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i know alot of people here in soompi were in a long term relationship, and ended up breaking it off.
and obviously, there was a reason why you choose to stay with them for long..but what exactly caused ur relationship to end? If you were together for so long, why can't you stay together?
long term meaning=more than 1 year
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cause life was setting a course that led us to take separate paths, you have so many more decisions and choices to make when you're younger and more goals you want to accomplish and sometimes it just doesn't include your s/o or they're honestly a set back, which might seem harsh, but you can't deny reality...
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Length of relationship =/= always mean a lasting one. There're just too many reasons that can attribute to making one work and one blowing up.
Personally, mine was distance amongst other things.
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I have so many reasons. But I still don't have an honest answer to why I broke it off. It'll just be me rambling if I told you why. But I've been in one for 2 years and everyone thought we were perfect. But they didn't know about the emotional and physical abuse and fights and the differences. There was just too much going on and too many changes happening, like me switching colleges. He was also holding me back, always on my butt, overprotective...
I lose hope sometimes knowing that I can't even handle a relationship as good as this one. But then again, there were just too many bads too. Maybe next time?
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what exactly caused ur relationship to end?
he died...
If you were together for so long, why can't you stay together?
Because when i'm with him i would always be happy, he would always know what's wrong with me, he knows me better than i know myself... Everything was going well. He had to move to the States so it became long distance and i guess he got really depressed there because he had to leave everything behind from that move. Then the next thing i know he's gone from this world, after moving there something must have happened.. it's been 5 years now. i've learnt to move on, but i still have dreams of me and him just chilling and talking about things.. weird isn't it? hehe
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to suki_* ... that's just so hard to hear. makes me a little sad hearing it. goodluck.
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aiya...relationship for 2 1/2 years.
wasn't happy anymore..he was never sweet/romantic/ etc..never kept his promises. too overprotective, i couldnt do jack i can't read. going away to college soon..i dont want to be somewhere else when my heart is still here tugging on me to come back...i wanna go to med school, and i know i wont have time for a bf...i want to study abroad..and dont want to be held back. we were on different pages..everything was MY FAULT. he wasnt even proud of me when he found out i got accepted into UC colleges, he just said 'wtf am i going to do, i'm stuck at a community college cause of you' pshh..he didnt even apply, and his mom wouldnt let him go far anyway. everywhere he goes his mom would have to follow him. i didn't feel right in the relationship anymore.
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suki* - =(( *hugs you* sorry to hear
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kakashi Posted Today, 09:12 PM
to suki_* ... that's just so hard to hear. makes me a little sad hearing it. goodluck.
thanks ~ it was tough still is...
vividified Posted Today, 11:17 PM
suki* - =(( *hugs you* sorry to hear
thanks (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif) i miss him alot but it's really has been 5 years. ppl keep telling me to move on. i still haven't found someone that really keeps me grounded... i still do miss him alot..
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^oh god...i'd kill myself if my boyfriend passed away...
...power to ya.
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I feel so sad now...grr...
whenever i hear sad stuff like this, i always daydream and have a little mini drama series in my head and see what would happen if it happened to me...lol...then i start crying...and everyone's just looking at me like why is she crying?...heh.
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^^
you are so cute! hehe i did think about it ... i thought i didn't have any reason to live, but it would be selfish of me because i still have a loving family and friends to support me through it (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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^ really sorry to hear that ...=(
well i'm currently in a relationship thats almost 4 yrs and im breaking up with him for good. things have changed and he's lying about the littlest things now. he's too confusing and not really romantic anymore. i'm ready to find someone else. actually, i've been ready but didnt have the guts to break up with him because we've been together for so long.
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suki_* sorry to hear that =[
who knows 1 of those my sassy girl thing can happen =] u'll find your guy
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what exactly caused ur relationship to end?
he died...
If you were together for so long, why can't you stay together?
Because when i'm with him i would always be happy, he would always know what's wrong with me, he knows me better than i know myself... Everything was going well. He had to move to the States so it became long distance and i guess he got really depressed there because he had to leave everything behind from that move. Then the next thing i know he's gone from this world, after moving there something must have happened.. it's been 5 years now. i've learnt to move on, but i still have dreams of me and him just chilling and talking about things.. weird isn't it? hehe
awww, sorry to hear that
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distance...i took him for granted..he didn't tell i was hurting him..
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liltweekstar Posted Today, 04:50 PM
^ really sorry to hear that ...=(
well i'm currently in a relationship thats almost 4 yrs and im breaking up with him for good. things have changed and he's lying about the littlest things now. he's too confusing and not really romantic anymore. i'm ready to find someone else. actually, i've been ready but didnt have the guts to break up with him because we've been together for so long.
wow... that must have been very hard for you (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tears.gif) hope the two of you can still be friends (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
HKS457 Posted Today, 05:30 PM
suki_* sorry to hear that =[
who knows 1 of those my sassy girl thing can happen =] u'll find your guy
hehehe lol if only... i'm mean.. so no one wants me T_T
to Smile_On thanks ^^
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We weren't meant to be
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what exactly caused ur relationship to end?
he died...
If you were together for so long, why can't you stay together?
Because when i'm with him i would always be happy, he would always know what's wrong with me, he knows me better than i know myself... Everything was going well. He had to move to the States so it became long distance and i guess he got really depressed there because he had to leave everything behind from that move. Then the next thing i know he's gone from this world, after moving there something must have happened.. it's been 5 years now. i've learnt to move on, but i still have dreams of me and him just chilling and talking about things.. weird isn't it? hehe
Don't worry he's here with me! That whole thing about suicides not going to heaven is a bunch of bulls***. I have to admit though, he can't cook if his afterlife depended on it.
^oh god...i'd kill myself if my boyfriend passed away...
...power to ya.
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I feel so sad now...grr...
whenever i hear sad stuff like this, i always daydream and have a little mini drama series in my head and see what would happen if it happened to me...lol...then i start crying...and everyone's just looking at me like why is she crying?...heh.
Use my name in vain again and I'll...I'll...hmmm what are girls scared of? I KNOW! I'll make you fat!
