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his name is ryan. so we have broken up twice already in a month range. we are trying the whole thing where you hang out together as friends and get to know eachother more. at the moment, we are broken up. i think the main reason for our breakups was because we were more...sexual then being more talkative. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ph34r.gif) i think its true because we have only held a conversation one or two times. its really hard to hold on to a conversation. we have are small talks but overrall, we dont have much to say to each other. im having the feeling that he is losing intrest but then again, its always on and off between eachother.
the thing is that hes a senior and im a sophmore in high school. he told me he'd be going to the community college for two years and then maybe go off to cali with his brother. ill be graduating in two years so who knows what happens. we will stil see eachother since he will still be living her after grad. i do like him a lot and from the last time he told me, he likes me a lot too. my only concern is, is there a chance that this will work out?
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HAHAHAHA IT'S SO OBVIOUS.
NO.
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In my opinion I think for the guy.. this was lust and nothing more than quick and easy screw and go situation. You'll probably end up friends, but I don't advise you getting to attached to him, because I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up dating another girl or something like that. I would say that you should move on. I have to say.. WOW.. Ryan is an idiot, because you look great.
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HAHAHAHA IT'S SO OBVIOUS.
NO.
wow. you didnt have to laugh and be rude like that
In my opinion I think for the guy.. this was lust and nothing more than quick and easy screw and go situation. You'll probably end up friends, but I don't advise you getting to attached to him, because I wouldn't be surprised if he ends up dating another girl or something like that. I would say that you should move on. I have to say.. WOW.. Ryan is an idiot, because you look great.
thanks for the more positive asnwer. actually we havent done it. i ment we are just more touchy touchy then talking. we arent along any lines of sex. im actually not getting attached to him but curious of how things will be. im hard to please and i can tell he works hard for what i want. hes a real gentleman and he knows how to treat girls well. we ARE really trying the whole friend thing. we may not be together, but hes committed to me and not any other girl
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wow. you didnt have to laugh and be rude like that
Yes I did.
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i don't think it will last ): it seems like you guys don't really talk and that's really important
he's going to college while you're staying in high school..it might be hard to keep in touch and seee him
there is a chance it will work out but you have to work at it
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i don't think it will last ): it seems like you guys don't really talk and that's really important
he's going to college while you're staying in high school..it might be hard to keep in touch and seee him
there is a chance it will work out but you have to work at it
He will be going to the community college in my city for 2 years then heading off to Cali. so ill see him a lot out of school. i do understand what you are saying though. thanks for the MORE positive reply.
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i don't think it will last ): it seems like you guys don't really talk and that's really important
he's going to college while you're staying in high school..it might be hard to keep in touch and seee him
there is a chance it will work out but you have to work at it
Yeah, talking goes along way in relationships too.
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there is a chance it will work out but you have to work at it
thanks for the MORE positive reply.
Sorry. I'm blunt and honest. I don't give false hope.
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^ All i wanted to know was people's opinions in a positively manner. i didnt want someone to start laughing and then say NO like that.
back to topic, there COULD be hope if people work out their problems and fix them.
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back to topic, there COULD be hope if people work out their problems and fix them.
That's a load of bs. See false hope. Watch when it finally becomes reality to you you'll look up in the sky and hear a voice say I told you so. And you'll flip me off.
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wow. you didnt have to laugh and be rude like that
thanks for the more positive asnwer. actually we havent done it. i ment we are just more touchy touchy then talking. we arent along any lines of sex. im actually not getting attached to him but curious of how things will be. im hard to please and i can tell he works hard for what i want. hes a real gentleman and he knows how to treat girls well. we ARE really trying the whole friend thing. we may not be together, but hes committed to me and not any other girl
Oh ok.. the way it seemed was like you 2 were having sex. Thanks for clearnig that up. Not to sound mean, but you sort of sound selfish. Like he works hard for you, you're hard to please, etc. What about what you do for him? A friendship or a relationship isn't one-sided you know. In any case I would suggest just maintaing a friendship and seeing what happens?
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HAHAHAHA IT'S SO OBVIOUS.
NO.
yea that`s what i was thinking too =/
he`s in it for lust
and it seems so are you.
you are in the passionate stage and without intimacy and commitment it will die out.
hahah sorry i just took my human sexuality final
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Communication is a big part to a relationship. If the two of you can't hold a converstaion.... I don't think the relationship will last.
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I don't think it'll work out, and I also think it'd be better for you not to try and make it work out because I don't think this is turning out to be a very positive relationship.
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i dont think its gonna work. communication is really important in a relationship and u said u guys dont really talk a lot
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Hmm...sex when you're sophomore.
That'd be an interesting foundation for a relationship if it worked out.
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Can't say anything cause you didn't want anything that was not assurance (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
Plus my values aren't the same as yours, so that'd cause conflict =/
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most highschool relationship won't last..
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i don't think so
if in one month you have more than one breakup- imagine what a life together would be like
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Communication is a big part to a relationship. If the two of you can't hold a converstaion.... I don't think the relationship will last.
yes and u should also do stuff with him other than touching and talking like maybe cooking for him?....some sinigang or some lumpia or even kare-kare! he'll like that (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
