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So here is the problem I have this friend see she is seriously crushing on this asian guy from a far. She is to affraid to approach him because she is Black and she feels she doesnt stand a chance at even befriending this guy. Why because she doesnt think she can compete with the beauty and style of asian girls. So everyday I have to watch her cry and be heartbroken and I feel bad for her. She asks me questions beacause she knows I am into Asian Culture, but the questions she asks me I myself can not answer why because I am Black also and I am not a guy. So I wouldnt begin to know how to answer her questions. For example she talks about all the time and wonders what most Asian guys look for in a girl and how can she impress them? Questions like that see so I was wondering if any of you all would be willing to give me some words of encouragement or blunt hard truth to offer to her?Just be honest no need to sugar coat if you think I should tell her it would be pretty impossible or to just give it a shot hehe take a chance!Another problem she is kind of sensitive so I dont want to hurt her feeling. Thank you all for taking time to read this and I look forward to any responses. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)
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HAHAHAHAHA BEAUTY AND STYLE OF ASIAN GIRLS............./wipeswaterfalltearsoffmyface
kaaaaaaay, what type of asian guy is he? Fob, white, black, medium? You can tell what type he is from the people he hangs out with. I think the white and black asian stereotype would go for a black girl. The fobs are too ethnocentric, and the mediums only want mediums, maybe fobs.
And what's his ethnicity and how does he dress.
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^ lol why do you find that so funny? Oh and to answer your question I believe she said he is Korean and his style of dress hmmmm I guess she says he dressed more on the preppy side but she said he can be laid back in his style so in the middle I suppose.... Oh and she isnt what like people most think of as the stereotypical Black girl she grew up in the subburbs surrounded by white people preppy her whole life heheh lol. So she isnt into the thuggish type hahahahas anyways thank you for your help. Opps forgot something you asked me what type does he hang around well he hangs around mostly Korean and some white people. I know this beucase we all go to the same College and I see him around alot with his friends.
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Well, if he isn't interested in your friend, it's his own problem! It sounds blunt, but there are other fish in the sea.
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OOOOOOOOH college, thats a whole new playing field. Koreans are the most ethnocentric bunch of people I know, so thats an obstacle. But if I was approached by a preppy black girl, I'd be thinking I have mad game that transcends skin color.
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^ AHAHAHAHAHAHA why?!?! Hey seriously you would be surprised how many of us Black girls are interested. The numbers would SHOCK you! Anyways still looking for more help.Thank you
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well it's not like asian guys(most of them anyway) are super different from any other race of guys. tell her to just approach him as she would any other guy.
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Is your friend light, medium, or dark ebony?
el oh el, I just used ebony.
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^ lol you couldn't just stick with dark by itself?
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^hahahaha she is light medium maybe Christina Millians color a bit darker than Beyonce if you dont know who Christina Millian is lol.
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for starters, shes gotta have the guts to talk to the guy. thinkin about it and not doing anything wont get her anywhere.
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oh and ninpoo why does that matter if she is dark or light? She is very intelligent, speaks proper english, loves her family, doesnt do drugs, has strong morals, doesnt party really at all. Basically what I am trying to say the girl has good sense and knows how to present and carry herself with class.Most of my girl friends are this way as well so to crush any pre misconceptions about her being ghetto.None of us are.
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^Well, it matters a lot I think. Speaking from experience (I am an asian dude), asian guys are very shallow. But she sounds like a cool chick to hang out with.
^hahahaha she is light medium maybe Christina Millians color a bit darker than Beyonce if you dont know who Christina Millian is lol.
Yo, asian guys dig that. And yeah, I know who Christina Millian is.
TALULA, look what I found.
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Crazy lady.
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talula-she does want to do something about but she is to concerned with trying to figure out how she will impress him. yeaaa go figure
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ninpoo - u like to start things dont u...tsk tsk
anyways purple20 - just tell her to be herself casue like seriously, ur firend doesnt need to impress the guy. if shes all that u state above, she doesnt need to go and change herself. if the guy doesnt like her, then thats his prob, not ur friend's
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No, I was looking for new material to make a talula avatar/signature, and google images came up with that. There aren't any good material so I stopped.
I was going to try and copy your .gif signature and edit it, but too much work editing a .gif.
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lol.
yea u wouldnt want to mess with my sig...its pretty dope haha.
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talula- thank you for the advice it is very helpful. I appreciate you being real about this.
ninpoo-HAHAHA I appreciate your real and truthful answers as well. Hahaha but I have question for you what do you consider beautiful about us Sistas?(if anything hahaha) and still looking for more advice if there is any left to give.
Do you all really think she should just approach him or are you just being nice?lol
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talula- thank you for the advice it is very helpful. I appreciate you being real about this.
ninpoo-HAHAHA I appreciate your real and truthful answers as well. Hahaha but I have question for you what do you consider beautiful about us Sistas?(if anything hahaha) and still looking for more advice if there is any left to give.
Do you all really think she should just approach him or are you just being nice?lol
Hmmm, I'd have to say your guy's curves, which is an obvious overdone answer. And most black girls I've met are really down to earth and chill as hell, so thats always been my stereotype.
lol.
yea u wouldnt want to mess with my sig...its pretty dope haha.
ACTUALLY... I did make an attempt at it, but with disastrous outcomes.
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It was supposed to say, i 3 talula. But I don't know what happened.
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It was supposed to say, i 3 talula. But I don't know what happened.
that would make me the humper...lol
purple20 - no prob, just make friends with him like she would otherwise to others. keep it natural.
