Question:
Okay.
There are these two guys.
Lets call them...Jack and Kyle.
Jack is the handsome, funny, tall slim guy who I really really like. I can't breathe around him.
But there's Kyle. He's cute, but not really my type.
But Jack shows no interest in me - whatsoever.
And it makes me sad.
But innocently, I flirt with Kyle. I thought maybe I COULD like him (or that I liked him a little bit already) and just talked to him to get know him better. I wanted him to hang out with me so maybe...we could hook up and I could stop liking Jack.
I like Kyle, yes.
But I don't like him the amount I like Jack.
I don't get all jittery around him the way do around Jack......
But now, I've gotten what I've wanted; Kyle and I have hung out all day yesterday and today and he's giving me hints that he may have developed feelings for me.
But I don't know how I FEEL. I don't FEEL anything around him;;;and just...hanging out so much with him and thet possibility that he may like me..makes me feel so funny......and weird. Not really in a particularly good way either.
And I guess I'm asking for...advice.
What to do? What to get over this...? Maybe clues that he doesn't like me? Cuz it makes...me feel..heavy? That he may like me...Arggg.
And I thought I liked him too. But not more than a friend. *sigh* This is so weird!
Just...some thoughts, please?
Answer:
You didn't like Kyle...?
You made a mistake by leading him on. If you really feel that way about him, just let him know personally, or stop giving him so much hints that you might like him
As for Jack, if he doesn't seem to like you, don't cling so much to him. Sometimes, when someone doesn't like you, they just wont.....(*ahem*like you to Kyle*ahem*)
