Question:
lets say your boyfriend or girlfriend went on someone's page (xanga, myspace) a lot of times (30 or 40 times) and you found out
would you
A ) assume he or she likes that person
B ) went on it out of boredom
C ) other?
Answer:
1. i would trust my gf
2. i would look at it myself to see if it was just interesting
3. i would just ask my gf straight out what's up
4. i wouldn't jump to any conclusions
Answer:
well...
- depends if it's someone of the opposite sex:
if yes: then maybe unless the site is really educational like how to climb walls without ropes
if no: i'd ask him straight out what's going on
also depends what they're looking at, if it's porno shots then i'd get pretty upset. if it's just going on about someones life, actually i'd get even more upset because that means he cares about them a lot and want to know about the trivial matters of their life.
ok best bet is just ask them. dont' assume
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I would ask my s/o why they gone on that page so much.
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i'd say B .. i trust my gf =]
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i trust my bf. my bf never leaves me comments on my xanga but i see him leave other ppl comments. doesnt bother me at all. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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B. But, before assuming anything, just ask them straight up.
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Yeah, like the above said ^ just ask them. You can't jump to conclusions.
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1. i would trust my gf
2. i would look at it myself to see if it was just interesting
3. i would just ask my gf straight out what's up
4. i wouldn't jump to any conclusions
I agree with the 1st, 2nd, and 4th thing you said but I wouldn't confront them unless I suspected that something really was up :] like if he's been being weird or something
Anyways, I'd go with B... don't jump to conclusions (IMG:style_emoticons/default/happy.gif) just talk it out if you need to. and besides, maybe they do have an interesting myspace/xanga~~
EDIT:
okay, I just read vanity's response and if they were looking at weird pictures [if it were someone you knew on the site] then yah, you have a problem... and I'd get upset
Answer:
Depends:
Over what length of time?
Was there ever a thing between them?
Does his/her friend use or know their accounts password?
Etc etc.
checking peoples' myspace isn't something to fuse about. Now if s/he left 20messages saying I 3 you, then you have a problem.
Answer:
it depends whose page it is and why he was looking at it
and was it like 30-40 visits in one day? or over a long period of time?
but generally.. i would just assume he was looking at it for the pictures or was just bored..
i would still ask him wsup tho haha
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wow you are a stalker of your own s.o
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lol i wouldnt care.
first i wouldnt check how many times he looks at other peoples pages (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) .
it seems as though trust is an issue.
anywho he doesnt look at xanga anyway.. lol
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Well you should have trust in them cus its one of the important things in a relationship. I would just think he went as for a boredom. Showing you don't have trust is not a good sign.
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B. cuz i do that..XD
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I wouldn`t knoe wat to think, but I would be mad. That`s just the type of person I am; I would ask him about it, too.
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Went on it out of boredom. That's what I do (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
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1. i would trust my gf
2. i would look at it myself to see if it was just interesting
3. i would just ask my gf straight out what's up
4. i wouldn't jump to any conclusions
yeahh.. i agree with everything he just said.
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depends...see if she looks at any other pages alot. and see whats so interestin about the page, maybe theres some nice stuff to read about or they update everyday or something..
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....friends? i duno i like reading blogs so ... ITS ONLY blogs so ...
