Question:
So yeh....people are always tryin to find that perfect one......and also people complain cuz someone aint good enough for them.
Well what I want to know is....what do ya'll have to offer someone in a relationship?
Dont act like you're perfect....also let me know what your downfalls are that might hurt your relationship with the opposite sex.
What things do you think you can improve on?
-Luna-
Answer:
Hmm... Yeah,..
As for me, I think, or at least I'd like to think, that I do have some mental comfort to offer for the guy. I know I'm not perfect at all, but I also know that I know what I'm talking about when I talk. For one thing, I like to think about a lot of things. I like to analyze people, I get that from my father. I do like philosophy, so I'm not always about clothes, jewelry, and all the practical shizzle girls like. Although most girls would probably think they know a lot, and I guess I do belong in that category. But I know I'm not typical. I'm not just the girl-next-door or jenny-from-the-block. There's more to me than that.
Most of the time, I am pretty lenient on things. I try to get to know the person before I start a relationship with that person. But to me, the past is the past. There's nothing anyone can do to change the past. So, let it stay as the past. I focus on the present and the future. That's the rule I live by.
HOWEVER, my weakness is that I do lose my temper a lot. But I try to keep it under control right now. I think the past year has taught me to use self control. There are many times that I do wish to lose my temper, but I stopped myself before doing so. So, I am slowing improving on that. But it takes a lot of time.
Sometimes, I think I'm overally confident. My dad said that might scare boys away. I guess it's true. I act too tough at times. One of my close friends once said She might act she's all tough on the outside, but she's actually a big softy. Don't let her fool you to my, now, exboyfriend. Haha, I think it's pretty true. I suppose I should express my feelings more instead of hiding it and act like it's nothing. Something bad always happens when I do that. You'd think I learned my lesson, but I just keep on making the same mistake. But I hope I will overcome it one day.
There're many things I try to do, like understanding the other person. But sometimes, it's very difficult to understand boys. I dislike how they put on an act that they don't care about you, or maybe they don't but still. So, I get upset about that quite often. I guess being caring at least once in a while will calm me down and I'd feel comfort. Also, I tryyyyyyyyy to cook. Haha, I know boys like it when girls can cook like mom, because not that many girls, at least Chinese girls, cook anymore. I don't. But I think I will start learning from my mom because she's the bomb (lucky dad hehe).
I appreciate. Tiny things like just simply saying Did you have a good day? or I'm calling to say good night or an email or a text message or a PM mean a lot to me. I think it's sweet. It makes me feel all warm inside. And I like that. But not many guys do that. So I guess it's okay without it. But when someone does, I'd remember it forever. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blush.gif)
Ok, that's a lot of writing. I think I will stop now. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
But yeah, I don't have much to offer. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
Answer:
In the beginning of my relationship, I realized how selfish I could be;
even so, he never minded - but it made me feel like I was restricting him.
That was my downfall - I like giving him his space but he likes it when
I'm included in his space - it's a weird situation.
I have too much pride for my own good. I'll admit when I'm wrong,
but when I think/know that I'm right, I will stick by my opinion,
even if it causes a major downfall in our relationship.
But the things I do offer: I'm grateful for everything therefore I appreciate
everything. I love sincerely and honestly - and the only thing I'd ever want is
to have that back in return. Everyday I walk in with a smile, being
so thankful to have a person like him in my life and hoping that he's thankful
for me too ..
Answer:
I'm a very positive thinker in a relationship, where I would always agree to what the girl is saying. Bad at giving rejection?
i'm also very supportive, and active to the moment.
Downfall is, I play around too much and I sometimes say the wrong things at the wrong time.
Answer:
Im open minded to new ideas, and a lot of other things. I'm good at comforting and know exactly where to go and what to do for him to get his mind off of whatever hes pissed off about. I can read a guys mind, so i know what they want...my downfalls are, i try not to get too attached, and i don't open up to him. the guy im with right now says my downfall is how he's not my top priority...
Answer:
The good things about me are I know how to read someone's emotions, and act accordingly. I'm good at cheering people up, I think, and I can accept a person's eccenticities.
Something a guy might not like about me is, I dont allow them to be the superior or stronger one too much. I have a bit of short temper, although Im good at calming myself down again. I'm pretty stubborn (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
Answer:
lets all toot our horns now shall we (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
Answer:
I give in too easy. I mean I'm a really soft person. I cannot do something that would hurt my guy. I care for him too much, and I also have this thing where if I like/love someone, I will continue on like/love that someone until they break up with me. I never have the heart to break up with anyone, because I'm afraid that I would hurt their feelings.
Answer:
Good thing - I know what to say when they're in a mood, sad, happy etc.
Bad things - I never get too attached, I pick at flaws too much, I get bored easily, I can be selfish, I prefer to spend time with my friends, I already have a built impression of what I want the relationship to be like before it's already started.
Answer:
all i would have to offer for that special girl is myself. i know that i may not be perfect or whatever but i will always be there when she needs, ill be strength when she feels weak or when she needs support ill reach out with open arms to help her. i would want to make her feel comfortable and safe when she's around me and that she would not have a care in the world and be able to trust in me as i would to her.
Answer:
Good quality - i try to improve myself so i can make him look good.
Bad quality - it's easy for me to grow crushes on other guys while i'm in a relationship.. and also sometimes i say hurtful things without thinking they are hurtful
Answer:
if you're the type to cling on to your lover , we're not meant to be .
that's the best advice i can give any guy coming after me .
also i like challenges ,so guys who fall head over heels for me will never get into the picture
now my good stuff ...
i show my true self and keep it on surface . i'm not the type to act cute or whatever because in the end i know if all my bad traits leak out - it would just be bad . so i keep my true self on surface and as real as possible so no surprises come to the end . i let my lover see me as i am from the beginning to end .
lots of amount of care and comfort
i offer space and understanding of your problems
gosh why do i feel like i'm advertising myself?? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif)
Answer:
i'm super loyal, super patient...
thats about it. the rest is downfalls
i get bored easily, i expect too much, i dont like weekness, i can be boring, dont like being controled at all, dont like too much attention and love, dont like too little attention and love....
Answer:
well to be fair, these are the things guys have said about me:
what I have to offer :
-wide ranged great sense of humor
-knows how to have fun
-friendly and polite (they feel comfortable introducing me to their friends and their parents)
-I'm very reasonable and understanding
-and of course appearance matters; I don't consider myself drop dead gorgeous, but I can say that I do have great hygiene and style.
my downfalls :
-when I get angry, I get A N G R Y! (temper problem)
-it takes alot for me to trust guys completely
-I'm very blunt (what can I say? I hate sugarcoating)
-if a guy doesnt live up to his word, I'll give him a really hard time; expect a nasty attitude, hissyfit, cold shoulder, etc.
-I can be really insecure (plays into the whole trust issue I have).
Answer:
Well what I want to know is....what do ya'll have to offer someone in a relationship?
All knowing, all powerful, etc. etc.
Dont act like you're perfect....also let me know what your downfalls are that might hurt your relationship with the opposite sex.
Girls don't like it how it's impossible for them to be better than me. They think its cause there is a glass ceiling that's sexist and stopping them from accomplishing more when in fact it's just cause they can't accept the fact that god has always been, still is, and always will be a man, and that man IS ME.
What things do you think you can improve on?
Updating the human species. My Human project is still in its beta stage, but updates will soon be out. Men Version 1.01 will allow men to have a brain and Women Version 6.66 will allow women to have a heart.
Answer:
The Good:
- I'm creative
- I'm funny
- I look ok, kinda cute-ish
- Pretty smart, I can carry a conversation, I have opinions
- I love music
- open-minded
- Kind
The Bad:
- I don't call everyday
- I'm a bit materialistic (not with others money, but I love stuff haha)
- I'm weird/goofy
- I can be irrational sometimes
- I can be harsh and analytical too
Answer:
[+]
-open minded
-humorous
-nice
-creative-i suppose relationships are pretty interesting with me
-chatty, i keep conversations going
-i love all kinds of music
-goofy person
-when i meet someone, i act as if they're my best friend from elementary...so i kinda crack jokes at them (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
-i dont get bored too easily, i can entertain myself with a sock...wait, maybe thats a bad thing...
[-]
-sometimes i like to argue...i debate a bit
-sometimes clingy (i get attached quickly)
-materialistic
-blunt
-i can be a jealous person at times.
Answer:
Good things:
I am a great listener, open minded and patient with most people. Well manner and polite. Loyal, trustworthy, reliable. I keep my promises and won't make promises I can't keep. Nice style, heh.
Bad things:
Sometimes I give in too easily. Moody (a bit). Jealous type person (a bit). Shy, quiet. I expect too much sometimes.
Answer:
i know what you mean luna
well for one i always give 100% trust...
until they break it.
and still then i still give them a lot of my trust.
and i am 100% loyal
i will always remember important dates
if my bf told me to call at some time
i`ll call him
i don`t forget.
keep my promises. unless i have to break them
i`ll love unconditionally.
the bad
i`m quick tempered.
i won`t listen right away and i`ll just blow up.
i`m really harsh sometimes
Answer:
Honesty, sincerity, extreme loyalty, trustworthy, caring, loving, good listener.
BUT--
Close-minded, not completely understanding on his flaws, not very sympathetic, not very talkative, not active, no aegyo(girlishness/clingyness).
