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so.. i've watched this guy from afar..and as much as i try to approach him.. i feel like i'm suffocating or something.. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blush.gif) . All my attempts failed.. few of my friends know him, but i wouldn't want to drop such a big hint to him. i can't find a chill way to get to know him because if he knew i liked him he could like me only by the fact that i'm attracted to him. i kinda like him alot. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif) i know it may sound a little selfish but..i can't help it.
i would seriously APPRECIATE any advice. does anyone have some kind of strategy that would work in my case? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif)
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you can 'accidently' spill a drink on him?
The next time your friends who know him go out somewhere like the movies or whatnot ask them to invite him also so you can casually introduce yourself (or ask a friend to) without making it seem random. a simple 'hi im _____' [insert smile] will do it and dont be nervous. just take a deep breath and be confident! Seriously, when you finally do get to approach him you'll be amazed how easy and smooth it was.
good luck!
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ask ur friends to introduce
its the best way and 1 of the most common way for couple to get together
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Introductions.
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Why don't you give out some more background information
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to get over your fear of approach, go to somewhere with alot of guys or girls, then approach everyone of them for 3 days stright. once you get over your fear, then you will figure out there nothing to be scared of.
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^ hmm...
Did YOU do it?
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Approaches...hmm...where do you see him though? I.e. on the bus, nab a place next to him, or ask him for advice if he works in a shop...??
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Just say Hi ^^
--Yumi
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o.o;; I see so many girls aproaching boys than viceversa. it should be the other way around.. oh well.
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ask your friends that know him for a day to hang out with you and tell them to invite all their friends .. hoping he'd be one of them . and then you can introduce yourself during the hang out
o.o;; I see so many girls aproaching boys than viceversa. it should be the other way around.. oh well.
lol some guys never get around to it and we're some girls dont have the patience.. so yea
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^ hmm...
Did YOU do it?
I dont give advice I that I havent experienced.
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Then don't find a chill way to do it. Are you being pressured or something? Use your own methods.
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Approaches...hmm...where do you see him though? I.e. on the bus, nab a place next to him, or ask him for advice if he works in a shop...??
i see him around school (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
you can 'accidently' spill a drink on him?
The next time your friends who know him go out somewhere like the movies or whatnot ask them to invite him also so you can casually introduce yourself (or ask a friend to) without making it seem random. a simple 'hi im _____' [insert smile] will do it and dont be nervous. just take a deep breath and be confident! Seriously, when you finally do get to approach him you'll be amazed how easy and smooth it was.
good luck!
best advice so far (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif) thanks!
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this is kind of what i'm going through, i guess.. but omg.. he like waved twice at me (well more at the entire group.. haha) and i see him... like 10?(or less) times a day for 5 days... lol.. i SO need to work up the courage to talk to him and say like hi... and umm.. it feels so wierd if you talk to him when his friends are around.....ekk.. so ya... but arg... haha.. so i guess i will have to eventuall say hi, i mean i see him in the morning(when eating breakfast), at school(sitting and waiting outside of class for class to start), at lunch, at my job ( we work in the same building, but different jobs) and dinner/back @ the dorms... OMG.. i see him like a tons of times!! i WILL work up the courage to say HI... ha
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you should just say HI and see what happens from there, or ask him some questions...
++ i'm at this summer camp (i guess you can call it a camp) but i played a whole bunch of jokes on random people, people i don't even know.. and i guess i introduced myself to them... . or viceversa
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Why don't you give out some more background information
very true.
do you attend highschool? college? where do you usually see him? elementary school playground? is he popular? do a lot of girls go after him?
come on, how are we suppose to work with you!?
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are your friends close enough to hang out w/him once in awhile? if they do, you should ask them to invite you next time they're doing something with him.
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Hey, did it hurt?........ When you fell from heaven? HAHAHAHA Try a pick up line. =P
or go with the classic
Hi, umm do you have the time?
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Hi, umm do you have the time?
tried that once.. lol make sure he has a watch first (IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif) haha
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point at him, drop yer jaw, and stare until he comes over and asks you whats wrong
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