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there's this korean guy in my year who's uber nice and smart. etc. but then. he likes this girl, who's kinda my friend. but they dont really work out that well...and me and him...we get along well...i guess, and we flirt alot. and he's kinda leading me on. i think. and im kinda falling for him. but logically. to me. i shouldnt.
so the question is.*drumroll* xp
In matters of love/dating do you let love or logic rule?
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In matters of love/dating do you let love or logic rule?
I'm really sorry to tell you this. Love and Dating are two TOTALLY different things.
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in matters of LOVE i would let emotions rule.
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in my case, i tend to let logic rule...
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Both... You cannot either let one side totally takes over because you need balance of both things...
You can use logic to figure out stuffs like love, but then you will come up with so many variations and complications in your thinking, just like I did. Sometimes, the feeling take prescint over logic.
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I don't know how you can compare love with logic let alone ask people if they can choose between the two.
When it comes to developing feelings for the other person, there's no way you can control that. You can't turn your feelings on and off.. that's what makes feelings feelings. They're not math or science problems that have a clear cut answer.
I guess the best I can say is, it's okay to have certain feelings. You're human. There's nothing wrong with you and you shouldn't question yourself because of feelings. What makes your character is how you act upon those feelings. (Is that what you're trying to ask?)
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Both... You cannot either let one side totally takes over because you need balance of both things...
You can use logic to figure out stuffs like love, but then you will come up with so many variations and complications in your thinking, just like I did. Sometimes, the feeling take prescint over logic.
actually logic make things easier for me, emotion complicate things
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I do NOT want to lose myself to emotions.
Pretty violent nature (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sleep.gif)
Which is why I always keep myself locked away using logic and limitless confidence + optimism.
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I alwayslet logic rule however I believe that emotions should rule. I'm just too practical to be ruled by my emotions. Plus I don't like to get hurt and that generally happens with emotionally based decisions. It seems in your situation, I would be logical cuz flirting doesn't equal interested. He could just be naturally flirty. If he isn't then he probably is interested in you. Also, if the girl isn't your best friend and they didn't end badly then its got nothing to do with u. just my opinion. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) good luck, be confident that he can like u.
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Be logical, love happens over time. This is just a deep liking.
Honestly, most of the time, I'm not a logical person. I guess I prefer to be an emotional masochist.
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When I fall for someone I tend to use my emotions at first, but then I do use my logic eventually.
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I'm not gonna give you a straigh answer...it really depends...if you've got a lot of pride riding on to it then I'd say logic but if you really love him then LOVE
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i choose love over logic.. even if i know thats stupid of me..
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both, you can't rely on either completely but instead both.
sure love has a factor, but logic plays a role in this too.
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If you are truely in love, love overpowers logic.
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This is one i'm testing my self...In dating i'm a very logical precise i can't read...I play games and i can't read around....Perhaps the fact that I don't have this idea that any girl is ever the one made it so i was a successful dater...I did however recently meet the girl I am currently with and in love with...I did like Roxette and listen to your heart for the first time. Infact its actually the first time its spoke up...and after first it was incredibly discerning as there was this battle that says...No don't do that romantic thing for her...you will seem weak and needy...you will ultimately lose her so dont' do it...but my heart says I wanna do it because it will make her smile and seeing her smile is completely worth the outcome...
So far i've been listening to my heart and we are in love and its totally worked for me....
In dating I listend to my mind, played around, and found the one i love so maybe do both... Just know when to listen to which
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Logic well always be there but no one should ever let it over come love.
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Love and LOGIC will never equal together and in the games of love, logic will always be pushed aside.
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When you love, let love rule.
When you don't love someone, whether or not you two are dating, let logic rule.
Right now you don't love him. You're just starting to like him. So let logic rule before you put your heart in his hands and he drops it on accident.
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logic!
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