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i'm not sure if any of you remembered my past thread about deciding to go to my best friend's prom with him or not while my bf disapproved.
the majority of you told me to go and well, i had made up my mind to go but just now, my best friend just told me that someone else had asked him to go to prom and he wants to go with them instead.
i told him it was fine but to be honest, i'm a little hurt. i mean, i got into a fight over this with my bf and i was really looking forward to it because i thought that it would somehow fix our friendship. afterall, like many of you had said, we had made a promise and i was obligated to keep it but now he's gone and ditched me for someone else.
it just feels like our friendship will never be on the mend again. we're just drifting apart even more now.
lol sorry, i just wanted to vent.
i would like to talk to him about it but i'm not quite sure how. i mean, i can't change his mind about going with someone else but i want him to know how i actually feel about it.
after he told me this, i don't feel like going to prom at all, his or my own, anymore .
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Aw...cheer up!!!!!! =D
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prom is ghey...who knows maybe some handsome fellow might throw you a prom if you tell them you didn't get to go to yours...it happens...i kno ;P
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poor girl .. maybe you should tell the guy how hurt you are.
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that's kind of flakey and i would be really hurt and annoyed too. you should tell him how you feel, even if you aren't going to go with him. at least that will let him why you feel the way you do about him.
that could give it a reason to talk about 'friendship problems' with him.
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man what kind of best friend is that? that was really flakey of him when you cared enough to go with him even if your boyfriend would get mad over it. go to your prom. dont regret not going just because of your friend making you mad over it.
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that is so shady
i mean personally...he should understand that u even got into a fight with ur bf and stuff
but cheer up~ it's not worth going to prom with someone like that
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looks like a lost cause to me, some people are just meant to go their separate ways no matter how hard you try to hold on to them, maybe he's one of them, looks like you've put in enough effort and he hasn't so just let things be, if he wanted to keep the friendship going he'll come back to you, and at that point it'll just be a decision you have to make...
off topic...this brought back a memory, totally different situation though, it was more like prom + best friend = angry bf = new gf for me ^^
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if he can't appreciate your friend
then he's not worth being your boyfriend
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Cheer up.
He's not worth thinking about like that, I mean it is HIS prom and although he promised to go with you. The two of you are just friends, and now you can go to YOUR prom with YOUR bf (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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what he did was really....wrong. i'd be hurt too. i think you should just talk to him about this and anything else that you are concerned with between you two. if he was a bestfriend, he'd take the time to listen. if he doesn't and pushes your feelings and concerns aside, i say find someone else worth the title of bestfriend.
remember that life comes with no guarantees and that friends come and go.
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woah.. that's one HARSH best friend.. but i don't think he knew how you felt about it.. i mean... sure, you as HIS BEST FRIEND should be happy that he's actually found someone else to go to the prom that he might actually have feelings for or something like that... but you should be happy.. and fights always happen for you to do something you really want... but then it's not worth it... that's life. cheer up.
and btw...do you like him...more than a best friend?
=)
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Awww... I think he just didn't know how you felt about the whole thing. Go talk to him about it.
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lol you can always boast on how much fun you
had at your prom (but that's too mean) ..
in the end, he's not making himself to be the best friend
that he said and promised he was. you shouldn't worry
about it and just focus on what's now important to you.
unless you want to still keep your friendship going,
then by all means, tell him how hurt you felt and make him
understand.
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i'm not sure if any of you remembered my past thread about deciding to go to my best friend's prom with him or not while my bf disapproved.
the majority of you told me to go and well, i had made up my mind to go but just now, my best friend just told me that someone else had asked him to go to prom and he wants to go with them instead.
i told him it was fine but to be honest, i'm a little hurt. i mean, i got into a fight over this with my bf and i was really looking forward to it because i thought that it would somehow fix our friendship. afterall, like many of you had said, we had made a promise and i was obligated to keep it but now he's gone and ditched me for someone else.
it just feels like our friendship will never be on the mend again. we're just drifting apart even more now.
lol sorry, i just wanted to vent.
i would like to talk to him about it but i'm not quite sure how. i mean, i can't change his mind about going with someone else but i want him to know how i actually feel about it.
after he told me this, i don't feel like going to prom at all, his or my own, anymore .
that's pretty as-h-oleish of your friend. oh yea...don't let ur bf know u're this upset =P i'm sure u're smarter than that but jus making sure hehe. cuz he'd get crazy jealous again. i think u should confront ur friend...i mean u sacrificed all this for u, got into a fight wit ur bf and all and basically choose ur friendship over ur bf's upset...he should def value that more. u're not gunna feel any better jus dwellin on it. it's muc hbetter to jus confront him and get it over with...either get over it and end the friendship or have him apologize
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karma xD
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i had told my bf about what happened last night and he was with his friend at the time. his friend happens to go to the same school as my best friend and he confronted him about it this morning without my knowledge. he casually asked my best friend who he was going to prom with and he replied oh, nobody, i just got rid of my date last night.
my bf was reluctant in telling me about what my best friend had said but when i finally heard it, i felt betrayed. not only did he blow me off, but he lied to me about it. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mad.gif)
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i had told my bf about what happened last night and he was with his friend at the time. his friend happens to go to the same school as my best friend and he confronted him about it this morning without my knowledge. he casually asked my best friend who he was going to prom with and he replied oh, nobody, i just got rid of my date last night.
my bf was reluctant in telling me about what my best friend had said but when i finally heard it, i felt betrayed. not only did he blow me off, but he lied to me about it.
O_O!! maybe he just didnt want you to stress over it?
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i had told my bf about what happened last night and he was with his friend at the time. his friend happens to go to the same school as my best friend and he confronted him about it this morning without my knowledge. he casually asked my best friend who he was going to prom with and he replied oh, nobody, i just got rid of my date last night.
my bf was reluctant in telling me about what my best friend had said but when i finally heard it, i felt betrayed. not only did he blow me off, but he lied to me about it. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mad.gif)
Wow, I don't know what to say. I can't begin to imagine how you feel about that situation.
Like how all relationships cannot mend, all friendships cannot mend. I think you need to either sit down and speak with him and discuss where this is going; however, if you don't feel like speaking with him because of what you've learned, then that is ok also. You probably would want him to explain himself, but to tell the truth, there could be a manipulation of the situation, so you can't hang onto his every word if there is already distrust amongst the friendship.
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Awe.....don't be mad......because after all you are just his friend....
Maybe he wants to have fun with ssomeone or he doesn't want your relationship to go down hill because of him.....
