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So do you guys think it's impossible to come back from a break? or a break up? Obviously things won't be the same, but I'm kind of stuck in this situation. I dumped my boyfriend but I see him for the majority of the day, it's kind of hard to start to get over him. And when I see him, all these memories kind of rush back. So we've contemplated getting back together. And we're still good friends. We're still going to prom together. Okay, then this leads me to another question, do you think it's possible for a person to change a part of their personality? He gets a bit apathetic sometimes and I have this paranoia/worrying complex. It's pretty bad.
Sorry, I guess this turned out to be a rant. Anyway, replies are appreciated =)
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well i jus think u shood wait to see wa happens ...
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just from my personal experience, i learned that once you break up . . it's just better that way.
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Aren't breaks and break-ups different in a way?
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Aren't breaks and break-ups different in a way?
Yea... ha. I suppose I meant breaks, even though I'm broken up. Breaks never boded well with me anyway. Such an ambiguous land.
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Aren't breaks and break-ups different in a way?
i don't know if you were talking to me (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif) , but i meant both.
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i don't know if you were talking to me (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif) , but i meant both.
If I did, I would've quoted like I am doing now or used the carat symbol (IMG:style_emoticons/default/tongue.gif)
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hmm =/ breaks are hard.. hte way i see it a break is just leading to the break up... bleh it wont be the same..
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it just all comes down to how much you guys want things to work out between you and how much you care for eachother.
honestly, if you guys feel you still really want to be with eachother during/after the break/breakup, then its obviously not going be in the way of you guys getting back together.
sometimes it's worth giving eachother a 2nd chance.
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it really depends.
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One friend of mine had a break which lead to a break up,
And another friend who had a break up and got back together again
Maybe it's better to start over again
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Breaks mean breakups.
Well to me they do.
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it just all comes down to how much you guys want things to work out between you and how much you care for eachother.
honestly, if you guys feel you still really want to be with eachother during/after the break/breakup, then its obviously not going be in the way of you guys getting back together.
sometimes it's worth giving eachother a 2nd chance.
I quite agree with that, really. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Perhaps this second chance may be the best for you, maybe not. But if you guys do have feelings for each other still, then maybe give it a try. If you were to, surely this second try would not be the same as the first, for it has already been dented. Or ..you might learn to cherish the other even more. It all depends ..good luck, and sorry I wasn't much of a help.
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i had a bf of 2 years, he wouldnt give me my space or breaks when i asked for it. i got tired of dealing with him, and needed to find out who i am, do what i need to do, so i broke up with him. and now i feel so freeeeeeeeee even though i do miss him, but it feels good to be independent, and not having a communist around. boyfriends are totally communists.
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It depends on your situation. Sometimes long time couples need a break to figure out a problem or if they still miss each other even when not a couple. I believe it is possible to come back from a break.
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Well, breaks are more like Let's separate for now, but I want you to be there when I need you back in my life again. Break-ups = We're over.
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i think breaks are BS, either you wanna be witht the person or you dont.
its a cop out and its unfair for both parties.
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it's not impossible to get back together after a break up..
but if you guys broke up, then there's a reason why you did that..
so maybe it's better that way?
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Well, I love this guy at work - my colleague. We quarelled a lot when we meet at work, I missed him when I don't see him. Now he has left the company, I still miss having him around, but in my case, it's out of sight, out of mind. We still keep in touch but it's like once in a while.
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If you feel that it's right, then go for it. Whatever makes
you and him happy, then go for it ..
As for changing a part of someone .. you can't really change
a person =\. That really depends on the person.
