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Rant, rant, rant, rant, rant ~
She's prettier than me, smarter than me, funnier than me, her personalities cuter than mine, she's closer to him than I am, she's more athletic than me, she's 'funner' to be around, and in simpler terms, she's just everything I'm not.
I think I've come to be jealous of my friend these past couple of days. I'll call her Sally. You see, we met in 8th grade and I've had no problem with her then. She was cool and outgoing and most importantly, she acted like herself. But when we got seperated into different high schools, she met a new group of friends.. they're all guys.. o_o; My crush is amongst one of them, by the way. Let's call him Bob. They became close friends overtime and I just can't help thinking.. what if he asks her out? I feel waves of depression wash over me whenever I think of the possibilities of them being together. I just recently hung out with her&thenewgroupoffriends and she would NOT stop getting all over him. She leans against him, piggy rides on his back, and.. just.. WON'T STOP TOUCHING HIM. Her friends from her school all love her, they got her plenty of presents for her birthday and even got her a surprise cake. She get's all the attention all the time while I stand in the corner by myself.
She's seriously an over dramatic person, and she's reallyyy sensitive. She cries alot in general, and recently I've come to the conclusion that she cries to get their attention. I mean, she would cry because she thinks you got mad at her. It's so freaking annoying when she's crying because she thinks her group of guy friends don't have the time to hang out with her. THEY'RE BUSY, FOR CHRIST'S SAKE, AND THE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND YOU, DAMMIT ~
I've never been jealous of anyone before, not even celebrities and whatnot. I'm happy with myself, and who I am. But ever since Bob and Sally have been getting close, I've felt depressed, heartbroken, and just ugly. I keep thinking to myself, 'she's the one he likes, she's the one he likes.' Everytime I look at her, she's ALWAYS all over Bob. I feel like shooting her in the face. Am I too ugly? I think I am. My self-esteem is going down the drain. She's pretty, I'm not. She's funny, I'm not. She's a fun person to hang around with, I'm not. She's smart, I'm not.
& I know I'm a bad friend for talking about her this way.. but I just needed to let this all out. I can't keep it to myself anymore. I'm jealous of her. And just might have grown to hate her too. /3 ~
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For starters, if you like the guy? Tell him you like him, and see what happens? If he doesn't like you? It's not the end of the world. If Bob likes the other girl more than you it's not the end of the world.
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Eh, stop hanging out with her, I guess? Make new friends, and maybe you'll find some better friends. With the guy, I think Sally likes Bob and quite possibly he might like her too.
Maybe you'll find another guy in the meantime?
The Green eyed monster is such a biotch
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Everyone has felt jealous of someone else in one point of her life.
Maybe you should take a break from her? Stop hanging around her for a while and go meet some new people? It won't be hard to do because you guys go to different schools. This way, you'll probably also notice some hotties in your school that you haven't before.
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rant it all out , it's all good for your health =D
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Jealousy can be as bad as attention-seeking. I know its completely natural to feel jealous, Ive been in the past many times but I've learnt to either complain and get out, or stay with her and shut up.
Be humble - that's the most beautiful thing a person could ever be.
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I had this problem too. The thing was I wasn't the only one feeling it though. Everyone else around her was too. Especially the girls and never the guys. It just seemed like all the guys were all over her. We kind of had a talk with her about it, & it kind of turned out ugly. But after awhile the things she did didn't bother me as much anymore. Whenever I felt jealous or whatever I would just leave or make an excuse and go somewhere else. It helps me because then I won't blow up and scream & it does her good too.
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Did you ever tell her that you like him? Maybe she'll back off if you do.... unless she likes him too.
It's perfectly normal to get jealous, but don't go over board with jealousy. I think everyone's been jealous of one thing or another before...
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hmm i'm in that situation too only your sally is my cousin. i guess my advice is, find out if she likes him. who cares if she's better then you... you are who you are. and if a guy can't accept that then who cares about him. if you think they like eachother, you should find out first other then jump to conclusions. for me, i just decided to let it be. if my cousin's talking to him as more then friends then no matter how much i feel betrayed and such i'm just nice enough to let it slide. but not everyone is nice like that.
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rant it all out , it's all good for your health =D
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feeling jealous is 1 thing, whining is another. quit whining and go do something.
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so theyr not goin` out yet right?.. yew still have a chance - _ -;;
stop thinkin` so negatively.. ive been in yur position before nd the thing
i regreted not doin` is take`n action. all i was doin` is stand around nd
slowly watched my friend nd the guy i like get closer nd closer. yew
wont hav any say if they start goin` out becoz yew were the dimwit tat
never did anything. all yew can do is blame yurself if they end up goin` out.
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Did you ever tell her that you like him? Maybe she'll back off if you do.... unless she likes him too.
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My cousin used to be in that kind of situation. She told me every guys that she knows liked her. But now all those days are gone, it's a new begining for her and I'm glad that she's now going out with this really great guy.
I found it's annoying when girls started to cry for some freaking unimportant reasons.
And yup, you really should meet new people since you two goes to different school. Let them be, and have your own new life. The more you think about it and the more you'll get hurt. Just drop it, and be happy and you will feel beautiful again. You can't force or demand life. You're peer pressure yourself and observing the stress. Do something that you will make you more comfortable and relax, aiight?
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maybe that guy bob could see the real you if you weren't obsessing about sally. you could be friendly and outgoing too. bob doesnt even knowww you like him, why don't you tell sally how you feel and maybe she will stop being so touchy touchy with him?
seeing as how sally and bob go to the same school and are in the same circle of friends its natural for them to get close right?
being jealous and angry at your friend like that over a guy is a terrible thing to do.
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I can see why you are jealous. I think it is time for you and Sally to seperate. I think you should find your own self and learn to be who you are and have friends you are more comfortable to be about. Sometimes it isnt always fun having a friend who is popular with guys and hangs with guys all the time because then you are left out. About the bob situation, I think Sally might like him too. I think you should tell Sally about liking him. In some way, you should just confess your feelings so you can get over it or maybe even better that maybe you will have a chance with bob.
you never know until you confess. haha if i were you i would be really depressed and jealous too. sometimes it sucks have a pretty friend.
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heh it's good to release all this pent up anger/jealousy.
we all have our jealous moments. but i think its better if you told your friend about your crush with bob. apparently she doesn't know about it so you can't really blame her for being close with bob =\
i have a friend similar to your best friend, luckily, i don't like anyone within our group...so there's no need to be jealous of her.
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If a friend makes you feel this way, then maybe they're not your friend
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i've never felt jealous before....until i met my guy friend cause i liked him and well...there were other girls. *aheM* -___- it's a crap feeling so it's good that you got this out of your system.
does your friend know that you like the guy?
well i think you should take matters into your own hands and not worry so much about what she does. try to talk to him and get to know him and stuff...no one is perfect. be the best that you can be (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) you are a beautiful person inside and out in your own unique way no matter what, so don't you go comparing yourself to someone else!!
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I think you need to think about this situation more carefully. The guy never said he liked you and you didn't tell him you liked him, right? If sally liked him, then i would say it's normal for her to be flirtatious around him. Instead of paying attention to how prefect she is, focus on your own good qualities. and make a move on the guy. if he doesnt like you, move on.
