Question:
hey all,
your in a relationship and what happens is that she has problems... and she wants to talk to someone about it, she dont turn to you so she turns to your mate..
he sits there and listens to all her talking.... then on the same that she lost feelings for you and gain feelings for him......
later on a few days..
i found out whats going on..
and all he said was i was doing you a favour
i was doing the listening part of you...
then i think to myself.. wtH! i didnt ask for a favour....
funny thing was...
when he first meet her..
he wanted her...
so what should i do now? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)
Answer:
Don't do anything about it, in my opinion.
The more you chase her, she will grow irritated towards you (I've gone through that and I know)
If she feels she's better with him, what can you do? She'll be bound to leave you some other day anyway.
But if she realizes that leaving you was wrong, she'll have learned and come back.
Good luck?
Answer:
If she feels she's better with him, what can you do? She'll be bound to leave you some other day anyway.
But if she realizes that leaving you was wrong, she'll have learned and come back.
uhm... there is probably a reason why she doesnt want to talk to U about her problemz... probably cause yu never really listened to her...~ and your friend likes her and listens to her.. which is something she needz... he listens to her cause he wants to be there for her.. cause he likez her...
she obviously soundz better off with him.. no offence
Answer:
He said he was doing you a favor when he knows he only listend to her because she's showing him attention...he still likes her...and he thinks by listening to her he can potentially have her...(and perhaps he likes her enough to just be around her in private)...sounds like what she wants is a guy who can listen to her...and be there for her perhaps thats what your not providing...bottom line homie is he's given her in that moment something you have, or used to give her...you need to find out what that is, and give it back...if somethings working for you don't change the formula
