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when things are bad. and you still remain together. what do you hold onto, even if things don't get any better (if you hold on)...and is that healthy?
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i dont hold onto anything in a bad relationship
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well...if it's NOT a bad relationship, but just at the moment, things are little iffy...i hold onto all the good things, until we get through our little fuss...but if it's a bad relationship...i don't hold on, cause it's a waste of time
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i hold onto the hope ... that this is just a bad time , all couples go through bad times , i remember how we started and how things were and i hold on to the hope that as soon as this bad phase passes , things will get better again .
because you know what? my boyfriend and i are going through bad times and even though it's happening right now , we're both holding on . he tells me it'll be okay and i trust him .
it doesn't feel very healthy , after all it's tiring but i'll live through it
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i dont hold onto anything in a bad relationship
ditto
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^^ yeah..tru that i can see how its holding onto hope..i did that in my last relationship..but doing that sumtimes just makes it all the worse in the end..=\ i think theres a fine line between needing to hold on..and needing to let go..n i dont think i exactly noe where that is yet..
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i dont hold onto anything in a bad relationship
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hold on to the few good times we had, the nice things that he said, the way he/things could be,lingering on hope that maybe things will one day be the way they were suppose to be, to only feel the pain even more when things are finally over.
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I hold onto the future, but I don't keep any illusions for the present. I'm cautious about when to let go and when to keep holding on.
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I haven't experienced a bad relationship but some reasons you might hold on:
- security (feel safe with the one you're with)
- hope that it'll become better (know things will improve0
- too stupid to realize it's a bad relationship
- no one else to love you / for you to love
