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For my own personal ex's story I have to say I'm quit neutral with most of my exs, but one. He was one of my longest relationship and drama one. At first we left each other in an okay term you can say, but I was pretty mad when he dated someone else only after a few months and he also got mad at me and since then we hadn't talk to each other.
Even it been a while since I talked to him, but I been in project when I tell him to do this and that and he does listen, but never reply to me. I know I will never forget the relationship we had and there so many time I wanted to make peace with him, but it's alway like a slap in the head with his act. I get mad and then I get sad sometime I wonder if I should give up, I say that, but I guess part of me still want to be his friend when in realize that's like impossible.
So are you still friends with your ex?
How did you guy become friends again?
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we werent friends at first, because he was a ba$tard.
he threatened me about stuff cause he still liked me.
he hated the fact that i had people that liked me during and after our relationship
i told him good luck in finding someone to cope with his bullsh1t
but now we came at terms, we're not the best of buddies
but we can still talk sometimes, usually just a hi, whats up.
we became friends again, because he realized im still important to him
usually ex's dont stay friends unless one still has feelings for the other.
which he still obviously does, cause why would he threaten me?
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I hate my ex. I don't know how he feels towards me now, but eversince I broke up with him [2 years ago], I havn't talked to him since.
We had a lot of drama before I was with him; he was dating another girl and me at the same time. But through it all, I always stuck with him, even after he chose the other girl. I comforted him when the other girl left him.
When I was actually with him, he was an ass. He was too overprotective and became jealous TOO easily.
Whenever we argued, I always hoped that he would break up with me first, because I never wanted to hurt him. Then I got sick of his crap, and dumped him myself. And yet, I still wanted to stay friends with him, but I guess it didn't work out that way.
I think I scarred him though. xD
After me, he's always been afraid to commit [actually become bf/gf] to the later girls he's dated because he claimed that he truely loved me or that he's afraid he'd have his heart stepped on again.. rofl.
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I still am a friend with my exes and I have a lot. Usually I say no to them but they ask again so nicely I tell them I would give them a day to make me like them and that is mostly all of them. Three of them were long-term relationships and they are some of my good friends now. It was a mutual understanding that I was never going to like them in another way or the way they want me to and that friendship is the closest thing to coming close to me so we become friends.
I am sorry I cannot be much help but maybe you should lay low for a while, if he does not want to be friends then what can you do? It has been months since you have talked right? Just enjoy your life and do not think about him so much. Date somebody new and maybe when both of your feelings of resentment are gone and feelings maybe for each other then you can start talking to him slowly and carefully. Good luck in your situation.
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im not friends wid 1 of my ex.
but is friends wid 2 (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
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well after we broke up we never talked for awhile..because he hated me..because i broke it off or something and he went around telling people he still loves me and everything..then i told him i didnt and it was all over then he stated to hate me or something..but we dont talk anymore..i hate him and he hates me...but sometimes we see each other and i just walk off,,so yer...
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For me over is over no friend or ex. I dont talk to my ex for 2 years now.
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my ex is one of my closest friends right now actually, and although he had feelings for me even after i started dating again, we never had bad feelings towards each other and completely respected each other. we broke up about 4 years ago, and we've always been on good terms.
if you both think that you just weren't meant to be, and both move on, it's a lot easier to be friends again.
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1st ex.. uhh i just don't talk to him at all.
2nd... he's a freakin drama queen. ahhaha i just laugh at his loserness.
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I can't be friends after break-up.
It never works...so I just avoid them
-Luna-
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no we're not really friends... i know he still likes me so he'd often try to talk to me... but other wise... it's very awkward talking to him...
he's dated other people but i haven't... it doesn't bother me... i just wish he'd get over me already... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
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Sadly, No. It's awkward so I don't even want to try to be friends.
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One of my ex; I dont even say Hi to when we see each othe;r
but rest are still my frends =) But I just dont find them attractive anymore.
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yea. I like keeping exs as friends unless they are real jerks. I broke up with him and he's dating now so there's no more feelings. it's easier that way
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it's impossible to stay friends
friends don't mistreat friends right?
he treated me like crap after break-up
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none of them.
i was friends with a few..but then we just drifted apart.hah
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i havent dated many guys, so i've never really experienced a bad break up. We end up being 'just friends' but not close friends. its more of a hi and bye and hows it goin kind of thing. The past is the past and things from the past should be kept there only to be brought up if its on good happy terms. being friends with an ex it just depends on the relationship you had with them.
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me and ex still cool, maybe forgoten i dontknow where he is now
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We weren't good friends before we went out so naturally we aren't good friends now. We aren't on bad terms, we're just so different that we don't talk that often.
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Yes, my ex is my best friend (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
