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okay..this is the situation here.
its about my sister and her bf and a so called good friend of hers
my sister- cindy
her bf- tomoki
the so called good friend- bao (IMG:style_emoticons/default/crazy.gif)
the other true good friend- meuy (been friends since junior high and now they are freshmens in college)
so cindy and tomoki are going out. cindy approach him first in january of 2006. but they both like eachother anyways, but cindy is just making the first move. well her so called good friend bao..who is a (*@#&($*&@..and worst than paris hilton, seems to always takes cindy's bfs away from her because of her i'm a whore and i can't get enough of my good friend cindy's bfs. well they been going out for almost 4 months (the longest relationship cindy has ever had because of bao), and then what do you know..its SPRING BREAK. and tomoki was like..i'm going camping so don't cheat of me okay. cindy was like i can trust you and you trust me right? he was like yes i can. the world has turn its back on both of them. Tomoki was caught with bao while cindy was off to her cousins place which is out of town. cindy was spending her spring break with her cousins and sisters because we all been so busy that we just decided all hung out during our spring break. went shopping, met a couple of guys but cindy didn't bother talking to any of them because she was being loyal. anyways cindy's other good friend meuy spot bao and tomoki together shopping, holding hands, hugging, kissing all those stuff and things that couples do at the mall. shocker! this was all during i'm going camping time...(IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif) ...well he called and lied that he twisted his ankle...har har...wat a liar.
he was everyday at teh mall with bao doing those daily couple things..
anways..cindy feels second best and also...every single guy she dates..bao always seems to take them away...
i tell cindy stop the dating for a while and for the last time. QUICK HANGING OUT WITH BAO.
but the thing is cindy thinks that bao is still a good friend to her and
also....friends makes mistakes (MISTAKES alright (IMG:style_emoticons/default/w00t.gif) ) and you'll have to LEARN to forgive them...blah blah blah...
well i told her with a loud and clear voice GOOD FRIENDS BECOMES GREAT ENEMIE!!!
another bigger shocker!
bao happens to be..sadly....a far away relative of ours.
so give her some good advice.
o btw...cindy's sn for soompi is cin
so if any you wants to talk to her personaly go for it and pm her..
why i am making this thread..well because i'm on teh computer right now and
cindy is always constantly telling me her sad stories of her and her exs...she needs new advice..
for once i am tired of being the love doctor to her....please help her..yes i'll tell her to come and read this thread.
thank you
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Cindy, are you stupid or dumb? I think either or. Anyway, it's quite obvious that you're not in their league. Loyal.. that's some bull droppings. Hahahaha, oh my Lord. Get away from them. The both of them. Don't even be friends with them. They are not worth your time and will only bring you pain. Do you think a good friend steals your boyfriend away? Do you think you can trust a boyfriend that lets a girl steal him away? Do you think you can really keep doing this to yourself? You're probably thinking yes, yes yes, but the answer is no, no, no! It's best to just let go and get on with your life. Listen to your sister. She is more experienced than you. Cindy is a noob and got pwnt in this game!
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my phone number is (713)284-8374
please pass it on to bao for me, she sounds hot. thanks.
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^i'm not experienced, i'm younger than cindy and also..i observe ppl and put it all together.
thanks for the advice. i hope it gets through her.
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if she was a friend.. she wouldn't have even thought of doing that to you let alone actually doing it... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif)
ditch her and your bf.... YOU CAN DO A LOT BETTER THAN THEM!!
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GET RID OF BAO. Confront her first, then get rid of her.
Don't go soft, 'Aww Okay, now I understand, I forgive you.. blah, blah
Because she's taking advantage of you and stepping all over you and you're
letting her. Friends do make mistakes, but don't forgive them right away.
Let them prove to you they are sorry, that it was mistake.
Don't continue forgiving her, has she done anything to make up for the things she did?
Probably no, even if she did, she messed that up by getting with your boyfriend.
Get rid of her.
Saves you the drama.
-Chloe
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^i'm not experienced, i'm younger than cindy and also..i observe ppl and put it all together.
thanks for the advice. i hope it gets through her.
You know what the saddest thing is?
It seems as though you're the older sister of your own older sister. Situations like this piss me off. Older siblings are supposed to be role models- not idiots.
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oh its CIN?
i see her around
i swear to god she needs to kill herbf first
then her friend
i`d go and punch the hell out of her
she should DO something
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my phone number is (713)284-8374
please pass it on to bao for me, she sounds hot. thanks.
you can get a better chick than that bro
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Oh that girl needs a b*tch slap. i mean flirting would be like (IMG:style_emoticons/default/ohmy.gif) , dont flirt with my Bf, thats wrong! but holding hands and freaken kissing?! is kissing no big deal or soemthing? was someone drunk?! and in public too. what frikken ... .Even a friend wouldn't do that. and i hear that girl did it so many timess? The heck?!
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i feel stupid.
thank you for your advice. now imma go wreck her car.
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Cindy.
1) Listen to your YOUNGER sister (O_o.. boy does that sound wrong)
2) Bao is a whore
3) Dump Tomiko and go out with his best friend (LOL joking just dump him)
4) IF meuy says she saw them in the mall kissin n all that crap don't b like OH IT'S OKAY! BAO'S A GOOD FRIEND I'LL FORGIVE HER N WHEN WE GROW UP I'LL LET HER STEAL MY HUSBAND 2....
I still don't see why u still friends with her???.... It's clear she's a man if u be losing you man to her all the time? ... like... HMM i gues... all my boyfriends just seduce her all the time??.. hahah no ur friend HAS a PROBLEM. Go dump him because now u know HE'S UNFAITHFUL and she's jsut a paris hilton #2
i feel stupid.
thank you for your advice. now imma go wreck her car.
LOL... WOW GO WRITE WH0RE ON IT!!
lol im joking that's mean but that b interestin
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^^lol, you are lucky to have a sister that watches your back
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^ i agree... your sister jst cares a lot for you. but cindy you should really break up with that jerk and yell at your supposedly best friend... you`re seriously too nice or something cuz i would never forgive a friend if they stole my bf away... bcuz you keep forgiving her thats why she probly keeps stealing them away from you cuz she knows your weak & that you wont fight back. you really need to take a stand & have your voice heard. let her know that you`re tough & you`re not weak as she thinks you are.. man i just want to yell at that girl... thats so damn f*ckin low of her..... wow.... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/dry.gif) well.. hope things work out for you... t`karez.
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i feel stupid.
thank you for your advice. now imma go wreck her car.
bao ass needs to get spanked.
the bf needs to get spanked.
but bao needs more spanking.
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never heard the phrase keep your friends close, and your enemies closer
stop hanging out with that girl. itll just hurt you. and hes a bastar*d. you can do so much better. now get a guy on your own rather than with bao. she just needs you to get guys.
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Cindy...you're such a soft-hearted person.
Like me...you just keep accepting them for who they are....forgiving their mistakes, and moving on.
But sometimes...enough is enough. Maybe Bao and TOmoki has always got a thing going...whatever the case is with the two of them. Let it happen. Let Bao get Tomoki...and make herself think she's better.
But REMEMBER, that you are NOT and NOT EVER 2nd best to your friend. So therefore, never tell yourself this. When the right guy comes along...no matter how hot the girl sitting across the room from him is...his eyes will only be on you...because, that's how you know...if he's truly worthy. Good luck~
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I advise Cindy to kick both their asses in a final showdown thingy! You can be on her her side and it would be a fair two on two! Show the whore who owns! And show the manwhore the boot! Yeah!
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Cindy: Don't think about other people and how they make mistakes. Don't think about how Bao and Tomoki might be good people deep inside. Think about yourself for once. Think about how they affect you. The best thing YOU can do for YOURSELF is to ditch those two. Make a clean break. Even if you're attached, those two relationships can't do you any good in the end. So why are they in your life? Up to a certain point, you just have to stop being so tolerant and start taking control and deciding what positive growth you want for yourself.
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bao is not a friend. relative maybe, but not a friend. i suggest that cindy moves on. a boyfriend that lies and cheats is not worth it, plenty of fish and friends in the sea. ;D
