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would you continue to date and marry your s/o, even if your parents were completely against it? if there was no hope of changing their minds.. would you follow your parent's wishes, or would you risk being disowned and follow your heart?
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it's going to be my life... and whoever i choose to love and be happy with is going to affect my life most, not theirs... so i'm going to follow my heart...
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follow heart.
it's my life
why would you obey your parents and live a life with some other man you don't even love.
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so you guys are saying that you would choose your s/o over your parents? it would be okay to desert them and live a life without them, just so you can be with your s/o?
i don't know what i would do.. because my parents are the ones who took care of me my whole life.
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so you guys are saying that you would choose your s/o over your parents? it would be okay to desert them and live a life without them, just so you can be with your s/o?
i don't know what i would do.. because my parents are the ones who took care of me my whole life.
it's their choice whether they don't want to be a part of my life if i married a guy they didn't like.
i'm not shunning them.
anyway, in reality, my parents aren't strict at all with guys.
so i can't ever imagine that happening.
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yes they've taken care of u ur whole life... like say 20 or so years...? but u still have about 60 years to go... i'd rather live those years happy than unhappy....
of course even if they choose to disown me from then on, i'd still make an effort to make them understand that it's MY life... and it's my descision to choose to marry who i love...
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i see, i see. i was just curious. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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itz my life.. so i would follow my heart
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Definitely my heart.
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Definitely my parents!!!!!!!
it's always gotta be my family before anything else.
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I'd just follow my parents' advice and stop seeing him.
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My life, my choice. Unless they had very reasonable reasons to why I shop stop seeing the person.
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it's my life, and my decision. i would follow my heart instead of obeying my parents. however.. that's just my parents though. i don't trust their judgement.
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Probably follow the heart since you are marrying the person you love, and not the person your family loves. After you marry your s/o you shouldn't ditch your parents either. You should still try to take care of them for taking care of you all these years.
Also you're not choosing your s/o over your parents. Even if your parents claim you're not their child anymore you can still try to take care of them, and hope eventually they'll understand.
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My life, my choice. Unless they had very reasonable reasons to why I shop stop seeing the person.
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follow my heart.
my parents recently was against me dating my current boyfriend..and they said they would talk to his parents about something he did..so i just broke up with him because i didn't wanna be the reason his family broke apart.. _ but after i did that.. i realized that this is MY life. yeah, they have the right to decide things for me since they ARE my parents, but when it comes to who i date, no. kkkk so i talked to my parents..cried,begged,kneeled so that they would approve. haha in the end everyone was happy. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)
so yeah, follow the heart
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if i love him, and i know that he's the one for me; then i will follow my heart (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
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I would not disown my family for a guy, even if it is a superstar.
Generally, my parents know me best, and they always want good things for me, so I would listen to them.
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i think u should listen to ur parents... their old.. wise.. they just want whats best for u.
i followed my heart and ..... i wished i woulda listened to them....
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I guess it would depend on how family oriented one is. There are those that follow their parents wishes no matter what they say, and put their own feelings aside.
I for one, am rediculously far from that when it comes to certain subjects; who I date/marry DEFINITELY being one of them.
Parents should have no say in this day and age on whom their children end up with. Parents want their kids to grow up to be successful and happy, but happiness should come first.
Nonetheless, I'd definitely go with the heart over the parents.
