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I've been wondering.. When a guy is always put into the friends category with girls/women.. how does he get out that label? Is it hopeless?
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Personally, I always want to be friends with a guy before I start a relationship with him. So I don't think it's hopeless. I'm not exactly sure what a guy would have to do to get his friend to notice him as more than a friend though.
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A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
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A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
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The only way you will get out of that label is when the girl/woman sees you as a guy she could date or someone she is attracted to you. If she doesnt like you anymore than a friend than you are pretty much a friend.
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it's hard to get out of that category.
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you gotta go out your ways for them to realise the dateable traits in you
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I've been wondering.. When a guy is always put into the friends category with girls/women.. how does he get out that label? Is it hopeless?
He gets out of that lable, when you feel more for him than a friend or a good friend, or if he backstabbs your back then he's in the enemy section. it depends on what you mean. But keep in mind, it's not hopeless, anything is possible, ok??????
wait am i answering the question right??........um....oh well.......................................................
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The only way you'll ever get out of the Just Friends category is if she wants you out of that category.
Then the question is how you get her to want that.
And I think the only answer to that is show her that you're interested in her, and get her to be interested in you.
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people always say
first friends, then lovers or something like that
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people always say
first friends, then lovers or something like that
actually only u say that everyone else has the lovers first (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) v
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Dude, you're totally at an advantage. You can easily take advantage of a girl when she's down. Why? She sees you as a friend and would like for you to comfort her.
Well, I'm not saying you should take advantage of her, but when she's down, you can bring her up.
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Dude, you're totally at an advantage. You can easily take advantage of a girl when she's down. Why? She sees you as a friend and would like for you to comfort her.
Well, I'm not saying you should take advantage of her, but when she's down, you can bring her up.
hmm.. interesting... you got game boii lol.. not bad hahhaha (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif)
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Personally, I always want to be friends with a guy before I start a relationship with him. So I don't think it's hopeless.
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Maybe this is just me
But when I have a really close guy friend
And I can talk to him really easily,
and he's always there. I usually will feel more
then 'just friends' for him but I probably wouldn't
say anything and just keep being friends with him
because it would mess up the relationship alot.
So maybe you should try showing a little more interest in her,
not as a friend but as more. See what she does, if she starts
getting distant, stick to being friends.
-Chloe
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Maybe this is just me
But when I have a really close guy friend
And I can talk to him really easily,
and he's always there. I usually will feel more
then 'just friends' for him but I probably wouldn't
say anything and just keep being friends with him
because it would mess up the relationship alot.
So maybe you should try showing a little more interest in her,
not as a friend but as more. See what she does, if she starts
getting distant, stick to being friends.
-Chloe
hmmmm, this liek helps me cause im in teh same situation as topic starter haha so coolios!
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A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
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it's not hopeless.
you still have a chance of being more then just friends.
hopefully and eventually she'll figure out all the small things that you have done for her and it all adds up, for her to realise it.
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hmm.. interesting... you got game boii lol.. not bad hahhaha (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/phew.gif)
I like to play games. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)
