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Sorry if this should be in the sex thread but...
What’s happening to the ‘respect yourself and your body’ thing? And one night stands/friends with benefits are more common than I thought it was. The age where people have sex is also getting younger and younger.. Or am I just not up to par with the ways of our society? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
Also, I’m starting to wonder, will a guy take his chance to have sex even if he doesn’t particularly like the girl? Now I’m worried that one day I’ll fall for a guy’s sweetness and do what he wants because I think he loves me.
What are your thoughts on this stuff?
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people just want to do what makes them feels good
i try not to think too much about it
Also, I’m starting to wonder, will a guy take his chance to have sex even if he doesn’t particularly like the girl?
i cant answer for all guys, but i will take my chance if i m single and if the girl is hot enough (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)
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Sorry if this should be in the sex thread but...
What’s happening to the ‘respect yourself and your body’ thing? And one night stands/friends with benefits are more common than I thought it was. The age where people have sex is also getting younger and younger.. Or am I just not up to par with the ways of our society? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/mellow.gif)
Also, I’m starting to wonder, will a guy take his chance to have sex even if he doesn’t particularly like the girl? Now I’m worried that one day I’ll fall for a guy’s sweetness and do what he wants because I think he loves me.
What are your thoughts on this stuff?
i agree with you 100%.
but i think it comes down to how your parents brought you up.
as for what you're wondering, yeah, i just read a thread a few minutes ago where the guy took advantage of a girl because she truly liked him. i think...sex after marriage is the safest path if you're concerned if a guy is only using you for sex.
cheers ^^*
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That worries me too actually especially what you said about falling for some guy's charm and bam. Makes me less trusting towards guys.
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I dont think it depends on how your parents brought you up.
I have a lot of friends that were brought up Anti sex, and they always find ways to do it without their parents knowing.
And then i have friends that never talk about sex with their parents & they dont want to have sex anytime soon.
but as far as sex becoming more casual.. thats like,. obvious..
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guys will have sex even if they have no intention of dating the girl. as for getting duped into having sex by a sweet-talking guy who says the three magic words... there's not really a way to prevent that from happening (except for abstaining from sex itself) unless he has a history and reputation of doing something like that.
i'm not the kind of person that believes sex is sacred but i do believe that kids these days are having sex waaaay too early (some of these kids have barely even gone through puberty yet). i think the only time i thought sex was sacred was before i had it.
as for respecting myself/body... if myself/body wants to have sex, i'm going to have it.
also, you shouldn't do what he wants because you think he loves you. always and only do what you are comfortable with.
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If you've never had sex, you're uncool.
If you don't have experience, your love-life is dead.
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I agree with you. Sex is becoming too casual.
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If you've never had sex, you're uncool.
If you don't have experience, your love-life is dead.
^So by having sex a lot of times and gaining that experience you'd be looked upon when it comes to love ?
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It is how you're socialized. If you were raised in an enviornment of praise, fun, and in the city, you'll be like a typical teenager. You know, smoke weed once in a while, have sex once in a while, and drink while you're still in high school. Why would you go home after school everyday, open up your backpack and sit at the your desk all day.
People say that isn't cool, but it is damn fun. I'd rather be having sex, than studying to get in the same school I'd be getting into without all the partying. Damn, once you get into a state university it doesn't matter. I'd rather go to UW than an Ivy league school. Why the hell would anyone want to go there. Don't they realize that once you get over 70k a year salary, that your ability to buy things diminishes.
So for all you high schoolers, get a 3.6 average and a good enough SAT score so that you can go to an average university. Don't party too much so that you fail, but just party enough so that you won't be missing out on the last free years of your life. Once you get into your twenties it'll be a 40+ hour work week, that will leave you with barely any free time.
Go have sex casually, just don't catch something from someone that says they're a virgin but they're really not. Uptight people ftl.
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i don't think it depends on your upbringing either. sure, your parents may be an influence but in the end it's really up to you. i've been told not to have sex until i'm 28 (yes, they gave me a specific age) and i was taught all the basic things about how important your education is etc etc. and for a while i didn't believe in premarital sex, but that changed.
i agree that sex has become quite casual but then again, i don't see more people who go around sleeping with each other than those going around telling people how they don't believe in sex before marriage. there is a balance, even though it may seem like there isn't because more people speak up about having sex rather than not.
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^So by having sex a lot of times and gaining that experience you'd be looked upon when it comes to love ?
i think he's being sarcastic and mocking society.
i don't think it depends on your upbringing either. sure, your parents may be an influence but in the end it's really up to you. i've been told not to have sex until i'm 28 (yes, they gave me a specific age) and i was taught all the basic things about how important your education is etc etc. and for a while i didn't believe in premarital sex, but that changed.
i agree that sex has become quite casual but then again, i don't see more people who go around sleeping with each other than those going around telling people how they don't believe in sex before marriage. there is a balance, even though it may seem like there isn't because more people speak up about having sex rather than not.
how did ur view on premarital sex changed?
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^So by having sex a lot of times and gaining that experience you'd be looked upon when it comes to love ?
Of course. I'd give you all the quotes that people from THIS FORUM told me, but meh, I don't want to look through every thread I've been to.
Supposedly guys don't like prude girls, and supposedly, you need experience, and supposedly, if you don't have experience, you're not going to know what the hell you're doing and supposedly the other person will break if off cause you don't have the experience.
Of course, I figure my method is better, cause it's much less conformed and requires more patience from both parties, which I think is better overall. Better than knowing how to do everything and then sh*t comes up and then both people are surprised that it even happened in the first place.
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i think he's being sarcastic and mocking society.
Yes, you're catching on quick (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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yes it is
it's becoming more casual all around the world
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I dunno, I've never had sex before so I can't really say anything, but my friends have talked and they said to be quite honest, sex is overrated once you keep doing it.
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I agree and don't worry, I'm still respecting my body. No one touches it but the one who really loves me! haha. (excluding kissing and hold hands and huggin)
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Yeah. In this thread, everyone's always talking about sex. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif) I agree, it's now somewhat casual. I don't believe in losing your virginity before you marry. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) At our school, no one really has sex. A minority of the students have sex, but yeah. So for all you high schoolers, get a 3.6 average and a good enough SAT score so that you can go to an average university. Don't party too much so that you fail, but just party enough so that you won't be missing out on the last free years of your life. Once you get into your twenties it'll be a 40+ hour work week, that will leave you with barely any free time. Not true. Our school is one the most competitive schools, and a 3.6 won't get you anywhere. Actually, if you priortize your life, and don't procrastinate, you're able to get straight A's in all 3 Honors/AP classes AND have fun without any alcohol or illegal drugs. My dad works more than 40 hours a week, yet he spends time with us no matter what. He's successful, has his own business, so on and so forth. So, as you can see, you just need some prioritizing in your life.
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^Are they ooo busy with work to f*ck around?
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i agree that sex has become quite casual but then again, i don't see more people who go around sleeping with each other than those going around telling people how they don't believe in sex before marriage. there is a balance, even though it may seem like there isn't because more people speak up about having sex rather than not.
qft. Atleast that part of the post.
I believe that a part of it is attributed to social upbringing: how you were raised, your friends, their views and what you see and read off the telly and magazines.
There will always be those that want to take sex seriously, not just themselves but hope that their partner feels the same way so they have something to give that no one else can take away. Times have changed though, sex isn't as close minded and repressed as it used to be.
The problem is that there are those that take sex too casually and in turn, ruin their life when it comes to unwanted pregnancy or disease.
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i dont know why people is that drama to do that when they didnt even went out but started to have sex first and then worries about him or she liking you??? how gay
