesn't have to be a korean drama in order to be drama, unless of course you're having a love triangle., etc etc.
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.... i still love him even though he don't.. i may not show it and express those feelings to him.. because i want to see him happy and not torture him by being with me.. i know i ain't the girl u lookin for.. dont worry.. i understand ^^ hehe..~ Its enough that i see u happy ~ ^^
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sry bout that-_- hope you feel better...
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To Topic Starter: I am so lost for words. How painful it must be, to have loved someone so dearly and tenderly…and to know, you will never be able to see them once again. But don’t think about how painful it was to lose him, smile and think about how wonderful it was to have known him.
Drama Story: I never really experienced something sad enough…and that’s probably why I’m still the brat that I am.
I caused a lot of problems in my bf and my relationship all because: whenever a guy would talk to me, I would also talk back. But I was told by my bf that if a guy likes talking to me, it probably means he likes me.
Because of this very fact, our relationship has been torn into bits and pieces.
1. (16 yrs old) First guy - he played yu-gi-oh against me a lot….then snuck a kiss on my lips. I know that was so wrong…but, after that incident, I stopped all contact/friendship w/him completely.
2. (17 yrs old) I joined the chess club at our school so I could hang out w/my BF more since he attended a diff. HS and was in THEIR chess team. I wanted to see him at the city tourneys, state tourneys, etc. BUT, at the state tournament when we stayed over night at some college, a guy noticed me and started talking to me about how amazed he was to see a girl playing chess. But as soon as he asked for my phone and e-mail, I ignored him. Later, before the bus was leaving, he stopped me, slipped a note into my hands, and left. My BF was enraged that I had somehow “picked up a guy” from the chess tournament.
3. (19 yrs old) In college, I met this guy in one of my classes. I didn’t noticed him right away, but each day…he would start talking more and more to me. We became friends, partners in class, etc. We never hung out, well…once we had dinner together w/other classmates. But that doesn’t even count! He’s really awesome. But…I guess, most of our conversations tend to be about sex (not explicitly though). I know, this probably sounds BAD, but he has a sense of humor…and he joked a lot. And that’s why, I liked talking w/him. I didn’t have to get to know him, nor vice versa, to have a good conversation. Now, we still keep in touch VIA MSN, but only as friends. Still, it's wrong isn't it?
I know you all probably think I’m the Jerk in the relationship…and I bet I am. Because of all those problems, my bf tore up all our pictures, all my gifts to him, etc. to end our relationship. Yet, later…he couldn’t bring himself to fully let me go. He came back and told me he still loved me. That’s why we’re still together now. But…..i know I need to change if I want to be with him. I guess, if I were living a drama…I would be the MEAN GIRL in it.
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I lost two people who was very dear to me. one of them is my grandpa who passed away last year on october & the other one is one of my best guy friend's dad who passed away recently on june 28.
Even to this day, i'm still not over my grandpa's death. Every day, my heart ache for him to be with us again. I cry myself to sleep every single day. There is never a day when i dont miss him. I still remember that day when the hospital he was in called my house. My mom told me to answer the phone cause she was really tired so she wanted to sleep. The lady on the phone asked what was my relationship with my grandpa, & i told her i was his granddaughter. Then she gave me the news, Your grandpa just passed away. I would never, ever, forget that phone call. I cried my heart out after hearing the news. At my grandpa's viewing+funeral, my emotions was building up inside of me. I just couldn't stop crying. That was one of the longest week ever, i will never forget that one day.
As for my appa (that's what i call one of my best guy friend's dad), he had cancer. The reason why i was so close to him was because he was seriously one of the nicest caring person i'd ever met. He would always help me & my other best friends no matter what. He's like our dad. I once accidentally called him appa & he just smiled at me and told me i could call him appa if i wanted. He looked at me & my friends like we're his own children (by the way, he has 4 children, 2 boy, including my friend & gurls) My best friend & his mom had to make a tough decision & gave permission to the doctor (who was also appa's friend) to take him off life support. It was heart wretching to see my best friend, his mom, and his siblings to go through such situation. I was there too when they pulled the plug. I just broke down with my bf beside me.
Sorry if this post is long. But yea, i lost two love ones who was very dear to me, and even to this day, i still haven't gotten over their death. Every time when i think about how my grandpa isn't here with me anymore, i could feel tears coming out.
I miss them so much, esp. my grandpa.. *sigh* i feel like crying now..
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Sorry.... i think im writing about something completely different ___
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awww i hope things get better for EVERYONE =]
drama story - never been able to tell that guy how much he means to me and i just keep ruining my relationship with my family...i realise that life is to short for bickerings over little things, wen time we lost will be lost forever
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I wonder if the characters from the dramas wonder what korean dramas they're in...
Edit: maybe the topic title should be changed. I've lost loved ones in my life. It was heartbreaking. I don't think I can bring myself to talk about it. Sorry.
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I AM SO SADD (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) these are so sadd....
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omg I'm so sorry blayzebabe (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) ....
that's so sad
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.... i still love him even though he don't.. i may not show it and express those feelings to him.. because i want to see him happy and not torture him by being with me.. i know i ain't the girl u lookin for.. dont worry.. i understand ^^ hehe..~ Its enough that i see u happy ~ ^^
ahh someone like me.
i still love my ex too..
its been a year since he left without any notice.. kinda vanished in front of my eyes..
he still hasn't talked to me about that..
although i barely see him coz it seems like he is trying to avoid me.
after i realized that he left me (which took a long time coz i really culdn't believe it..damn i was so happi..)
i told myself not to be sad coz as long as he's happi i have to be happi too
if another girl can make him happier than i do, then he shuld be with her and not with me..
but there was/is one problem..
after leaving me.. he didnt seem happy anymore..
i know he isnt happy yet
but he dont want to talk to me..
its hard for me to see him unhappy and knowing i cant do anything..
i wish so much that he's happy... argh
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*lost of word* it so sad....
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aw guys.. keep your head up, live strong (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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(+_+)mv: *hug*
cant be bothered to explain
bf and rude parents.
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I've lost one, it was hard. REALLY. My ex, Max, I really cared about him, before I thought it was just a fling, but remember what they say. You don't see someone's true values until they've flown away.
~I met him back in Summer'05 at a little party and we switched digits and email adresses and whatever, and then we slowly got ot know eachother. He opened up easier then I did, and we became closer and ect.
~Then one day he asked me out and I was like SURE! I didn't know how I felt but since we just met, I didn't want to lose a friendship right?
~As days came by, I began to think this was all just lust, but then, one day, he was around with a friend, and then he was walking across the road, but then some f-cktard drunk driver didn't stop and hit him while his friend had already reached the other side of the street.
~He wasin the hospital, he would've been saved but things didn't go as planned, so now he's gone =S
~I really liked his mom but in January'06 after divorcing his dad, she commited suicide out of depression.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) I hate thinking about it, but I'm over it now.
Your situation seems alot worst then mine. =( Bad things come to good people huh?
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Yeah, perhaps this topic subtitle should be Sad Love Stories...
Everyone, keep your heads up! Remember the ones you love, but move forward into tomorrow.
My love life is full of love triangles, so I'm not going to bore everyone with it all (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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i had a similar situation...
I lost two people who was very dear to me. one of them is my grandpa who passed away last year on october & the other one is one of my best guy friend's dad who passed away recently on june 28.
Even to this day, i'm still not over my grandpa's death. Every day, my heart ache for him to be with us again. I cry myself to sleep every single day. There is never a day when i dont miss him. I still remember that day when the hospital he was in called my house. My mom told me to answer the phone cause she was really tired so she wanted to sleep. The lady on the phone asked what was my relationship with my grandpa, & i told her i was his granddaughter. Then she gave me the news, Your grandpa just passed away. I would never, ever, forget that phone call. I cried my heart out after hearing the news. At my grandpa's viewing+funeral, my emotions was building up inside of me. I just couldn't stop crying. That was one of the longest week ever, i will never forget that one day.
As for my appa (that's what i call one of my best guy friend's dad), he had cancer. The reason why i was so close to him was because he was seriously one of the nicest caring person i'd ever met. He would always help me & my other best friends no matter what. He's like our dad. I once accidentally called him appa & he just smiled at me and told me i could call him appa if i wanted. He looked at me & my friends like we're his own children (by the way, he has 4 children, 2 boy, including my friend & gurls) My best friend & his mom had to make a tough decision & gave permission to the doctor (who was also appa's friend) to take him off life support. It was heart wretching to see my best friend, his mom, and his siblings to go through such situation. I was there too when they pulled the plug. I just broke down with my bf beside me.
Sorry if this post is long. But yea, i lost two love ones who was very dear to me, and even to this day, i still haven't gotten over their death. Every time when i think about how my grandpa isn't here with me anymore, i could feel tears coming out.
I miss them so much, esp. my grandpa.. *sigh* i feel like crying now..
it was recent, may 2006, i can still remember the day so well...when the phone call came from the nursing home, which was around 7 in the morning as i was getting ready for school....my mom picked up the phone still very tired and asleep..they said my grandmother just passed away in her sleep...that was just impossible because she was very healthy even though she was in a wheelchair...her death was so ironic and depressing because less than a year ago my grandpa passed away as well..i guess she was very depressed but she was slowly getting better...and now she's gone...
just the fact that she's gone and not here with me just makes me so sad....even this very second and moment i miss her soo much....a lot of things remind me of her even just old people and nursing homes...
i remember that day when she made the promise with me that she would live till she can come to my wedding...she promised i swear.... and at her funeral i looked at her face and it just wasnt the same her...her hair was so rough and she didnt even smell like her anymore.....i just miss her sooo much...
and you now whats so much more ironic? today someone who was as close as my aunt's husband passed away today...he has a son that is only five..i don't know how he will handle something so big at such a young age..he's only five...isn't life so harsh sometimes? its so unbelievable how someone you really care about can be gone only in an instance?
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I lost two people who was very dear to me. one of them is my grandpa who passed away last year on october & the other one is one of my best guy friend's dad who passed away recently on june 28.
Even to this day, i'm still not over my grandpa's death. Every day, my heart ache for him to be with us again. I cry myself to sleep every single day. There is never a day when i dont miss him. I still remember that day when the hospital he was in called my house. My mom told me to answer the phone cause she was really tired so she wanted to sleep. The lady on the phone asked what was my relationship with my grandpa, & i told her i was his granddaughter. Then she gave me the news, Your grandpa just passed away. I would never, ever, forget that phone call. I cried my heart out after hearing the news. At my grandpa's viewing+funeral, my emotions was building up inside of me. I just couldn't stop crying. That was one of the longest week ever, i will never forget that one day.
As for my appa (that's what i call one of my best guy friend's dad), he had cancer. The reason why i was so close to him was because he was seriously one of the nicest caring person i'd ever met. He would always help me & my other best friends no matter what. He's like our dad. I once accidentally called him appa & he just smiled at me and told me i could call him appa if i wanted. He looked at me & my friends like we're his own children (by the way, he has 4 children, 2 boy, including my friend & gurls) My best friend & his mom had to make a tough decision & gave permission to the doctor (who was also appa's friend) to take him off life support. It was heart wretching to see my best friend, his mom, and his siblings to go through such situation. I was there too when they pulled the plug. I just broke down with my bf beside me.
Sorry if this post is long. But yea, i lost two love ones who was very dear to me, and even to this day, i still haven't gotten over their death. Every time when i think about how my grandpa isn't here with me anymore, i could feel tears coming out.
I miss them so much, esp. my grandpa.. *sigh* i feel like crying now..
im so sorry for your lost...
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I've lost one, it was hard. REALLY. My ex, Max, I really cared about him, before I thought it was just a fling, but remember what they say. You don't see someone's true values until they've flown away.
~I met him back in Summer'05 at a little party and we switched digits and email adresses and whatever, and then we slowly got ot know eachother. He opened up easier then I did, and we became closer and ect.
~Then one day he asked me out and I was like SURE! I didn't know how I felt but since we just met, I didn't want to lose a friendship right?
~As days came by, I began to think this was all just lust, but then, one day, he was around with a friend, and then he was walking across the road, but then some f-cktard drunk driver didn't stop and hit him while his friend had already reached the other side of the street.
~He wasin the hospital, he would've been saved but things didn't go as planned, so now he's gone =S
~I really liked his mom but in January'06 after divorcing his dad, she commited suicide out of depression.
(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) I hate thinking about it, but I'm over it now.
Your situation seems alot worst then mine. =( Bad things come to good people huh?
its a good thing to be strong...aja aja fighting!